horary - should i completly move on and let go of old people and environment ?

hey,

i am aries. i have a question to answer.

if you know , please help me.

i have asked it before maybe some weeks ago.

i am asking it now again.

its 12:26 pm. Lodz, Poland.

i am asking if i should completly move on and let go of old people and environment or maybe stick to some individuals?

i would like to have some of them near me even though its different environment but i dont know if its worth it.

its all about virgo and leo guy i have written before. i am letting virgo go and i am movng on but still hesitating about leo guy

.

i met leo a few days ago randomly, he was nice, but we were in a rush,short talk, he said sth like : 'see you soon, see yo around'

but didnt write to me after.

(i will say he is more earthy like virgo as well, hard working picky and he has a venus and mars in virgo)

i still have a grudge that he ignored me 2-3 months ago but a few days ago he was nice like nothing happened. i dont know if i should be 'old fashioned; and unforgiving, vindictive.

maybe i should start and move on with this 'FRIEND' relation as well.

take him as he is now a friend, maybe i should not see him as a hypothetical boyfriend because i start to analyse and i get stuck... what do you think?

i cut the contact a month ago with him, but a few days ago he seemed like he liked me and he wanted to continue the friend relation'. i know it didnt mean anything but i am very strict and 1:0 , i am like black and white.

i dont see grey colours in life thats why i cut people our from my life. and they dont understand. i do it because i dont wanna get hurt again .

what do you think?

should i let go of him as well or should i pursue the friend , chill, normal relation with him? without expectations? without pursuing to anything?

thank you , its important to me.

@aquarius_man maybe you could help again 😄

the last time 🙂 thank you



and @tiziani maybe now my chart is kind of 'readable' because before you couldnt read it at all. because of my inner doubts as you said. thanks 🙂

i let go of a virgo previously but sometimes he is in my mind.

you know its because before i knew my worth and some people had to destroy it by playing with me.

its not bad, because people are not 'gold' and are not children.

but still being nice and normal doesnt mean you are weak.

playing games is for weak people.

and i still see from social media virgo is the same.

it it him who has a problem.

i dont know about leo.

we met a few days ago in the cinema. i was going out, went alone for a movie. and he was going in with his best friend. we had a short talk. he knew i was there alone. without anyone.

i take my way . my path is different than his. before he was kind of a 'mentor' a person who helps me in this path. because i was a freelance in other environment. but since a few months i came back to my profession, to my path that i know i can and want pursue. and he doesnt work in this path.

so there are two ways.

either i contact him sometimes on a friend level or i just forget and move on with my new friends.

in this new path i already made new friends. i already met new people, and were doing some projects together. so it seems like i have new friends. but everything is going very slowly.

this time ill take it slow. i prefer it.

but dont know if should 'let' leo stay in my life or just let go.

because now i 'dont need him'. if i let him stay it would be on only personal level...

not professional.

before we wereconnected with freelance projects and work. now- completly different environments.

you should ask a leo. but his behavior is not that of a man who wants you. or maybe he wants you, but he wants you to come begging.you signaled to him you were interested but if he isnt and prefers to talk to you like a friend, you can consider him just a friend, too. and see where it takes you from there. maybe it grows into something stronger, a passionate romance. i really don t know, maybe u have the energy to chase this leo, i wouldn't. maybe he s expecting you to insist. i really don t know.

he likes to be pursued, he likes to have an attention from me.

he knows i am ok. and i am strong.

i dont know if he likes me or its only about his ego.

he doesnt want anyone to ignore him but he 'can ignore'.

like he is the one to make some final move.

but on the other hand i remember him being jeaous of me.

but virgo had to destroy everything .i still wonder what he did tell leo about us.

because since that time leo kind of detached himself and made a 'friend' of me not anyone more.

but still, i remember from the past, it was always me who innitiates and who was doing the 1st moves.

ok thank you.

so maybe you can give me some contact to a leo from this forum?

thanks 🙂

Hello @Chuckcem could you answer for my question regarding to Leo man i am writing about?

thank you 🙂

if not may i ask you for other leo contacts from this forum?

Posted by aquarius_man

Posted by joanne_p
ok thank you.

so maybe you can give me some contact to a leo from this forum?

thanks 🙂

well, just ask the same question in the leo forum. some of those hungry kittens will answer u 🙂

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yes i already did that

its because my profession is full of women.

i am an architect and in Poland architecture is associated with women. civil engineering is associated with men.

thats why those 2 faculties have always lectures with each other.

on the western europe and probably in the US. its different.

as far as i remembered asking friends from uk, us or germany and france its always 50-50 or even 70-30( more men).

architecture is very demanding. when you want to become an architect you must somehow sacrifice your youth. going to clubs , meeting with high school friends. because you automatically have new friends , architecture friends.

but its very difficult . architecture made me question my life.

i didnt have a real boyfriend when i was at architecture faculty.

ididnt want to party so much and i didnt want to have a boyfriend from a party. i was always scared of relations like that.

but i didnt find anyone from architecture neither from civil engineering.

thats why i started doing freelance and meeting people form other artictic environment. and thats why i met Leo.

but now i am coming back to my architecture path. this freelance artistic path didnt work out. i had only bad memories from virgo and probably with Leo.

so i am coming back stronger to my architectural life. but it need to cut other connections completly.

its even not a stereotype about architects.

its true.

you work so much, you dont have your life.

if you dont find any men in some 'breaks from architecture ' like i have now and i do my thesis ,i probably wont find any here.



i really dont know what to do.

Posted by tiziani
The last chart suggested just spend time in a new environment, around new people. Thats not linked to anyone you know right now.

thank you so much.

@joanne_p

Well you're not going to get anywhere with anyone by being vindictice. If that's what you want to do, then you might as well just leave the Leo guy alone.

I responded to your original questions though: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/ask-a-leo-7783794/?p=31#9400731

Posted by Chuckcem
@joanne_p

Well you're not going to get anywhere with anyone by being vindictice. If that's what you want to do, then you might as well just leave the Leo guy alone.

I responded to your original questions though: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/ask-a-leo-7783794/?p=31#9400731

@Chuckcem

hello i never thought of it as being vindictive.

but i hate being ignored. its like people know i am nice person and they think that they can do more. and they can ignore me even when i ask for something...

really.

because i do not show off. i do not tell people how busy i am with my life. i am normal. and people think that maybe i am not interesting.

i am not being vindictive but i hate being played....

when i talk with someone who is interested, then he invites me then i cant because i am sick he understands. but when i start to do the same like an 'exchange'.

he doesnt want and backs off.

i didnt understand. really, i have been ignored 2-3 times by Leo. like he would say MAYBE WE CAN MEET, maybe i will be in town, i dont know.

when i set time, set the day he either is scared or he tests me and doesnt want anything.