I see plenty of post bashing cancer men when naturally cancer men are the type of man that is marriage material. Many of you are confused by the actions of these men because you do not understand their way of thinking. I will give you some tips on getting what you want out of these men.
1. Be suttle with these guys - don't come on to strong when you like them, don't complain loudly and aggressively when you don't like something, be gentle and communicate with them 2. Don't hide anything - Cancer men are intuitive and if they feel what you feel but you are saying something different they will become manipulative or shut down on you 3. Communication - learn how to communicate with cancer men.. If you know something is wrong with them give them a hug and whisper everything will be ok.. You'll be amazed at the response you'll get.. Don't just ask " what's wrong with you" 4. Feelings - reassusre them that you aren't going anywhere and make it known you respect how they feel.. They need to feel like your an safe environment to express their feelings to you 5. don't reveal too much - Cancer men want to be your night and shinning armor.. They are aren't lying to try to get with you they are trying to be everything you want in a man instead of just being themselves cause they never want to lose you 6. Reward and praise them - You have to remind him of how great he is and that will make him forget that you won't give up sex to him right at that moment.. The more praise and affection the better 7. Space - Cancer men need space to deal with their own feelings but that doesn't mean cut all communication.. Check on them when they are in a bad mood.. Ask them is there anything you can do to make it better 8. Affectionate - pick random times to just give them all the affection they want.. But don't do this all the time otherwise they will run 9. Don't be shy - ask them out on dates.. Tell them you want to see the and etc. 10. Apologize - if you hurt their feelings make sure you give them a hug and proper apology
What? Some are and some aren't. The same goes for every gender of every sign. I've had a taste of both. My 1st cancer bf WAS a liar, cheater, etc. The one i have now is not at all.
Nice list though. I disagree with the affection part. They can never get enough. If they like you, they want you to cling back. Heavily.
I've dated a few Cancer guys and they always end up looking bat shit crazy to me. One was a total liar/cheat. The other was a cheater too still contacting an ex-gf. Funny how I broke it off with him and he is engaged now and calls me when she's not around. Nope. Not having any of that thank you.
Most of the time you Cancer guys just look like fucking crazy as hell. I've met one very shy, clumsy Cancer that works with me. It's cute but he's the only one that isn't bananas. I would say Cancer females are ok they are always around me. My sister and BFF is one, but as far as dating you guys, hell no.
1. Be suttle with these guys
- don't come on to strong when you like them, don't complain loudly and aggressively when you don't like something, be gentle and communicate with them
2. Don't hide anything
- Cancer men are intuitive and if they feel what you feel but you are saying something different they will become manipulative or shut down on you
3. Communication
- learn how to communicate with cancer men.. If you know something is wrong with them give them a hug and whisper everything will be ok.. You'll be amazed at the response you'll get.. Don't just ask " what's wrong with you"
4. Feelings
- reassusre them that you aren't going anywhere and make it known you respect how they feel.. They need to feel like your an safe environment to express their feelings to you
5. don't reveal too much
- Cancer men want to be your night and shinning armor.. They are aren't lying to try to get with you they are trying to be everything you want in a man instead of just being themselves cause they never want to lose you
6. Reward and praise them
- You have to remind him of how great he is and that will make him forget that you won't give up sex to him right at that moment.. The more praise and affection the better
7. Space
- Cancer men need space to deal with their own feelings but that doesn't mean cut all communication.. Check on them when they are in a bad mood.. Ask them is there anything you can do to make it better
8. Affectionate
- pick random times to just give them all the affection they want.. But don't do this all the time otherwise they will run
9. Don't be shy
- ask them out on dates.. Tell them you want to see the and etc.
10. Apologize
- if you hurt their feelings make sure you give them a hug and proper apology
any questions!?
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