Joanne_P
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aries girl and her social problem
I will add he probably wants to be friends with me and see nothing is wrong- yep it wouldnt be wring if he hadnt treated me like an invisible person, pushing me away, ignoring me in a company, didnt want to be recognised because of me. He would escape when i wanted to ask him about our affair.
I was from the same social circle but I was still a student- I had my own issues, my studies, other life. I was not popular like him and his other friends. I still dont want popularity. I am on my own.
Its like I really was myself a girl who studies and for me he was a normal person- but i think he wanted a popular girl whom everyone knows. And i was just like a dust.
And now? I dont know i feel like he changed his mind because of me- because I gained popularity and reputation so he started to be interested again. Its not normal because it was 1 year that i felt terrible... and I was scared to call him for help when I had a problem at work ( the same industry) so i was calling his friends.... like an idiot and they helped me not him....
I was from the same social circle but I was still a student- I had my own issues, my studies, other life. I was not popular like him and his other friends. I still dont want popularity. I am on my own.
Its like I really was myself a girl who studies and for me he was a normal person- but i think he wanted a popular girl whom everyone knows. And i was just like a dust.
And now? I dont know i feel like he changed his mind because of me- because I gained popularity and reputation so he started to be interested again. Its not normal because it was 1 year that i felt terrible... and I was scared to call him for help when I had a problem at work ( the same industry) so i was calling his friends.... like an idiot and they helped me not him....
Were you trying to be his buddies friends first then him? We're you both trying to make each other jealous?
no, i met him first like 3 years ago and then he was mentioning his friends ( the same industry when he works). and then we had an affair and he treated me so weirdly and escaped and i started to make drama and panic. and i started working in the same industry as him by my own and noone helped me instead of his friends. even he didnt help me.
i think we both wanted to make each other jealous. even though now we dont talk and we are not in contact his friends are open even to my friends and we are friends.
i think we both wanted to make each other jealous. even though now we dont talk and we are not in contact his friends are open even to my friends and we are friends.
Dont become the homey hopper
i want to be friends with his friends because they like me and they are okey.
within 1.5 year when he remained silent they helped me when i was in need. or they asked me to work with them ( not because of him) because they saw i was ok in work, responsible and so one.
and when his friends started to invite me and tell i was good at work and i started being recognised by others he started to notice me ( LOL like i wasnt a dust )
im not homey popper - i dont care if im in 1 circle or another- i am going abroad in 1.5 month to live and really i dont care.
one of his friends whom i worked with lately invited me for new years eve.
HE was also invited and other friends.
he invited people whom he worked with and project was well done.
is that bad?
what i should think of a person who changes his mind when it comes to me? its not my fault i am friendly and people like me. i have no problem in making friends and being fair and open to the ones that are fair and ok to me.
within 1.5 year when he remained silent they helped me when i was in need. or they asked me to work with them ( not because of him) because they saw i was ok in work, responsible and so one.
and when his friends started to invite me and tell i was good at work and i started being recognised by others he started to notice me ( LOL like i wasnt a dust )
im not homey popper - i dont care if im in 1 circle or another- i am going abroad in 1.5 month to live and really i dont care.
one of his friends whom i worked with lately invited me for new years eve.
HE was also invited and other friends.
he invited people whom he worked with and project was well done.
is that bad?
what i should think of a person who changes his mind when it comes to me? its not my fault i am friendly and people like me. i have no problem in making friends and being fair and open to the ones that are fair and ok to me.
No. Move on from the past. That part of your life is over. Besides, would you like it if he became friends with your close friends and not you? Awkward.
Posted by joanne_pUh oh. Has one of his friends shown a romantic interest in you?
i want to be friends with his friends because they like me and they are okey.
within 1.5 year when he remained silent they helped me when i was in need. or they asked me to work with them ( not because of him) because they saw i was ok in work, responsible and so one.
and when his friends started to invite me and tell i was good at work and i started being recognised by others he started to notice me ( LOL like i wasnt a dust )
im not homey popper - i dont care if im in 1 circle or another- i am going abroad in 1.5 month to live and really i dont care.
one of his friends whom i worked with lately invited me for new years eve.
HE was also invited and other friends.
he invited people whom he worked with and project was well done.
is that bad?
what i should think of a person who changes his mind when it comes to me? its not my fault i am friendly and people like me. i have no problem in making friends and being fair and open to the ones that are fair and ok to me.
Or has someone else told you the same thing?
Posted by DMVyea maybe- but i am not pushing anyone- im just being nice and friendly.Posted by joanne_pUh oh. Has one of his friends shown a romantic interest in you?
i want to be friends with his friends because they like me and they are okey.
within 1.5 year when he remained silent they helped me when i was in need. or they asked me to work with them ( not because of him) because they saw i was ok in work, responsible and so one.
and when his friends started to invite me and tell i was good at work and i started being recognised by others he started to notice me ( LOL like i wasnt a dust )
im not homey popper - i dont care if im in 1 circle or another- i am going abroad in 1.5 month to live and really i dont care.
one of his friends whom i worked with lately invited me for new years eve.
HE was also invited and other friends.
he invited people whom he worked with and project was well done.
is that bad?
what i should think of a person who changes his mind when it comes to me? its not my fault i am friendly and people like me. i have no problem in making friends and being fair and open to the ones that are fair and ok to me.
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and ill see what is gonna be.
Posted by joanne_pSo here's whats going to happen. Keep the Aries defensiveness at a minimum please.Posted by DMVyea maybe- but i am not pushing anyone- im just being nice and friendly.Posted by joanne_pUh oh. Has one of his friends shown a romantic interest in you?
i want to be friends with his friends because they like me and they are okey.
within 1.5 year when he remained silent they helped me when i was in need. or they asked me to work with them ( not because of him) because they saw i was ok in work, responsible and so one.
and when his friends started to invite me and tell i was good at work and i started being recognised by others he started to notice me ( LOL like i wasnt a dust )
im not homey popper - i dont care if im in 1 circle or another- i am going abroad in 1.5 month to live and really i dont care.
one of his friends whom i worked with lately invited me for new years eve.
HE was also invited and other friends.
he invited people whom he worked with and project was well done.
is that bad?
what i should think of a person who changes his mind when it comes to me? its not my fault i am friendly and people like me. i have no problem in making friends and being fair and open to the ones that are fair and ok to me.
and ill see what is gonna be.
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Youre going to hop over to one of his friends thinking that who cares! Virgo can see and im grown. Im popular and guys like me. So what? Why shouldnt i be open?
Youll step up to the challenge. You came for advice, the world has told you "dont do it girl." the hell with that. Youre the shyt and ain't nobody gonna tell you what to do. Even tho you came for advice.
Youll get mixed up with his friends. Date some of them. Even kiss them on the mouth. Thinking you've moved on, he don't care. Why should you! Him sulking in the corner will make you feel like he still likes you. Incorrect, his ego is way bigger than him liking you.
Meanwhile on the group chat.....they clown you.
Millions of social groups in the world.
Rise above this virgo and his no good friends.
should i care?
is that a big matter?
why shouldnt i be focused on myself only? its been 26 years that i have been too empathic, i have always cared of the opinion, about others. its been times that i have been single and everyone around me had a relation because i was scared to make a move or what others think...
2 years ago when i did something different like i was the 'one' and i wasnt a friend of a friends. i was MYSELF sth changed- girls from social groups started to be jealous, started to notice me because i wasnt a friend of a friend- shy girl that noone knows- i was someone that people wanted to be friends with, a person who had sth to say ( and it was before the affair). it was even when i was at university and i changed my perspective.
when i stopped caring so much and i stopped worrying so much- everyone started to notice me because i had sth interesting to say..
is that a big matter?
why shouldnt i be focused on myself only? its been 26 years that i have been too empathic, i have always cared of the opinion, about others. its been times that i have been single and everyone around me had a relation because i was scared to make a move or what others think...
2 years ago when i did something different like i was the 'one' and i wasnt a friend of a friends. i was MYSELF sth changed- girls from social groups started to be jealous, started to notice me because i wasnt a friend of a friend- shy girl that noone knows- i was someone that people wanted to be friends with, a person who had sth to say ( and it was before the affair). it was even when i was at university and i changed my perspective.
when i stopped caring so much and i stopped worrying so much- everyone started to notice me because i had sth interesting to say..
Posted by joanne_pYou're right.
should i care?
is that a big matter?
why shouldnt i be focused on myself only? its been 26 years that i have been too empathic, i have always cared of the opinion, about others. its been times that i have been single and everyone around me had a relation because i was scared to make a move or what others think...
2 years ago when i did something different like i was the 'one' and i wasnt a friend of a friends. i was MYSELF sth changed- girls from social groups started to be jealous, started to notice me because i wasnt a friend of a friend- shy girl that noone knows- i was someone that people wanted to be friends with, a person who had sth to say ( and it was before the affair). it was even when i was at university and i changed my perspective.
when i stopped caring so much and i stopped worrying so much- everyone started to notice me because i had sth interesting to say..
cool
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so 1.5 year ago I had an affair with a Virgo guy who didnt want anything from me finally. Of course it was me who was chasing him after, because he was pushing away, he treated me very weirdly and badly. Didnt even want to talk to me about that.
I felt so bad. He escaped like he wouldnt know me before. We had 3 week- affair and so one and after that he started to ignore me, be very harsh and rude to me like he wanted me to go away.
But I am aries, I am very stubborn person. So I started not to care about him, i started ignore him and when I did that and stayed in teh same social circle ( i didnt want to give up) he noticed that.
Whenever someone of his friends was interested in me he seemed like dog in a manger, like would be jealous of me but didnt want anything from me.
Situations like - he didnt let his friends drink or play with me, dance with me- everytime sth like thit happened he would appear and disturb the situation.
I gain 'popularity' in a social circle and I worked hard on my career and I had the opinion of the courageous and brave girl because I worked very hard and everyone saw that - some boys were impressed.
I got friends with his old friends. And some of them are interested in me. For me it is okey because its been 1.5 year that he had to talk to me or be with me. Now its over.
What do you think. Is it ok that I am now - after almost 2 years of working hard - friends with his friends? Is it normal that his friends invite me over, want to be friends with me or are interested in me?
Should I quit this social circle because they are HIS friends and I should have my other old friends or is it okay to be friends with his old friends - my new friends?