Fuckin Venus in Retrograde!!

First my Cancer ex comes back and now my Scorpio ex just texted. When will this end?!

Unless the retrograde is over and I'm just crazy? Haha but dude, bro. (Califoria girl talk lol) This is irritating.

Exactly... Leo ex visits town last weekend and now an old Aries flame randomly texts to say he misses me now I've left the old town...
Not that I'm complaining 😄 is nice to know I've still got a little spot on their stroll down memory lane!

I'm happy for Venus RX because it helped my Libra and I get were we needed to be and stop tethering. This venus RX was going to be the make it or break point for us and I'm happy we're going to make it!

Hmmm is that why I've seen this bitch I tried to fight years ago twice in one week?

I'm an adult now so both times went down without incident

Though I can't lie...I did attempt a shoulder jock in the grocery store in the pasta isle :/ I'm ashamed

Posted by Sugarfoot
Well I just read that for those in existing relationships, all your issues come to the surface. Soooo that explained why my bf ran down my list of faults to me on sunday. I have to say...it wasn't awesome. Then we got into it over burnt broccoli later that night. So if this transit could kindly fuck off that'd be great. k .thx. bye

Me too bro! But not broccoli...bacon. Lol

Nobody is trying to contact me. I'm enjoying this. I hope it stays!

It's retrotransiting my 5th house right now, I've rethought my on/off relationship and cut him out my life... Apparently I'm not supposed to make rash decisions but if I can have a few weeks of peace it's worth it 🙂

Old flings came to my city just to see me but we just had a drink.

Mercury retro was terrible, I guess because my mercs conjunct ascendant and mars.

But this one is so far so good. I've got nothing in leo or sixth house.

Posted by Curiousram
I noticed two people i went on dates a year ago messaged me. Also a virgo man said hes in lust with me and i jokingly said he'd have to buy me and he gave me his credit card number on fb without even compromising. Looks like im going to online shop lol 😉 thank u venus retrograde.

Holy molly

Do you have leo placements or something in the 5th house?

This is hilarious. Yeah I am not making any decision on this guy until after this period is over because according to his scope today is a day of reflecting on past and current relationships i'm gonna call and say hi, but that's about it after today. I want him to think long and hard about what he needs in his life not just me, but his goals and desires.

my crazy ex contacted me again..wanting me to be his therapist..this retrograde explains why.

Posted by Sugarfoot
Well I just read that for those in existing relationships, all your issues come to the surface. Soooo that explained why my bf ran down my list of faults to me on sunday. I have to say...it wasn't awesome. Then we got into it over burnt broccoli later that night. So if this transit could kindly fuck off that'd be great. k .thx. bye

😆!

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Posted by xomelindabelle
First my Cancer ex comes back and now my Scorpio ex just texted. When will this end?!

Unless the retrograde is over and I'm just crazy? Haha but dude, bro. (Califoria girl talk lol) This is irritating.

If it bothers you, just block them or ignore?

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The Cancer is not getting anywhere with me, trust me lol and I set my boundaries with the Scorpio. Because obviously it never worked before. Why keep coming back?

FUCCCCCKKKKKK

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Posted by xomelindabelle
First my Cancer ex comes back and now my Scorpio ex just texted. When will this end?!

Unless the retrograde is over and I'm just crazy? Haha but dude, bro. (Califoria girl talk lol) This is irritating.

If it bothers you, just block them or ignore?

The Cancer is not getting anywhere with me, trust me lol and I set my boundaries with the Scorpio. Because obviously it never worked before. Why keep coming back?

Maybe you aren't mean to know? I would just stay out of anyone's energy i am through with, it is just a waste

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That's true; and I'm thinking this is a good test for me to learn how to set stronger boundaries. I'm terrible when exes try to return, because the memories blind me. And I forget why I left; until an ugly reminder resurfaces. So much fun lol

Posted by YellowSubmarine
I was wondering actually… I understand that it’s generally advised to not make any big decisions during a Venus retrograde and the shadow phases, especially regarding your personal life, however the running commentary in my mind is re-evaluating a “decision” I made a couple weeks ago with an ex.

Now, I may not actually make a decision during the retrograde (my August is booked solid already), but the process your mind goes through during the retrograde, is it not valid at all?? I mean the thoughts that occur are ultimately working towards a decision, so they have validity, right? What I mean is that your mind doesn’t just make up nonsense/false ideas during the retrograde does it?

I hope I’m making sense.

I've read that it makes you reconsider your relationships, and problems of the past, where you're going in life, etc.

My decision was rash but I've been thinking about it for a while, the final decision to let him go happened smack in the middle of the shadow period. I don't think it was daft at all, maybe a bit bold but I think it was what that relationship needed, an actual end.
But who knows, maybe I'm completely wrong and will feel massive guilt once it goes direct, I don't remember how the last retrograde went...

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Posted by liya-b

I've read that it makes you reconsider your relationships, and problems of the past, where you're going in life, etc.

My decision was rash but I've been thinking about it for a while, the final decision to let him go happened smack in the middle of the shadow period. I don't think it was daft at all, maybe a bit bold but I think it was what that relationship needed, an actual end.
But who knows, maybe I'm completely wrong and will feel massive guilt once it goes direct, I don't remember how the last retrograde went...

If it's decision about an ex, it might be clouded ... or so I hear. I dunno. 😢

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Oh well, I personally take Astrology as a preventive measure more than a guide book to live by. If I've fucked up I'll just own it, but shit happens.
Funnily enough it's retrograde in my 5th and his 7th house, and apparently both important for V in R.

Apparently my moon in the twelfth house is very emotionally intense and that makes so much sense; pairing that with my expressive Libra moon and my Gem Mars, I HAVE to say how I feel. And this Scorpio ex who's trying to worm his way back in just told me that I've always overwhelmed him with my sensitivity and need to communicate that.

He is a Virgo moon; it's in the fifth house which I thought would make him express his feelings more, but apparently not. Probably the Virgo aspect.
In short, I'm emotionally too much for him. So I said "Stop coming after me if this is how you feel. Leave me be and let me go."

My relationship is on its downfall and I don't know why. 😢

^ that's probably why 😢