True Lilith in the 7th house?

What would this mean for relationships? I am curious to what its deeper meaning may hold. My true Lilith is in Taurus (7 degrees)...which for me is in the 7th house, but my MEAN Lilith is in Aries (13 degrees)...the 6th house. What is the difference between the mean and the true Lilith positions and which one is most relevant in the birth chart? Assuming True Lilith is most important I have come up with these results when researching:

LILITH IN TAURUS gives extraordinary love for the beauty and big emotional activity. You look for your security needs in a relationship, contacting others by flirting. With gifts and properties others can attract you, and probably you achieve material security in a partnership. But you maybe get disturbed by the material dependence then, and your emotional harmony turns out of the balance.

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LILITH IN THE 7th HOUSE causes a fight between a commitment urge and a strive for independence. Perhaps you are able to analyze your own psychological situation in every detail, but you succumb to the temptation to change nothing, showing the same behaviors again and again, of which you know exactly that you harm yourself. Gladly you manipulate your fellow beings with best intentions and flirts are your specialty. Also, you love the music and show your mediating, always fair and harmony-referring nature.

source: http://solar_a_w_e_f.tripod.com/starsforever/id6.html


My true and mean Lilith are in totally different locations! It is strange because some of my friends' charts do not have such a large difference between their mean and true Lilith. It is very strange. I am still trying to learn more about the topic. On top of that my true Lilith was during a retrograde period for the black star. 7 degrees into Taurus.

Thoughts? Others with Lilith in their 7th house? Retrograde even?

Let me redo the link.. no idea why it linked it all.

Source: http://solar_a_w_e_f.tripod.com/starsforever/id6.html

1181 is true Lilith, right?

Yes it is!

that's an asteroid not true lilith.

Posted by BigEyesBigLies
that's an asteroid not true lilith.

So Lilith is different than True Lilith? Is that why Mean and True also differentiate? Are there multiple? Lilith is new to me entirely. I am trying to grasp why there are different locations entirely, and as for the asteroid difference, I am thrown off as to why the asteroid is 1181 yet the others do not correlate with that? So they are all different entities entirely?

there are a lot of articles about it.
Look up darkstar astrology.

Mean and true Lilith are related to moon positions. There is also an asteroid called Lilith which has a completely different position than moon Lilith. I tend to use asteroid Lilith, but then it is only a matter of taste and preference.

Lilith in 7th house is about committed relationships and being obsessed about finding the right one. The one that will treat you with respect. It's like you can't open up fully if he/she does not meet your expectations. Depending on other aspects, this could mean you are not figthting enough to get respectful love or you set your expectations too high (like unrealistic). Or, if everything is in balance, you are meant to find happiness in love, especially if you are a bit patient.

I don't buy the 'witch' accusations made on her. For me, Lilith is about obsessions in love and sensuality and slander when things go wrong. Nothing more.

I wrote down my thoughts about Lilith in the House here: http://learn-astrology-concepts.blogspot.fr/2015/10/lilith-in-houses-natal-chart.html.

For the signs, it is here: http://learn-astrology-concepts.blogspot.fr/2015/10/lilith-transits-in-zodiac-signs.html.

Posted by Poupidou
Mean and true Lilith are related to moon positions. There is also an asteroid called Lilith which has a completely different position than moon Lilith. I tend to use asteroid Lilith, but then it is only a matter of taste and preference.

Lilith in 7th house is about committed relationships and being obsessed about finding the right one. The one that will treat you with respect. It's like you can't open up fully if he/she does not meet your expectations. Depending on other aspects, this could mean you are not figthting enough to get respectful love or you set your expectations too high (like unrealistic). Or, if everything is in balance, you are meant to find happiness in love, especially if you are a bit patient.

I don't buy the 'witch' accusations made on her. For me, Lilith is about obsessions in love and sensuality and slander when things go wrong. Nothing more.

I wrote down my thoughts about Lilith in the House here: http://learn-astrology-concepts.blogspot.fr/2015/10/lilith-in-houses-natal-chart.html.

For the signs, it is here: http://learn-astrology-concepts.blogspot.fr/2015/10/lilith-transits-in-zodiac-signs.html.

Turns out regardless of anything, the True Lilith is what rings true for me. Mean Lilith still rings true; however, I relate more to Lilith in the 7th/Lilith in Taurus. Mean Lilith is very prevalent too though. It's kind of strange, but I see both in me.

LILITH IN THE 6th HOUSE often lets you succumb to rational temptations of perfection, correctness and hygiene. On the other hand also an irrational, intuitive attraction shows up. A fight between understanding and feeling could occur here. Perhaps you internally hate all the perfection and such things. You may misjudge the reality frequently, and you take the liberty to place criticism without the necessary objectivity at the same time. Your psychological understanding is very noticeably and perhaps you find your healing in helping other people, in healing and in sympathy for others. In partnerships and relations it could come to a conflict between your thirst for autonomy and an urge to commit yourself to the other. If your public life gets too stressful you may tend to retreat from it for a while.

LILITH IN ARIES often causes an extreme strive for autonomy, leading to problems in partnerships, because you are very interested in partnerships. Perhaps you are changing restlessly possible life partners without committing yourself, because there is always anything wrong with them. With flirts you are courageously, quickly and also successfully, possibly tending to one nite stands. Partnerships and sexual matters can be of uncertainty. You are fair, fighting for justice and peace.