aries-duality?

There?s this dual characteristic about aries. We are all aware of the fact that (most) aries are strong individuals. But in their ?quest, hunt?, search for a partner they tend to be drawn to defenceless, helpless, sweat, soft, harmless creatures, YET they feel the need to be stimulated, instigated by fast, edgy, harsh, smart, sexy, *SLAP MY BUT!!✨- and ?should I wear red tonight??-personalities. Do you feel this is true or..? Which sign do you think comes close to this exceptional description?
And does this description count for ram-men as well as aries-women?

Dead on. Sweet, smart, and docile yet nasty wild. Uh huh.

Dead on. Sweet, smart, and docile yet nasty wild. Uh huh.

We ariens are generally strong and independent until we find someone we truly love - then we turn into emotional wussies. We also tend to resent that fact, so we are always in a love/hate relationship with our significant other. We sometimes feel less emotionally threatened by a weaker partner - Aries are used to being independent. I figure that we like to find people who are a little helpless and harmless, and introduce them into a crazier, more fun existance. That way, they can feel better about themselves and we can feel like we've helped someone grow! So to answer your question, we like to turn more "soft" people to the prospect of living their edgier dream persona (assuming they're open to ideas and activities). THEN they will slep our butts. Hahaha!

Wow Apps...that's nice to know :-)

So I've noticed 😄
Something else; THEY choose YOU not otherwise

"I figure that we like to find people who are a little helpless and harmless, and introduce them into a crazier, more fun existance. That way, they can feel better about themselves and we can feel like we've helped someone grow!."

wow lol! you guys really look for sweet girls?? the aries boy i like came after me and kept calling me sweet.

also, if that quote above is true.. i sort of got that same idea when i spoke to him. he was soo confident (just the right amount) and was making me laugh so much. i totally forgot about everyone else in the room which never happens!!!!!! after we spoke i realized that he's the kind of guy that could help me feel better about myself and break me out of my shell.


too bad i'm fu*king crazy insecure and let him slip away!!!!!!!! 😢