Confoozled by Libra

For an Aries woman, Librans tend to drive me completely bonkers. I'm much more direct and upfront than them, so it drives me nuts that I'm so attracted to one right now.

I'm wondering if I could relay a few "signs" of what my Libran has been showing me and have someone decipher his actions for me better.

We work together. He tends to flirt a bit and even hang out with me outside of work. He flatters on occasion but only in response to my intelligence or taste in music. He asked one of my friends at work if when we go out next time he could tag along and know us as people outside of work after he learned I had a night on the town planned with her. However, she thinks he was being flirty with her which very well may be. I've noticed him being quite flirtatious with a couple other women... more so than with me. With me, it's spiritual talks or talks about music or how displaced we both feel since we are so new to this area. I've had two hugs from him this past week, and I've never seen him hug anyone we work with before. He showed jealousy when a few other guys showed an interest in me... but he surely didn't say anything about why he got upset with me when they flirted. He talks to me about things I know for a fact no one else on the premises is aware of. When he does that, it makes me feel as if he trusts me more than others.

But that could all be friendship, right? Nothing more...

And to top it all off, I got the "blurred lines" conversation from him. Think that would be a tip off for me, right? Wrong. There's just some weird azz connection between the two of us. I can see gears whirring when he looks at me, and if I get all Aries on him and just ignore him since I can't figure out how else to deal with him, he lets it go for a wee bit then seems to become more intensely attuned to me. Right after the blurred lines convo, I found he added me to his myspace page and bought me drinks later that evening.

It's very confounding for this Aries who likes complete directness. I wouldn't think it was anything but friendship if I didn't feel such an intense connection to him. Or if he didn't seem to look at me differently than the others or "accidentally and nonchalantly" touch me or bump into me without making it seem as if he's really trying to. When someone treats you completely differently than anyone else, isn't that a sign they view you differently even if they're Libran?

Help?

I dated a libra man who drove me insane!....this guy had my head spinning they are outrageous flirts and still will be after dating you...but they are so charming and kind They work out better as friends...he still calls me after 3 yrs just to talk and still says how he cares and wants to be with me but doesnt see it as long term lol...and the feeling is mutual...My leo on the other hand is much better fit for me..and has similar charm but mentally stronger..libras do have a connection with many ppl because they are extremely social so just see where it goes.

I know the attraction could just stem from him being my exact polar opposite on the zodiac. I just don't know how to interpret him even though I know quite a bit about how those born under Libra generally behave and what attracts them. There are tons of little hints here and there... jealousies... excuses to touch me in some way... a certain kind of look from him... trusting me with personal information he does not readily share with others... and this undeniable feeling that we share some deeper connection than with most people.

I certainly never thought I would join a group solely to interpret the actions of a guy who is hard to decipher, but he's under my skin enough for me to do just that. I'm just very puzzled about whether or not to just walk away from this all together or to quit being such an impetuous Aries and allow someone else to lead the way for once. Always being the aggressor hasn't exactly worked out in my favor in the past, so maybe I could actually learn from Libra.

ask the libran....