Cursed to be withdrawn and hard to get to know?

Virgo Sun
Cancer Moon
Scorpio Asc.


I've always known my entire life that I'm slow to warm up to people (and vice versa) but it suddenly occurred to me that I may have 3 strikes against me! Anybody w/ similar aspects feel the same? Any insight? I swear, I've gone to school or worked w/ people for ages and for some reason they're always put off/afraid of me even when I try to open up or be "friendly". I'll also admit that I am VERY selective about who I "let in" (for real). I'm a quality over quantity friendship person (HATE POLITE/FRIENDLY banter and b.s.) and wonder if some people sense this, too, and stay away. I dunno.... Dont care that much (LOL!) was just thinking bout it. I do cherish the people I connect with but they are few and far between.

Posted by MiaSangria
Virgo Sun
Cancer Moon
Scorpio Asc.


I've always known my entire life that I'm slow to warm up to people (and vice versa) but it suddenly occurred to me that I may have 3 strikes against me! Anybody w/ similar aspects feel the same? Any insight? I swear, I've gone to school or worked w/ people for ages and for some reason they're always put off/afraid of me even when I try to open up or be "friendly". I'll also admit that I am VERY selective about who I "let in" (for real). I'm a quality over quantity friendship person (HATE POLITE/FRIENDLY banter and b.s.) and wonder if some people sense this, too, and stay away. I dunno.... Dont care that much (LOL!) was just thinking bout it. I do cherish the people I connect with but they are few and far between.

gemini sun
cancer moon
scorpio asc.

i can relate.

do you have saturn in XI?

Virgo Sun
Virgo Moon
Leo Ascendant


I find that while I'm a hermit I do enjoy bonding with others. But this isn't something thats outwardly known.

According to 2 different sites it would appear that I have NO planets in 11th house (—? is that my answer?!)
and my 11th house is in Aquarius.

LOL! I swear I got that on more than one site before but today I got Aries Asc on 2 diff sites...
Does that make more sense?

Your Planets & Houses
Sun Virgo
Moon Cancer
Mercury Libra
Venus Libra
Mars Leo
Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Aries
Uranus Virgo
Neptune Scorpio
Pluto Virgo
Lilith Gemini
Asc node Aries

Ascendant Aries
II Taurus
III Gemini
IV Cancer
V Leo
VI Virgo
VII Libra
VIII Scorpio
IX Sagittarius
Midheaven Capricorn
XI Aquarius
XII Pisces

Posted by CancerMoon
Oh, okay. Yes, with Asc in Aries it does make more sense. 🙂
I still can't see which planet is in what house but your Moon is in the 4th and your Saturn in the 1st? That could make you a very private person and difficult to warm up to.

Yep! That would be me.
Thanks for the site recommendation. (love your avatar btw 🙂


Sun Virgo 24??12'37 in house 6 direct
Moon Cancer 18??35'22 in house 4 direct
Mercury Libra 20??16'13 end of house 6 direct
Venus Libra 18??09'47 end of house 6 direct
Mars Leo 27??01'43 in house 5 direct
Jupiter Virgo 18??07'31 in house 6 direct
Saturn Aries 24??10'44 in house 1 retrograde
Uranus Virgo 29??16'01 in house 6 direct
Neptune Scorpio 24??14'46 end of house 7 direct
Pluto Virgo 22??43'44 in house 6 direct
True Node Aries 9??44'30 in house 12 retrograde

Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house. (Thank Gawd...I got so much 6th house its scary)

Posted by MiaSangria

I'll also admit that I am VERY selective about who I "let in" (for real). I'm a quality over quantity friendship person (HATE POLITE/FRIENDLY banter and b.s.) and wonder if some people sense this, too, and stay away. I dunno.... Dont care that much (LOL!) was just thinking bout it. I do cherish the people I connect with but they are few and far between.

That makes you sound normal .. there are very few.


Most people engage in mindless chatter every time they speak .. they are also the ones who condition their minds with television


If you have nothing to say that is different from the chaos of mindless chatter .. then you really do have nothing to say of value

Thank you CancerMoon for taking the time to write that for me 🙂 that last paragraph is on the money for sure!

I love Peter Sellers too!