Capricorn man confusing me

So me and this cap guy started off casual, but over these 2 months we've become attached...he asked me to come away with him for a week (I did it, was amazing!) and he told me he's falling for me ect He said that we're clearly dating now haha But he's moving to Skye (which is why we started casual!) and he doesn't want to leave me behind but doesn't want a gf yet - we both became single in mind February... When we're out with friends he's so affectionate and a guy st this bar asked if I was his gf and he put his arm around me and said 'I guess you could say that' he was away for a week with his dad there and we had plans tonight but he just cancelled! Says he's got too much to do, that's he's sorry and rescheduled to meet tomorrow for brunch...he's got a gift to give me so maybe it's just to give me that:/ I'm just confused...he seems to like me sometimes, but as an Aries, this cancelling of plans tonight has upset me😢 if it was me, I would never let anything cancel my plans to see him and I can't help but think he's no longer interested! Capricorns help?!?!

I get what you're saying! I guess I just expected him to be more eager to see me after a week! He said he has a lot on his mind and a lot to do today and I told him 'I understand'...but it's not what I expected from him? Not how I think a guy who really missed me/liked me would act I guess...

So yeah he's 23 and has told me he's torn - doesn't want to leave me behind but needs to get away from the city! Says he's scared cause we've become attached so fast...I guess for me I wouldn't expect him to show so much care for me if he wasn't interested? He said he doesn't want a gf but that's not what I'm offering! I just want to see where this goes even when he's away! When we were on that holiday he asked me to spend summer with him up there and I told him he was nuts haha (And at that point he hadn't even said we were dating!) This is why I find him confusing btw...because he says one thing but he acts like he's falling for me (he even said it once)

Oh and he should be moving by the end of the week!

No the issue (I think) is that he's scared because we're attached so fast and he's going away! Says that if he was staying home he would love to see this blossom but he doesn't see the practicality in it... He just rescheduled with me again because he can only see his sister tomorrow morning so I'm seeing him in the afternoon...I'm taking that as he wants to see me, like he's making an effort! But I dunno...he still seems guarded

Hey Skye, I don't know what an LDR is haha If you're asking if I can find out his moon and rising sign ect then I'm not sure because don't I need to know the time he was born?

Aaaah well I've never tried! But I would if I knew that the person on the other end missed me/wanted to see me as much as I do them!

And he bought me something cause he was away for my birthday haha But he usually buys me wee pick and mix sweetie bags haha

Posted by AriesAlways
So me and this cap guy started off casual, but over these 2 months we've become attached...He said that we're clearly dating now

and he ....doesn't want a gf yet

a guy st this bar asked if I was his gf and he put his arm around me and said 'I guess you could say that'

Ok, a few things here.

1. Dating does not = bf/gf or a monogamous relationship.

2. Believe him when he says he doesn't want a gf. And don't get attached...accept that he's not serious about moving to exclusivity with you.

3. Him claiming his territory...aka telling the dude at the bar that your his...doesn't mean he's gonna give you the gf crown.

You need to detach emotionally. He is not ready to give you what you want (a relationship) so it's best if you either stay and be ok with that, or move on completely.

Hey LadyNeptune,

No I know that! He was the one who mentioned a relationship and when I said 'oh so you've thought about gf and bf' he said 'you've not??' So I never uttered that option til he brought it up...

I do believe him, Capricorns move super slow and 2 months isn't that long at all! But if he likes me the way he said/I feel he does then why not keep enjoying that?

And I don't assume that...But if he comfortable enough saying that and when we hang out with people he'll kiss me and be affectionate towards me so people think we're gf/bf then that tells me he's okay with the idea?

You probably won't agree with me but that's just my take!

And Whatthehell yeah I know haha LDR will probably be difficult! But if he just loses that fear and let's things be (all of our holiday we were inseparable and everyone we met thought we'd been together for years and we didn't tell them different!lol) I know that once I'm back from my holiday with friends in summer, that i could do what he once wanted and be up there! Be as happy as we once were...

Hey Skye!

But doesn't that scare Capricorns away??haha You come on too strong and they run even further??

And I've been checking them all Whatthehell haha He's done A LOT that people say means he likes me or is even falling for me! And everyone says that if a cap is trying to avoid you then they will, but all he's been doing today is trying to reschedule with me and for good reason...I don't know, not the relationship I'm used to though!

Maybe... He now has to see his sister tomorrow morning (it's the only time she's free) so he asked me to meet him at 2pm...usually I can tell by the way he looks at me how much he likes be so hopefully his eyes haven't changed...