@LonLon
16 Years
Virgos tend to be cautious and analytical, often avoiding revenge unless they feel deeply betrayed. When provoked, some may respond with controlled anger or withdrawal rather than direct vengeance. Their reaction depends on personal values and circumstances, but generally they prefer to resolve conflicts calmly.
a "friend" broke my trust and the thought crossed my mind to get them back,but i let it go because they are oblivious to what they did and i'll let them suffer through their own mistakes,not worth my time getting revenge
Posted by virg_goki
I think its common for us to ignore once someone crossed the threshold... its a more practical way to get back. less effort, greater effect
^^This!
Ok..lol.I thought I was alone. I had GOTTEN SSSOO mad..but now I am mellow bout it..and I am ignoring those involved. And it is just a fight in me not to say anything..but I refuse to keep pressing into that negative area. I know we can verbally assassinate someone out of anger..but it take alot for us to get to that place.
Posted by CancerMoon
Hmm,no. My time is way too precious to beat myself up over some a*hole. I just forget about it and keep away from the person.
This.
Unless they continue to get into my face, and then it's time to roll up my sleeves and *help* them see the light.
Let nature take care of your enemies. It may take years but TRUST ME....you will find out about it.
Mean-spirited folk and people who unfairly or unnecessarily treated you like shit.....oh believe me, it comes back to them. I had TWO people just this year get in trouble with the law and one will experience what I did all those years ago.
I didnt have to lift a finger. I could have. But its sweeter to sit back and watch knowing nothing can be traced back to me.
Posted by LonLon
Ok..lol.I thought I was alone. I had GOTTEN SSSOO mad..but now I am mellow bout it..and I am ignoring those involved. And it is just a fight in me not to say anything..but I refuse to keep pressing into that negative area. I know we can verbally assassinate someone out of anger..but it take alot for us to get to that place.
"Verbally assassinate"...love it.
They don't say silence is golden for nothing. I've had ex-friends call/e-mail me asking "why aren't you talking to me?"
Nobody, and I mean nobody, can ignore and delete like a Virgo, and that shit just eats folks up on the inside. They can't handle it.
I don't do revenge. It's not worth it. I just go radio silent and leave the rest up to the universe.
If cornered I will f* u up.
If you cross me and it is not a situation where I need to recover something. I will let it go, and delete you like some malware.
If you are dumb enough to try to persistently reenter my life like many Libras are, after I tell you a billion times, I do not want you there. I will just tolerate you when you call, and be civil with you, but not be emotionally or deeply connected with you in anyway.
In fact, I'd probably fukc you over if it were to benefit my agenda. However, that person would bring that on themself, because I make very clear I don't want you in my life. No amount of groveling or apologies will let you back in the 'zone' after you've been malicious to me or burned my trust.
*Vengeance*
I used to contemplate and act out in retaliation in the past, but I find it too immature and a waste of good energy for bad.
Posted by sikkario
If cornered I will f* u up.If you cross me and it is not a situation where I need to recover something. I will let it go, and delete you like some malware.
If you are dumb enough to try to persistently reenter my life like many Libras are, after I tell you a billion times, I do not want you there. I will just tolerate you when you call, and be civil with you, but not be emotionally or deeply connected with you in anyway.
In fact, I'd probably fukc you over if it were to benefit my agenda. However, that person would bring that on themself, because I make very clear I don't want you in my life. No amount of groveling or apologies will let you back in the 'zone' after you've been malicious to me or burned my trust.
This.
LOL!
I feel like I wrote this 😆!!!
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I was wondering any Virgos ever been provoked to vengence? Have you been victom or the end of the anger of a Virgo? What was your breaking point? Did you follow through? Just wondering..