So im brand new to the site, however, I have alot of questions with cancer women. I hope some of you can help me out. So I was with this women for about five years and just recently we broke up. Before the break up however, about a year and half or so she was very distant. I thought nothing about it because I was madly in love with her. This was the first women that made me act uncharactersitic of my Aries self, in fact I was actually thinking of marrying her. Anyways, we broke up around july 1st about sixteen days before her birthday. After the break up she was very emotional, crying to her friends and crying to me on the phone. She asked me to wait, but wanted me as a friend at the same time, while she did her own thing. We talked twice after the break up and since then she retreated back into her shell and I have not heard from her since. It been about over a month now since of tried to contact her. The last time I tried to contact her was july 15th two days prior to her birthday. So from july 1st to july 15th I made my attempt to reconcile with her. I emailed her three times and got nothing. She claims to have moved on in one month, however, I suspect she hasnt, because how many can get over a five year relationship in one month. So my question is how do I get this women back?? and how do I know if she is really moved on or is she just acting like her cancer self and hiding in her shell? and if she is hiding in her shell is my solution, which is to leave her alone till she comes out, the right one? We had problems, especially trust, me not trusting her for the past year for being distant and of course me being an Aries, my temper. However, many couples have had worse issue that we do and my situation is very confusing because she just was able to let go so easily. Any help in sheading some light on my situation would be greatful. Thanks guys.
