Anyone else like this?

Cancer zodiac signs are known for their deep emotional nature and strong attachment to loved ones. In this forum discussion, users share personal experiences about navigating love, commitment, and emotional vulnerability. The original poster expresses feelings of love and dedication towards their partner, alongside fears of losing independence and feelings of emptiness and loneliness. These complex emotions are common among Cancer individuals who often seek security but also struggle with inner conflicts. Reading this thread can provide insights into how others with similar zodiac traits handle relationship challenges and offer support for those feeling overwhelmed by their emotional needs and fears.

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by SuperMissMan on Monday, December 15, 2014 and has 26 replies.

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So I was complaining about my cancer disregarding my feelings all the time, well we made up and he told me his love is unconditional and forever, and we're doing amazing. And we aren't friends anymore, so it's more commited. And maybe I'm scared because commited for him is 'the one' he wants I marry and be with forever. And that's how it is for me. Well, I love him so much, so much. I really do. But now I feel depressed..like...empty. I feel empty and lonely and i hate it. It makes me want to run away and be free, but I like being smothered and owned. I just. I don't know what's wrong with me -_- does anyone else get this way?

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Maybe its that I feel goalless now :/

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Venus in Aries.

The "game" is over, you two are no longer in turmoil and have become "official"

You're bored.

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Posted by LadyOfRebirth
Posted by deepseagiant2
Venus in Aries.

The "game" is over, you two are no longer in turmoil and have become "official"

You're bored.

False.

It's her Aqua moon if anything.
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Id have thought that too but I think it's both.

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That's what they do. You either have to accept your new life as his little wifey or let him know right now that it's a free world and you do what you want.

And yes they can be boring but they have good marriage potential. You just have to assert yourself from the get go.

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Venus and Uranus aspecting? I'm like this too.

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Posted by Theatrum
Venus and Uranus aspecting? I'm like this too.

I don't believe so.

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Posted by ScorpionicLove
That's what they do. You either have to accept your new life as his little wifey or let him know right now that it's a free world and you do what you want.

And yes they can be boring but they have good marriage potential. You just have to assert yourself from the get go.

I accept him. He isn't boring, I just have an anxious and depressed feeling -_-

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Posted by SuperMissMan
Posted by ScorpionicLove
That's what they do. You either have to accept your new life as his little wifey or let him know right now that it's a free world and you do what you want.

And yes they can be boring but they have good marriage potential. You just have to assert yourself from the get go.

I accept him. He isn't boring, I just have an anxious and depressed feeling -_-

meditation yo
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You misunderstood me. Missed my whole point.

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Go ahead and start your forever alone collection.

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Posted by SuperMissMan
So I was complaining about my cancer disregarding my feelings all the time, well we made up and he told me his love is unconditional and forever, and we're doing amazing. And we aren't friends anymore, so it's more commited. And maybe I'm scared because commited for him is 'the one' he wants I marry and be with forever. And that's how it is for me. Well, I love him so much, so much. I really do. But now I feel depressed..like...empty. I feel empty and lonely and i hate it. It makes me want to run away and be free, but I like being smothered and owned. I just. I don't know what's wrong with me -_- does anyone else get this way?

aww i get you. The feeling like there's nothing more to strive for. completion.

This doesnt mean that you have to break up and start a whole new quest.

I would instead develop new quests within the relationship. Something you both can work at. I am a highly creative person and when i complete projects i am BUMMED. So i have to start another one just to feel alive again.

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Posted by kissmygrits
Go ahead and start your forever alone collection.

lol

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Posted by KsamCancer
Posted by SuperMissMan
Posted by ScorpionicLove
That's what they do. You either have to accept your new life as his little wifey or let him know right now that it's a free world and you do what you want.

And yes they can be boring but they have good marriage potential. You just have to assert yourself from the get go.

I accept him. He isn't boring, I just have an anxious and depressed feeling -_-

meditation yo
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Defiantly considering that. Wa giving me such a headache. Once again I'm nice to him all day while he treats me as if I'm the bad guy because his day is bad because some chick that likes him is making people mad at him for not liking her back, I give him an understanding ear to talk to and a shoulder to cry on and suggest a few things that he considered doing an he STILL had to be a moody jerk! I'm sick of it so he finally crossed the line and I started being short and he apologised and then got mad at me -_- like wtf, I didn't do ANYTHING.

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Posted by ScorpionicLove
Posted by KsamCancer
Posted by SuperMissMan
Posted by ScorpionicLove
That's what they do. You either have to accept your new life as his little wifey or let him know right now that it's a free world and you do what you want.

And yes they can be boring but they have good marriage potential. You just have to assert yourself from the get go.

I accept him. He isn't boring, I just have an anxious and depressed feeling -_-

meditation yo

No I understood. Cancers are great in relationships an I need to make my choice whether or not I'll take it an deal with the down parts, and that's the choice I choose. I'm not letting him go because he makes me want to kill him sometimes 😆

You misunderstood me. Missed my whole point.
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Posted by kissmygrits
Go ahead and start your forever alone collection.

😆

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Posted by Zatte
Since being bored is such a huge problem for you, find something or someone else to entertain you. Problem solved.

It's not a big deal for me.

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I have a really big character flaw that I can't help. I never openly take on people's critism, ideas, and I don't openly show my love of thankfulness. Like if you've ever seen the show merlin, it's like how Aurthe treats merlin. He may consider and sliver what he says, or e totally thankful, but he can't get nhimself to say it, instead he does something like 'good that you're well, now you can clean my clothes, sharpen my sword...etc'. It's how I express myself. I don't. I can't. I feel like my dignity and pride must remain. It BOTHERS me to do anything to undermine it. Why is this, scorpio Mars? I don't have Taurus in me so... :/

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It's your Pisces Sun. Something to do with being defiant (not on all those accounts though)

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Or it could be that "... shitload of Aries."

js

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Posted by Damnata
It's your Pisces Sun. Something to do with being defiant (not on all those accounts though)

I don't see that in pisces though.

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Posted by SuperMissMan
Posted by Damnata
It's your Pisces Sun. Something to do with being defiant (not on all those accounts though)

I don't see that in pisces though.
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I see it in the sense of marching to the beat of their drums. But that doesn't account for everything you said in the OP.

It could be the aries placements also.

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Posted by Montgomery
Or it could be that "... shitload of Aries."

js

Lmao probably

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Posted by beautifuldiaster
Meh. I have been told I do not take criticism gracefully (as in I bite back) and that I am extremely jealous (can't blame that on my green eyes..)

Aries placements? Really?

I have Aries Midheaven, and Aries Mars.

I would have actually blamed it on my Sag sun. Perhaps it's a fire placement flaw?

I take it pretty well. I don't take getting stepped on well, then I'll bite back. But wth criticism I act as if no one said shit and act like I didn't even hear it but I still always take it in. I just HAVE to act like they can't tell me how to be and keep my pride.

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Posted by Twodrinkminimum
I think it has nothing to do with astrology and more to do with immaturity. You're a teenager. Not everything can be blamed on your astro placements.

It's not like that. I can't explain it. I have a need to hold my composure and pride. I don't even yell when I'm angry because of it. It's a thing that I absolutley MUST keep my pride.

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Posted by champranger
What's your full chart OP?

Aries and Aqua

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Posted by exxtasyx
I'm the EXACT same way. I can't even say "I love you" to my parents. It's so awkward. And I feel awkward when someone hugs me or something? Or if people start telling me their emotions and start crying or whatever, I wanna run away.

But I show that I care about someone or I show my affection in different ways, like I do little things for them or buy them things. That's the way I show my affection. With actions, not words or like crazy "spilling your heart out" awkward BS.

AMEN!!! Exactly!!! What's your chart?