Hot Aries stud where I work!

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I've gotta tell someone, I can't keep it a secret any longer.

Okay, first of all, I'm committed, blah blah blah but OH MY GOD...

...There is an interesting thing going on between myself and an Aries who I know almost nothing at all about except that he's about the hottest thing I've ever laid eyes on in real life, ever. He has the whole bad-boy thing going on, he's all pierced and tatooed and what not and he is RIPPED, and I get to see this fact all the time because the work that he does is out of the public eye so he can wear whatever he wants. He is unbelievably hot. Whenever he comes around (which is a lot, thank the heavens above) -- I cannot even breathe, it's crazy. And what makes him even more attractive is his self-confidence and positivity. It makes me crazy. I just want to, you know, obtain carnal knowledge of him.

And so, here's the funny part...I had a feeling that the um, feeling was mutual, because I have been catching him stealing looks at me, all the time. And when I look back at him, we lock eyes for a few seconds, and then we both look away. And the electricity is almost too much to even handle!

It would be easy to think nothing of it except that I really like his personality, too. He's always doing little things for me, when I don't even ask him to, and being all chivalrous and friendly...

And then a couple days ago I was talking to a coworker and I guess the Aries guy was behind me and all of a sudden she stops talking and goes, "oh my god, that guy just totally checked out your ass." And I'm like, "who??" and she goes, "the tall blonde guy"....well he's the only blonde guy who works there, so I knew it was him.

Anyway....

He is so incredibly hot, I'm suprised he's also such a nice guy!

I just needed to share my excitement, thanks for reading. lol


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Bad Boy:
is cocky, arrogant
always puts himself first
is inattentive to a woman's needs
does what he wants when he wants to do it, regardless of what anyone else thinks
acts like a loose cannon
struts his masculine sexuality
isn't even remotely a "nice" guy
often uses women for sex

Is it just me? or does the steriotypical aries sound like the steriotypical bad-boy?
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Haha, helooo everyone!

Well, clearly an update is needed, so an update I will provide.

The last couple/few weeks or so that this obvious (and when necessary, not-so-obvious) flirtation has been going on, I have been wondering to myself if/when/how he's going to find out I'm spoken for. Finally I thought I should just put it out there somehow, to prevent any really uncomfortable situations down the line. So I worked it into very casual conversation and it was somewhat comical actually, because we both just laughed. I'm not really sure what that means exactly, it was kind of like we were both just laughing nervously. And then work required that we part ways rather quickly, and I haven't worked the last couple days so I haven't seen him after that EXCEPT that later that day I caught him staring again, except this time he looked away SUPER FAST. lol......

What the hell! I guess it's just going to be one of those really steamy "I'm undressing you with my eyes" things from now on...we did exchange emails though.......but that was before I came out with the boyfriend thing.......

God, he is just so hot. I am having to fight every consuming inclination to walk right up to him (privately) and say, "please fuck me, now. End the torture." lol.

🙂
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I did want to comment on the bad-boy thing.

I think, although much of the above description at first glance might look to be negative, that there is a reason, a fundamental reason why women can be attracted to them. I think there is a sexiness about a guy who doesn't give a shit about anyone's perception of them. There is a lot of confidence about that, and personally I find confidence extremely attractive. To the extent that I am repulsed by a lack of confidence. Also even though it may seem primitive, I think it's pretty hot when a guy who barely knows you basically threatens to kick another guy's ass for you, lol, which I forgot to mention before, he also did. That was pretty badass, I have to admit. (There was an annoying guy bugging me, and I hadn't even said anything about it to the aries, but he had heard about the situation through the grapevine, and he comes up to me all serious and basically told me he would take care of the guy if I just said the word.) Now in many ways the world is sadly lacking men like this, these days. It's nice to have a bit of the knight-in-shining-armor thing....like I said, confidence, chivalry, a good attitude, these are all very anti-panty qualities. LOL 😛

Yeah...so there's that.
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Aprilbaby, you crack me up! I will keep you posted, for sure. Either all kinds of naughty things are about to happen, or we'll both take the high road and just admire each other from afar. We'll just have to see! lol, it's all very exciting.

And he's really outdoorsy, too, I guess. Very sporty. Not jock-like at all (hello, piercings) - but like...cool, outdoorsy, rock-climbing ram-like dude.

I can't believe I just said dude 🙂 Couldn't describe him any other way.

Oh, and his perfect, perfect hair...and he's blonde! I've never had a thing for blonde guys until him (and it's naturally blonde!). And he's hugely into music, and even plays instruments. And he has this amazing, smooth, kind of deep (but not weird, Barry White deep) voice. Yummmm!! And he's sooo tall. And perfect. And laughs and smiles ALL THE TIME, which makes me laugh and smile all the time. And his presence just fills up the room, instantly. It's amazing.