
Joanne_P
@joanne_p
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Posted by Pisces1803Ahh, you're too kind - thank you!
She hooked up with a Virgo a year ago. Wants to know what to do to impress him and get him back @themagnetoreborn. lol

Posted by Pisces1803Oh?
He doesn't like you as much as you like him. Don't bother trying to impress him or make him jealous.
Find someone else.
Posted by themagnetorebornPosted by Pisces1803Oh?
He doesn't like you as much as you like him. Don't bother trying to impress him or make him jealous.
Find someone else.
Lmao...clearly your sparknotes version is missing a lot of details.click to expand
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this is going to be a bit weird. i am aries. there is a virgo man that i had an affair with a year ago. since then he was once asked to hang out with him when he saw i was not a partygirl type but more intellectual type, hard worker. it was during the job weve made together.
he is a very intelligent guy comes from a good family but he changed for worse a few years ago. he had been in a relationship 3 years ago and he changed for a bad boy-ish style .
since then he had a lot of 'female friends' hookups and so one.
he met me 2 years ago. i was totally different than his friends- more subtle, more feminine. he had a crush on me- i had on him as well. we had an affair but it didnt last too long because we both pulled away. and since then i cant give him out of my head and he as well does not want to loose me from his life. even if he has other female friends as well.
i see when we are together he doesnt treat me like others. i am his age, i know what i want. i am experienced at university , before in relationships, i had some drama in my life before as well. i am not 'clean' , 'fresh'. i know art and stuff, i am i think intelligent, i study architecture, i am interested in music, any kind of art and so one. but there is a problem because i think before he treated me like a stupid girl.
that he could help- i know virgo are servers but you know- he has a lot of his female friends who he helps not being with them. i didnt want to be on the same level as them. so i pushed forward with my work, with my career, with my school and he saw that.
right now after 1 year after separation i see he doesnt look at me like it was before. i feel like i gained value in his eyes and he finds me more independent and more intellectual- on similar level.
BUT sometimes i see that he is scared of me.
when i want to accomplish something i usually start to be selfish, stubborn and stuff. he is usually calm with the same face- he plans a lot before.
i can do 10 things at once and i succeed. the problem is- i wanna get back with him again but still dont know what tactic to take. i know he has a lot of artistic friends, girls who study at fine arts school and so one and are about 20 yo.
i am older but i think i dont show myself as a valuable person.
i dont wanna be like other even younger girls. i wanna be like myself , more mature and intelligent but funny and nice.
how to do it/
he sees i am doing what i want. i am stubborn but whenever i approach him and even ask him out he 1stly says yes then doesnt appear like he wouldnt respect me. or he says he would come and he wouldnt.
but when i am with someone else he gets jealous. like a dog in a manger thing.
i dont know what to think about it.