Are us cancer women to much to handle.....

First off I LOVE being a cancer woman wouldn't trade it in ever!!!!

Are cancer women hard to deal with—

Are we too much for other water signs—

Which sign is the best match for us cancer women—

I will say that I am a dramatic cancer! I am sensitive but I vent to my girls not the men in my life.

I've been called crazy and told that they never know day to day how i am going to be....

A scorp told me yesterday the cancer women are too fiesty and he has finally found a non-cancer lady whose a pisces...

I had to laugh at him cause pisces isn't too far from cancer....plus he called last month saying he missess me

Haha tasha. How've you been cutie?

To the OP:

Are cancer women hard to deal with—

I would say that cancer women for us cancer men are not necessarily too much to handle but for me it's just like seeing a heightened version of me with ovaries.

Are we too much for other water signs—

Most wanter signs are kindred spirits. So of course you don't drive us cancerians crazy. Eg..when a water droplet slowly moves down a window and comes in contact with another, what happens!? They connect and become one! So I would say that most if not all water signs like each other (although sometimes they can get pretty annoying and boring..)

Which sign is the best match for us cancer women—

I say go for a sign that challenges you, but has a soft touch about it. A sign that is endearing and willing to listen. A sign that that is an opposite of you, so you can see how the other side lives. Last of all, A sign that will love you for who you are, not what you are!

My suggestions: Virgo, Scorpio, & Capricorn.

Hope you consider my suggestions.

-SMiLES 😄

Well all I did was describe what I look for a girl in general. I don't care what sign she is! Personally, I love me a capricorn queen!But I've even dated a.....
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DUN DUN DUN..a GEMINI! But I've also dated an Aries and a Sag. All three are amazing girls and I don't regret dating any of them! Surprisingly I've never argued with any of them; NOT ONCE! Prolly cuz I was always gone or something. Never got to experience to the make-up sex though damnit! Would've been nice I bet....*sigh* oh well!

-SMiLES😄

I'm glad to hear Cuspy that we both look for the same qualities in a potential mate!

Note: I meant to say that I love me a sag/cap queen. If I had her I would try my best to be her can/leo king! I too am a cuspy.

-SMiLES

I completely agree with you cuspy. New "healthy" challenges is what keeps the relationship alive! Nobody likes the same old boring stuff over and over! It's always a great way to further learn more about your signifcant other and an amazing bonding experience.

Thanks on the kind words cuspy. I hope to find my queen whomever she may be.

-SMiLES

I have long term relationships with a Gemini and Pisces.

For some odd reason Scorps have been all i've dated for the past year and change

My main scorp has been my biggest challenge, i don't get away with squat!!!

I don't like caps (too uptight) or virgo's(too anal)

I haven't dated a Taurus since college and would love to meet another one!!!

i dont care for Pisces either they are too wishy washy and scrops are a lil too...well its hard to describe it and Taurus only fail me once but it was kinda my fault

I had to let the pisces go cause he was so damn FLAKY!!!

Scorps are wishy-washy and so am I so it works SOMETIMES but thats when we clash

Posted by flirtycancer79
I had to let the pisces go cause he was so damn FLAKY!!!

YES!! THEY REALLY ARE!

In all the reading I've done... I keep seeing that Cancer/Cancer relationships are doomed to drown each of the partners out... but when I look at actual relationships between Cancer/Cancer pairs, I'm not seeing how. I'm guessing that as long as the emotional aspect is balanced by one partner being in a good mood when the other is in a bad mood, and the fluctuations remain constant... we would probably keep each other quite happy. I haven't tried a cancer female, but I'm starting to contemplate it.

BTB- I'm through with Pisces women. They try to push me to my furthest extent, but don't know where to stop. When they push me over the edge, and I'm DONE with them... that's when they try to get their act together. Maybe its me and not them, but the pattern never fails. So I'd rather not entertain it.

They're the best for us. We (water) give them the things they (earth) they need to grow {watering plants or rain for crops}. And they (E) channel us (W) and give us a path to follow or know how to calm us {rivers and lakes/the shore}.

Water with water has no form {the oceans}... there is no control. The elements are powerful with each other or on their own. Its just how you use/direct the energies because in the water/water aspect, there are calming waves... and there are also tsunamis. Its all a matter of purpose.

@broken_shell: i had good experience with cancer/cancer relationship i just could not do the mood swings as much

Which sign is the best match for us cancer women— Taurus, some Caps, Pisces, Virgos if they are sane.

LOL!!!

Moom Eyes....

Its funny that you say that because the scorp that said cancers are too fiesty made me snap ended it and ran for the hills.

The scorp ive been dealing with for the longest ignores me when I snap. Sometimes he snaps right back and puts me in my place. But he's the only one that is not fazed by my mood swings. I am always suprised!!! Yesterday I snapped cause I didnt get my way, he ignored me for the rest of the day. It called later in the evening like nothing happened, he was sweet as pie and didnt say anything about my temper tantrum!!!

those are my favs too!!!!

Some folks say they never know how I am going to be day to day!!! I love that about myself, cause i never know either!!!

Im dramatic and sensitive but its im not going to change.

Ive just become more outspoken and wont bite my tongue, thats come with maturity as self assurance.

I adore the scorp im dealing with but he fustrates the shit out of me (in a good way)

I am just use to running the show and I dont run the show at all with him

pisces moon, sag risising

someone told me that I act like a leo

whats yours

yea, i think that its b/c my sun is in the 8th house

Oh!! and i am second decan cancer, so i guess that i have scorp tendencies. I can see that all day in me!!!

I just read another post of yours on a different topic

So, whats your advice on scorp men....

I know he cares cause he's stuck around for the past year but....

he's been VERY distant the last month or so.....

not just with me but his best friend and father

his best friend and I had a vent session for an hour about him the other day

I cannot think of anything I did. I havent said or did anything crazy since march.

"He's says that he has a lot going on" I did tell him that I am here for him and got his back...he was silent when I said it and gave no response.

I have learned that when he goes silent he's in deep thought

We've always had a roller coaster situation but it feels(to me) different than the past

I told him one time if he didn't want this situation anymore, let me know, im a big girl!!!

He's never ignored me outright. He still calls, texts and returns mine in a timely manner

Last nite I called in a tipsy moment and said I was coming over, he shut me down with quickness and said he had his son....I think thats bullshit but whatever!!!

I thinks somethings up with his son's mother and him.......

I can't call it

You two are like girlfriends giving advice from one to another. Pretty cool if you ask me; it's like I can actually hear a conversation between the two of you!

-SMiLES

Tash!!!

My scorp called today during working hours sounding happy!!!

Maybe is because I left a sweet msg yesterday!!!

Now, off to my first date with my new gemini

LoL Flirty I'm a Sag Rising too!

-SMiLES =)

Cancer women are SUMTHING ELSE!

I don't even know where to begin.. at the moment.

Knowing the cancer femmes I've interacted with.. I think they need
a FIRE sign for a partner!

Tash...

The date with the gemini felt like I was a damn interview and I didnt like it.

All it was, question after question after question........not for me, but I got a good meal out of it!!!!!

Peanuts!!!

Its funny that you said that because I dated an Aries and he was the only guy that balanced me. But, oh well, we live in two different states now!!

I can see it, my fire sign girlfriends balance me!

Also, you have me intrigued...how are cancer women SUMTHIN ELSE—??