Aries and Virgo?

I've noticed an attraction between both male and female of each sign but especially one between Virgo female and Aries male. Why does that attraction work? Your thoughts?

I don't know/have experience of knowing Virgo female w/ Aries Male, however with Virguy and Aries Woman, being each others opposite seems to be the basic attraction between the two.

I would imagine that would be the same for Virgal and Aries Man.

Hmm. Yes. I've heard that statistically the Virgo female is like number 2 on longest attraction (high marriage rates and low divorce rates) for the Aries male. While the reverse sticks to astrology. Weird actually

Posted by AriesLove
I don't know about Virgo female Aries male but Virgo Male Aries female yeah.

It could work but Virgo male is overly critical. And needs a grounded stable woman. Aries is so independent she might not have dinner on the table at 6:00. She may scare the poor man away sometimes too.

I had a Virgo male best friend. He was cool just noticed every little thing about me. My stomach was flat as a pancake he told me I had a little pouch. His house stayed clean and he always had a drink and food waiting on me when I came over.

Hard workers and nice gentlemen. Dressed so well.

I always wonder why Virgos feel the need to say/mention someone's body when there is nothing wrong with it... flat tummy, one wouldn't assume you are unhealthy or need to lose weight.

my Virgo ex critiqued my body so it could be perfect, all the while saying he didn't want me to change...... yea... that makes sense or doesn't make me feel good.
but I would dismiss it. but right when he would bring it up, it'd hurt my feelings.

Also, they say Aries are insensitive and Virgos can get hurt easily but.... Virgos can be very insensitive as well. They just can't take what they put out. Kind of annoying.

I know two Virgo male-Aries female couples! (: ..long term relationships.

One married couple.. And one couple since high school.

I think Earth signs are best for Aries : D

Well... Both piss each other off. But both have their strengths.

Dad was a Virgo and Mom is an Aries. They were together 25 years.

Sorry they almost hit the big ol 25 mark.

I find Virgo extremely funny, charming and attractive on first meetings BUT been there, done that, I know what it turns in to haha. I prefer to keep them as friends. (They make very good friends)

Hmm yes. It's just that (I forget where) I read that Aries male and Virgo female had been put in each other's Top 3 longest attractions. Concerning the high marriage and low divorce rates. But what I read may have been wrong. Sorry if it is. Thanks for the input though (:

Posted by Sunsetvirgo
I've noticed an attraction between both male and female of each sign but especially one between Virgo female and Aries male. Why does that attraction work? Your thoughts?

There's an attraction with Virgos for me but more on a friendship level. I'm a Virgo Rising so I get the critiquing cuz I do it as well. Not in a harsh way. A soft way.

Posted by RumiL
I know two Virgo male-Aries female couples! (: ..long term relationships.

One married couple.. And one couple since high school.

I think Earth signs are best for Aries : D

I agree with you. My first love was a Virgo, and my current love is a saggicorn (Sagittarius & Capricorn.) I think he's the perfect mix of earthiness for this fire sun, water moon, and earth rising. *^___^*

I'm just gonna throw in my two cents on the subject. Aries is a strong leading type, and is probably the most likely to jump into new projects and make quick decisions. Given that this can be a real challenge for other cardinals and water signs in general (who, besides for Scorpio who will wander along with any mate he or she so prizes unless its a major offense against his or herself, tend to need to be warmed up to new situations), it comes as a surprise that an earth type, a type that tends to need to grow into situations, would be able to have such synergy with an all-consuming, quickly burning, quickly moving Aries. But Virgo is a mutable earth type, and as such, it can grow in any container it is given. It doesn't need a ton of space to adapt, and it doesn't need to lead, it would prefer to finish and support things anyway. For an Aries, Virgo would act more like the grass and soil supporting us beneath our feet, rather than a large tree that refuses to move where we need it to move, like a fixed earth sign such as Taurus, or worse off, a sheer vertical rock wall of an earth type that sometimes can be seen as nothing but a challenge in the context of a relationship, such as a Capricorn (given the two can learn to work together if they accept each other's nature). And Aries, for all its variety and mercurial temperament, is also still no more or less than a human, and therefore often lives within the context of a day-to-day routine. Yes, Aries lead, but Aries can and are still often stable people, and Virgo, growing into any space it is allowed, and if it so desires, seeing as it has no need to lead but often enjoys just supporting and progressing, is probably pretty fine with growing into whatever relationship role its Aries provides. Aries, on the other hand, is always looking for support and dedicated followers, and Virgo is pretty decent at doing both.

Posted by TrueFantasy
Would you guys say Aries is the better fire sign for a Virgo?

😐

I'd say so. A Leo and Aries both want admiration and attention, but a Leo wants it for who they are, and Aries want it for what they do. A Virgo can, even with the best of intentions, be critical. This is not necessarily a bad thing, but it is interpreted differently by a Leo and an Aries. An Aries will see a criticism as a challenge to overcome and an area to improve upon, where as a Leo will interpret the criticism as a challenge to themselves and their own identity, and may even interpret them as insulting or cold-hearted. The continual criticism, which isn't done in bad nature and mean to be constructive, will be discouraging overtime to the Leo.

A Leo best friend of mine and I both have Virgo mothers. He is scared of offending her and is constantly watching his behavior and actions when around her, where as I see mine as (in a weird twist of a events since I have a very pacified Cancer father) as a father figure.

I don't know much about the Sagittarius mindset, mostly because they're so similar to me but in a way I can't wrap my head around since I don't have much experience with them in the context of a friendship, but they're probably the most competitive of the fire types. Aries doesn't need to compete or race, it just does. Leo doesn't compete unless it's naturally the best at whatever it is already, because Leo is just the best and that's the way it is for them (haha). Sagittarius, however, is a natural competitor and loves competition for the sake of competition. This is how I would interpret it: The Virgo, which I see as the 'constructive critic', would easily be seen as bad competition to the Sagittarius, because the Virgo's continual constructive criticism and support would be seen as an unnecessary hurdle and an attempt to keep the Sagittarius behind.

@mission

Hmm. I never thought of it like that 😄. I always thought Leo would probably be the best for Virgo females considering they are our neighboring signs. And no matter how hard I try, I can't really find any successful relationships between Aries male and Virgo female.

Virgo male on the other hand, I've heard of more Virgo male/ Aries females than Virgo male with Leo females. Odd.

I posted this thread because there was a statistic that had Virgo female as the second longest attraction for Aries male and I was truly fascinated by it. But after reading experiences between the two signs maybe it's a lie?

Posted by Sunsetvirgo
@mission

Hmm. I never thought of it like that 😄. I always thought Leo would probably be the best for Virgo females considering they are our neighboring signs. And no matter how hard I try, I can't really find any successful relationships between Aries male and Virgo female.

Virgo male on the other hand, I've heard of more Virgo male/ Aries females than Virgo male with Leo females. Odd.

I posted this thread because there was a statistic that had Virgo female as the second longest attraction for Aries male and I was truly fascinated by it. But after reading experiences between the two signs maybe it's a lie?

I could see it working between a mature Aries male and a mature Virgo female. On the other hand, I don't think it is the most synergistic relationship.

Posted by mission

I'm just gonna throw in my two cents on the subject. Aries is a strong leading type, and is probably the most likely to jump into new projects and make quick decisions. Given that this can be a real challenge for other cardinals and water signs in general (who, besides for Scorpio who will wander along with any mate he or she so prizes unless its a major offense against his or herself, tend to need to be warmed up to new situations), it comes as a surprise that an earth type, a type that tends to need to grow into situations, would be able to have such synergy with an all-consuming, quickly burning, quickly moving Aries. But Virgo is a mutable earth type, and as such, it can grow in any container it is given. It doesn't need a ton of space to adapt, and it doesn't need to lead, it would prefer to finish and support things anyway. For an Aries, Virgo would act more like the grass and soil supporting us beneath our feet, rather than a large tree that refuses to move where we need it to move, like a fixed earth sign such as Taurus, or worse off, a sheer vertical rock wall of an earth type that sometimes can be seen as nothing but a challenge in the context of a relationship, such as a Capricorn (given the two can learn to work together if they accept each other's nature). And Aries, for all its variety and mercurial temperament, is also still no more or less than a human, and therefore often lives within the context of a day-to-day routine. Yes, Aries lead, but Aries can and are still often stable people, and Virgo, growing into any space it is allowed, and if it so desires, seeing as it has no need to lead but often enjoys just supporting and progressing, is probably pretty fine with growing into whatever relationship role its Aries provides. Aries, on the other hand, is always looking for support and dedicated followers, and Virgo is pretty decent at doing both.

pretty much