Why can't cancer and gems get along

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by TepCancer on Sunday, July 12, 2009 and has 11 replies.

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@TepCancer
17 Years

I'm a cancer woman with rising virgo and libra moon

The problem is I read so much things about why people hate gems
I don't get it I don't have problem with gems
My younger brother is a gem and we get along well we have up and down but what u expect he a younger sibling they will always be annoying to the older ones lol
One of my aunt is a gem, we get along great
My b/f is a gem and things are going well
What make gems such evil people, I see them as regular human beings to me

Also read whats compatible to a cancer and who they can get along with

I dated a taurus before which I hated it. They're reaction are slow and they not very motivated to do things like example go out to do something outside no they want to stay home. My cousin is a taurus he is so selfish only care about himself.

Scorpios no offense something about their mental personality pissed me off
my dad is a scorpio and aunt is a scorpio
I have talked to scorpios
Its something about their emotion I can't understand

What I think is funny I'm compatible to the dislike of cancer compatibility lol

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@TepCancer
17 Years

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Cancer Ascendant Virgo
Moon Libra II Libra
Mercury Leo III Scorpio
Venus Virgo IV Sagittarius
Mars Capricorn V Capricorn
Jupiter Pisces VI Aquarius
Saturn Sagittarius VII Pisces
Uranus Sagittarius VIII Aries
Neptune Capricorn IX Taurus
Pluto Scorpio Midheaven Gemini
Lilith Gemini XI Cancer
Asc node Aries XII Leo

I hope this help cause I don't know much about astrology chart and my personality traits
I want to know how I'm different from other cancer
Cause I read things about cancer personality
Most of the traits isn't mine
I love to flirt, I'm not very bond to home and I'm very social depends on the situation and the conversation really
I don't socialize that don't interest me

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@Silverbow
17 YearsCapricorn

I think most peoples' problems with Gems lie with the isea that they are two-faced, as per their astro symbol. However, we are all multifaceted. I am not the same with my mother as I am with my sisters, or with them as with my partner. I mean, imagine if you were to sit with your doctor twisting your fingers in his hair and kissing him on the nose, then went to the opticians and and they asked you to pull down your pants and straddle their chair for a checkout?

multifaceted.

It has poor connotations, but as usual, when most people use such words they are using them incorrectly.

My cancer sis and gem partner get along pretty well.

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@TepCancer
17 Years

Thats good to hear
But I don't see Gems as the only two-faced liar
I have dealt with other zodiac too like aquarius, scorpios, Libra and other zodiacs
I know Libras I can never go out with, they are too indecisive for my taste especially when they are young guys
They can only be my friend

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@TepCancer
17 Years

I wouldn't say fear
I sense people envy gems characteristic and personality

for example you don't let emotions guide you
you use common sense at least that my opinion

I have dealt with emotional people before all it bring to me is disturbance and non logical reasons for their action
Some of the reason that cause chaos is emotional people they don't use reason, they just do cause of their emotions which I find that foolish sometimes depend really on the situation of the person is in

I'm not choosing either sides
It's just not fair people mention gems are the ultimate evil lol

As I observe
Gems have more control of their emotion and they think with their head, not their emotion
Which I find that really funny for me as a cancer
I think with my mind more than my emotion
I observe, analysis, and use logic reason

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@Geminithefox
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by TepCancer

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Cancer Ascendant Virgo
Moon Libra II Libra
Mercury Leo III Scorpio
Venus Virgo IV Sagittarius
Mars Capricorn V Capricorn
Jupiter Pisces VI Aquarius
Saturn Sagittarius VII Pisces
Uranus Sagittarius VIII Aries
Neptune Capricorn IX Taurus
Pluto Scorpio Midheaven Gemini
Lilith Gemini XI Cancer
Asc node Aries XII Leo

I hope this help cause I don't know much about astrology chart and my personality traits
I want to know how I'm different from other cancer
Cause I read things about cancer personality
Most of the traits isn't mine
I love to flirt, I'm not very bond to home and I'm very social depends on the situation and the conversation really
I don't socialize that don't interest me

It appears that you have more fire & earth in your chart so you may
be somewhat different than most Cancers but since CANCER is your Sun sign
you should still have simular traits to many other Cancer people,perhaps
not as emotional as some of them?

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@TepCancer
17 Years

True most people think I'm cold hearted toward things
I get yell at about that all the time lol
I should be more sensitive to people lol

And I'm not super clingy either
I think some of my traits I notice about cancer is I have a good memory

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@TepCancer
17 Years

and I don't go into my shell and be emotional when something goes wrong

I act more like detaching myself, observe, and analysis the person to see what person is like

some part of me act more like the moon libra than the sun cancer lol