Geminis WHY are they so fickle

I love a Gemini but my patience with him is very thin.

I am a Cancer, and I am very hard on the outside but very tender on the inside. I am not fickle just very cautious. I wanted to be with him and was willing to go the extra mile but when he started acting like that, I had to make a decision. And I did. we are friends and that will be it. your thoughts are appreciated. But my decision stands.

Its in their nature. I broke up with mine a few weeks ago. They want it all. since they can see both sides...the good and the bad of a problem, they have a hard time making up their mind. My mom is a gem too. I called her a hypocrite and a two faced. later on dealing with men i realized its a gem thing. supposedly male gems get better at stability with age. but then again see how many times Trump go married, He's a Gem. They want to experience everything before they make up their mind. but they are such great lovers that we want them even thou they are fickle. hoping they too will feel the same way that they will not want to go anywhere. be strong.

Its in their nature. I broke up with mine a few weeks ago. They want it all. since they can see both sides...the good and the bad of a problem, they have a hard time making up their mind. My mom is a gem too. I called her a hypocrite and a two faced. later on dealing with men i realized its a gem thing. supposedly male gems get better at stability with age. but then again see how many times Trump go married, He's a Gem. They want to experience everything before they make up their mind. but they are such great lovers that we want them even thou they are fickle. hoping they too will feel the same way that they will not want to go anywhere. be strong. They do move on quicker than us. My ex-and I had a convo about how long it took for us to move on from a relationship. He said that He was hurtin but he was practical....he still has to go to work and go out with his friends and have fun. He would never sit and cry for a girl cuz its a waste of time....it wasnt going to change anything. So when we broke up I felt like damn, this man is just having the time of his life with the new chick he cheated on me with. He never said im sorry for doing me the way he did. but I think its cuz he didnt feel any remorse. I hate him for that. He had no problem having us both, and he always knew just what to say so that I wouldnt worry about him cheating. Made me feel guilty that I wasnt supportive since he was going thru some tuff times. Girl he made me feel so bad i thought i was the nut case. but his behaviour did change alot. thats cuz in my case ms new chic was taking up all his time. I loved him alot. I hated that we couldnt work it out. But i was a phase, I was the toy that lost its lust. I think you are better off with out him.