Inconjunct compatibilty

I really hate making generalizations but this one, I just can't help but share with you... Is it just me or do inconjunct relationships seem to be the longest, strongest, happiest, and most understanding relationships out of all the other options?

A lot of my family members who are inconjunct relationships seem to be the happiest.

I see a lot of Aries and Virgo, cancer and aquarius, Virgo and aquarius, Scorpio and Gemini, Capricorn and Leo, Pisces and libra, and Taurus and Sagittarius withstanding life obstacles and remaining in happy/loving unions.

Of course this doesn't apply to everyone but I am speaking in terms of majority.

Anyone else notice this pattern?

Nope🙂 haha

Like these two charts?

Male:
asc- aquarius
sun- scorpio
moon - taurus
venus - sag
mars - capricorn

Female:
asc - cancer
sun- gemini
moon - sag
venus- gemini
mars- cancer

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briana, you dont like me (taurus) or gemini? por que no??

i love Sagittarius 🙂 i dont know if i would want to date one, because firey tempers frighten me, but i enjoy your presence and friendship. We just clique and hit it off easily

Posted by starlover
No... I dont like the quincunx aspect at all...it just leaves me scratching my head

Life is meant to challenge you and make you think 😉

I'm curious what you make of Geminis too...

marni, did you just make that up or is that an actual chart? and are these people friends or lovers?

It comes down to what aspects you have in your chart. If you have inconjunctions...you'll feel your way around the inconjunct signs pretty well.

I'm as clueless as it gets, but I never had to question interest from Aries or Aqua, no matter what the connection between us was.

damnata whats your sun sign?

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
marni, did you just make that up or is that an actual chart? and are these people friends or lovers?

Actual charts of potential lovers(but not quite there yet)

what do you make of it - would they match up?

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
briana, you dont like me (taurus) or gemini? por que no??

Haha I like tauruses well enough...just haven't noticed any of those pairings irl personally

I have Taurus descendant too so I should really be attracted to them but .....nope lol

Yellowsubmarine, what is your opinion of this pairing in terms of ;lovers?

Male:
asc- aquarius
sun- scorpio
moon - taurus
venus - sag
mars - capricorn
mercury -sag

Female:
asc - cancer
sun- gemini
moon - sag
venus- gemini
mars- cancer
mercury-cancer

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
damnata whats your sun sign?

ARIES!

I am a Virgo.

i see cancer and aquarius, virgo and aquarius, and aries and virgo the most, all in long term relationships and still very happy after being together for 10+ years.

marni, those two charts seems to be pretty compatible and interesting. my only concern would be the mars being opposites, fights and or arguments might be explosive but i believe these charts are more in your favor as opposed to being against you. good luck, let us know if anything happens

I ship Taurus/Libra and Gemini/Cap

Posted by marni_mew
Like these two charts?

Male:
asc- aquarius
sun- scorpio
moon - taurus
venus - sag
mars - capricorn

Female:
asc - cancer
sun- gemini
moon - sag
venus- gemini
mars- cancer

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Moon-Moon: Taurs-Sag

man's Venus- Women's Mars: Sag-Cancer

I know a Pisces-Libra pair which is divorced now. After 5 years. Another one is in its 5th year. I'm a Sag and had a Taurus bf which was the best case from the start. But we did last only 1-2 years.

I know of an old Gem-Scorp couple. But I met the Gem wife when she had depression for whatever reason.

I can understand why it could work well. Because you make no assumptions about the partner until you get to know them through years. In other cases (sextile, trine, conjunction, opposition, neighbour signs) you think you know them from start. Your mind is at error.

Thanks for the input guys, appreciate it! yeah it's hard to read all round!

DwellingOnMove, why'd you break up? And how was the scorpio with the gemini?

Posted by Theatrum
I ship Taurus/Libra and Gemini/Cap

what do you mean?

WAIT after Tiz's post I realized I do know one inconjunct couple!
Also a Taurus and Libra

I can't believe they're still together. She's super high strung for a Taurus and he's typical laid back Libra. She's always yelling and he's always "leaving" haha

but they've been through a lot (infertility issues, miscarriages, financial struggles, etc.) and as far as I can tell they're still both very in it.

Posted by tiziani
I'm always going to love Pisces women. I don't know how anyone couldn't. Well actually I know a whole list of very valid reasons why they wouldn't but sweeping things under the carpet is one of the best things about being with a Pisces.

As for Taurus I never had any idea where things began or end with them. But my parents were Libra (man) and Taurus (woman) so that's something. They were very much tied together on many levels, incredibly brave couple that took many risks. Unsurprisingly, their stability as a couple and a family unit suffered because of it. But I don't think they would have chosen to do anything differently so you have to say fair play to them.

are they still together?

aww im sorry to hear that 😢 how long were they together for? who was the one who filled for divorce?
if my questions make you feel uncomfortable, you dont have to answer them. just curious from an astrological stand point

omg i just looked at your profile tizani, are you arabic? me too! cool lol, Idk why I get excited when I met other arabs. I don't have a lot of arab friends, my friends are mostly italian or a mix of other European ethnicities

wow I feel dumb now, I shouldve known by your user name... what is wrong with me, I smoke too much mary jane.

Posted by mysteriousTaurus

Posted by Theatrum
I ship Taurus/Libra and Gemini/Cap

what do you mean?

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Just that I'm a fan of those matches.

Posted by tiziani

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
aww im sorry to hear that 😢 how long were they together for? who was the one who filled for divorce?
if my questions make you feel uncomfortable, you dont have to answer them. just curious from an astrological stand point

that's all right, I'd be happy to talk about them except the only problem is - when it comes to their story - it's one of those life is stranger than fiction things. It'd be more believable for me to lie than talk about what actually happened lol

The real story is they were married for over 20 years. When they first met he was married to someone else. Just because he was a young Libra, orphan, survived and made it in the city. Happy to be alive. So typical Libra, let's celebrate by getting married because well.... it's just seems like the thing to do.

But then he met my mother and the whole game changed. At first they were casual but her stay (as a flight attendant) came to an end, and she more or less told him it's me and you or I'm done with this. She left back home. And he pursued her. He had to work his way onto the first ship from Southampton back to the Caribbean and the ship gets flooded and abandoned three quarters of the way through the trip. To make it even harder, because her family knew he was married when he met her they didn't want to have anything to do with him. So he convinced her to get married on a beach alone together behind everyone's back. They moved back to the UK and the rest is history.

She is a Pisces Moon so double inconjunct aspect to his sun. Doubly game for doing taking weird risks.

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UGH, so cute and romantic *heart eyes emoji*!!!

but who was the one who filled for divorce?

I like the double inconjunct moons, sounds like it would make for a very lovely pair. my libra sun has a libra moon, but i have a virgo moon, causes a lot of miscommunication 😢

i hate my virgo moon, i ask a lot of questions and im very skeptical of mostly everything. i need to see it to believe it smh

Posted by Theatrum

Posted by mysteriousTaurus

Posted by Theatrum
I ship Taurus/Libra and Gemini/Cap

what do you mean?

Just that I'm a fan of those matches.

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me too 🙂 especially aries and virgo, i think they go very well together. i know so many aries and virgo friends and lovers

I'm an Aries with a Virgo for about 20 years.

I have two younger Virgo brothers: one is married to an Aries for about ten years; the other is with a Sagittarius for about 5 years.

Posted by VenusAquarius
I'm an Aries with a Virgo for about 20 years.

I have two younger Virgo brothers: one is married to an Aries for about ten years; the other is with a Sagittarius for about 5 years.

omg yay!!!! i love virgo and aries together, my cousin is an aries and married a virgo woman, they are pretty happy together. was it difficult or mostly smooth sailing? 🙂

being together for 20 years ^

Posted by tiziani
It was Taurus who filed for divorce.

i thought so :/ at least they had a long run and produced you!

mysterius taurus...check your messages 🙂

My father and mother are virgo and aries, respectivelly.
She takes care of him and the house while he criticizes her and screams his macho patriarchal stupidity every day.

I can't really see how they're still together, after more than 20 years of constantly fighting.

As irresistibly attracted to virgo placements as I am, I don't think this match can last more than five or ten years before turning bitter.

Was married to a Libra. They are usually sweet, sociable, lovely beings.

As for Leos, a rare few fascinate me (from a distance), while most irritate me. They bring out the Sag in me, a Sag wanting to punch them! Or is that the Aries?

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
i see cancer and aquarius, virgo and aquarius, and aries and virgo the most, all in long term relationships and still very happy after being together for 10+ years.

I know Cancer-Aqua and Virgo-Aqua couples. They lasted for about a decade, divorced now.

Posted by Undine

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
i see cancer and aquarius, virgo and aquarius, and aries and virgo the most, all in long term relationships and still very happy after being together for 10+ years.

I know Cancer-Aqua and Virgo-Aqua couples. They lasted for about a decade, divorced now.

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i dont know any inconjunct that has broken up.

i only know trines, like my cappy mother in law and virgo father in law that didnt last.

and a couple in my family's relatives, who are trine water suns, trine earth suns that didnt last either. true story.

i guess it just depends on the individual(s)

and probably incompatible venuses/ mars /merc in the long run.

w/ mother in law and father in law everything looked great except the venus to me and the houses. in the end they hated eachother and couldn't wait to get out of the relationship.

they are happier and respectful of eachother ONLY after a long time.

Posted by tiziani
Taurus + Sag but what a TUNE

My sagg guy friend drunk confessed that he has a lot of feelings for me, but I still wants my libra oops 🙂