Advice on Leo woman. Mars and Venus in Virgo. Moon in Scorpio.

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Advice on Leo woman. Mars and Venus in Virgo. Moon in Scorpio.

I'm a Scorpio woman. Venus and Mars in Scorpio. Moon in Taurus.

I'm completely confused by her behaviour. Can the leo women of this group tell me if you’re ever shy and hesitant to make a move? Also, if you play hard to get sometimes? Sometimes I feel like I’m getting signals, then other times no signals. Do you also like to comment on other people to see where someone stands?

The Leo woman is 27. I’m 10 years older. I'm confident but rather shy and tend to give mixed signals as I don’t like to be too vulnerable. She definitely laughs and jokes around and I do often find our eyes meeting across the room… Very early on she asked me about my preferences (type) for women but she reveals so little. She does compliment me but mainly relating to how well I remember people’s names and basic stuff. She also sends me photos (several) of her new puppy. But then she’s strange with the communication. Sometimes responds and then nothing, even ignoring a simple question. Then if I don’t text she will initiate. Also, we might chat on social media throughout the day then she seems really shy when I see her that evening. Another weird thing: Last night, she said my friend was ‘hot’ directly to me. Then 10 minutes later asked me to fb friends with her. I find her behaviour confusing. Either she was seeking a reaction (which I hope I hid rather well as I was really disappointed she made the comment) or I have been friend-zoned. Do you ever make comments like that for a reaction just to see how someone feels about you?

Confused Scorpio here!
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Posted by aquarius_beauty
Wow I find if amusing that both your suns and moons are fixed signs. And your Taurus and her Scorpio are opposites, so there's a definitely attraction there. I don't know about Women but I do know about Leo men with Scorpio Moon. They're really intense. Especially Scorpio moons, they're a lot more intense than regular scorpios. They will suffer from a lot of deep insecurities and feel really strong emotions. Her moon will not allow her to open up emotionally. But her Leo Sun will let you know she likes you. Does that make sense? They're really confusing. Leo I was going out with needed a lot of reassurance but never voiced it directly. But I think, given your Sun in Scorpio, you shouldn't have a problem. I think the problem would be that you will both expect the other to open up emotionally first.

Leos are playful and flirt with anyone. At least it might seem that way since they're friendly. They will tease you and provoke a bit of jealousy add the Scorpios intensity with their tendency to subconsciously 'test' their subjects.... You get a Leo Sun Scorpio Moon.

Famous celebrities with this combo:

Ben Afleck

Mila Kunis
Thanks for the reply! I think maybe the Virgo in Venus and Mars explains a lot as well - I'm researching a little bit more.
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"Another weird thing: Last night, she said my friend was ‘hot’ directly to me. Then 10 minutes later asked me to fb friends with her. "

As a Leo with Virgo Venus, this sounds like friendzone territory to meh, I could never be so indirectly dismissive and/or disregard your feelings by highlighting someone else that way in the same breath...

It seems two-faced IF she was already toying with you after you'd declared exclusive interest...

However, since it doesn't sound like either of you have declared sides she just sounds a little shortsighted but definitely uninterested.

However, this does not mean you are sidelined completely.

Personally, a man who pursues or signals his interest clearly is all it takes for me to consider him a serious contender... and from there it becomes fairly obvious if a Leo woman is remaining attentive @_@

So good luck, and perhaps ask her directly for an answer.

We don't excel at mind reading at all unfortunately 😆
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"Another weird thing: Last night, she said my friend was ‘hot’ directly to me. Then 10 minutes later asked me to fb friends with her. "

As a Leo with Virgo Venus, this sounds like friendzone territory to meh, I could never be so indirectly dismissive and/or disregard your feelings by highlighting someone else that way in the same breath...

It seems two-faced IF she was already toying with you after you'd declared exclusive interest...

However, since it doesn't sound like either of you have declared sides she just sounds a little shortsighted but definitely uninterested.

However, this does not mean you are sidelined completely.

Personally, a man who pursues or signals his interest clearly is all it takes for me to consider him a serious contender... and from there it becomes fairly obvious if a Leo woman is remaining attentive @_@

So good luck, and perhaps ask her directly for an answer.

We don't excel at mind reading at all unfortunately 😆


Cheers for the reply!

A little more backstory: We were fb friends but I de-friended her a few months ago because I considered her to be a somewhat selfish individual. I tend to avoid relationships that are not mutually respectful - just how I am! At that time I don't believe I had romantic feelings for her so it didn't bother me too much. But it appeared to bother her. She messaged me asking if something was wrong and that she would would "hate to have done something". I explained matters very matter of factly and the matter was over but we still saw each other once a week at work with little interaction other than work related matters.

I'm not really sure how we came to talk again but fast forward a few months later and here we are. For the last 4 months we have been messaging (via messenger) several times a day at least 4 days a week, sometimes more. She asked me to critique certain work proposals each week and I obliged. She's always commenting on my intellect and said: "I really look forward to your messages". I don't like to come off as a "know-it-all" so I made a point of asking: "if my messages ever annoy you please feel free to let me know". We discuss my critique on one day but personal stuff on the other days but it the bare minimum is revealed. She responded with "never annoying!!!" It is clear in messages that my opinion matters (on numerous fronts) and she seeks compliments if they're not forthcoming.

On the evening she said my friend was "hot" she met my ex-girlfriend for the first time. It was my indoor soccer final and she came to watch. The comment came almost immediately after meeting my ex (of a gazillion years ago) who also plays in my team. Despite talking for 4 months on messenger and seeing each other at work once a week she only asked me to be fb friends on the night of meeting my ex and making the 'hot comment".

Another thing: All communication has been initiated by her the last 10 times.

Update: She ventured in to work with her new puppy on Monday after I said I would love to meet him. That evening she sent me a message saying "Seuss (puppy) really liked you" with a wink emoticon. Fast forward a few days and after ending a conversation I said: "say hi to Seuss for me". She responded with "say hi to the hot one for me" with a wink emoticon. Worth noting: the hot one has a girlfriend and that is something I explained to the Leo woman. I have not responded to this message and have no plans to.

Any thoughts on the above? Particularly, would she want to be facebook friends with me because I'm friends with the 'hot" one? Please be as frank as previous comment. I prefer people to tell me how things are.

P.S. The clown apocalypse in Australia was hilarious!



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Posted by Montgomery
You should've just said 'You're hot.'

Ask her out, let the chips fall where they may.

Life's too short. 🙂
I'd love to be a little more forthcoming but it simply isn't in my nature.
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Would you post your chart, please?



🙂

My chart: I don't know the time of my birth.

Sun Scorpio 7°14'

Moon Taurus 7°02'

Mercury Libra 26°01' R

Venus Scorpio 5°35'

Mars Scorpio 1°52'

Jupiter Pisces 8°01' R

Saturn Cancer 18°54'

Uranus Libra 28°43'

Neptune Sagittarius 8°11'

Pluto Libra 7°52'

Lilith Aquarius 19°10'

Asc node Sagittarius 10°29

Her chart: I don't know the time of her birth.



Sun Leo 16°50'

Moon Scorpio 13°52'

Mercury Virgo 7°17'

Venus Virgo 19°43'

Mars Virgo 3°43'

Jupiter Cancer 1°53'

Saturn Capricorn 8°08' R

Uranus Capricorn 1°44' R

Neptune Capricorn 10°05' R

Pluto Scorpio 12°28'

Lilith Libra 20°21'

Asc node Aquarius 25°41'

I can't stress enough how little I know about astrology but I'm learning a little each day 🙂