@GemmaZeAqua
9 Years
Chubby chasers
Wth kind of a question is this? lol
Gemma, they could be shallow but only if and when they hold little to no invest in the woman.
They will not leave you if they love you.
My Virgent have seen me at some of my worst moments and some of my best. My changes in appearance did not cause him to have a change of hearts. In fact, he relished the moments when I let loose a little being the Stinger that I am I take perhaps a bit too much care to my appearance.
However, they may have a word or two, nag or fret a little because they are worried about your health.
They are loyal and they will stick around, your appearance will not affect their love for you.
Its the kind of question that keeps me up at 2 in the morning after I have googled everything known to man. I just learned sign language and how to install laminate wood flooring.
Posted by GemmaZeAqua
sign language and how to install laminate wood flooring.
2 things I intend on learning soon. SOON.
Actually, sign language is very easy to learn.
The secret is to practice it, to put it to use, especially with people who use sign language on a daily basis.
Que the fabled white night. I can' t answer it. I have no words.
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Que the fabled white night. I can' t answer it. I have no words.
Dude, no one for you to white knight here. Unless you know sign language lol.
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Posted by NobleSag
Que the fabled white night. I can' t answer it. I have no words.
Dude, no one for you to white knight here. Unless you know sign language lol.
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I am familiar with the bird. I don't think the flight conditions are correct.
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Posted by Ram416
Posted by NobleSag
Que the fabled white night. I can' t answer it. I have no words.
Dude, no one for you to white knight here. Unless you know sign language lol.
I am familiar with the bird. I don't think the flight conditions are correct.
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This is you. This will be me.
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Posted by Ram416
Posted by NobleSag
Que the fabled white night. I can' t answer it. I have no words.
Dude, no one for you to white knight here. Unless you know sign language lol.
I am familiar with the bird. I don't think the flight conditions are correct.
This is you. This will be me.
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I've done cold shit but giving a pregnant woman the DXP ice pond challenge is to cold.
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Posted by Ram416
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Que the fabled white night. I can' t answer it. I have no words.
Dude, no one for you to white knight here. Unless you know sign language lol.
I am familiar with the bird. I don't think the flight conditions are correct.
This is you. This will be me.
I've done cold shit but giving a pregnant woman the DXP ice pond challenge is to cold.
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Ah, shit! Dont start rumors, dude. Its a food baby! I repeat, it is a FOOD baby!
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Que the fabled white night. I can' t answer it. I have no words.
Dude, no one for you to white knight here. Unless you know sign language lol.
I am familiar with the bird. I don't think the flight conditions are correct.
This is you. This will be me.
I've done cold shit but giving a pregnant woman the DXP ice pond challenge is to cold.
Ah, shit! Dont start rumors, dude. Its a food baby! I repeat, it is a FOOD baby!
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Better safe than sorry, I'm fucked either way. If I ask when your due you'll stab me with a corn dog. So I'll hope the delivery of whatever it is goes clean and odorless as possible.
Sometimes it's late at the bar. You just got out of a relationship and then you see the answer. I call them slump busters. Get some practice in. The form and execution are more important to get you back in the big game. Even the greatest players in the game slump sometimes. So they git the bullpen with a slump buster. Getting back to the basics.
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It's kinda sad we women fear being left after baby weight
Says a lot, doesn't it?
😢
this isn't baby weight .... it's too many twinkies weight
to answer your question: no, Virgo's aren't typically shallow like that.
However, Virgo mooners are !!
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Actually, sign language is very easy to learn.The secret is to practice it, to put it to use, especially with people who use sign language on a daily basis.
My ex-husband is deaf. I VOWED NEVER to use treetrunking sign language again! 😡
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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Posted by NobleSag
Que the fabled white night. I can' t answer it. I have no words.
Dude, no one for you to white knight here. Unless you know sign language lol.
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Okay, I PROMISED....last time....this is for NOBLESAG (told ya! Saggies are BUTT-IN-SKIES!). Eva does the same sign language word as in "Mr. Holland's Opus" 😉
Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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Que the fabled white night. I can' t answer it. I have no words.
Dude, no one for you to white knight here. Unless you know sign language lol.
I am familiar with the bird. I don't think the flight conditions are correct.
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OMG (Eva hangs head). Flipping the bird is UNIVERSAL!!!!!!!! This is ASL!!!!!!!!!! 😆 😆 😆
Cyber hugs! 🤗
Love,
Eva
PS: Think....MR. HOLLAND'S OPUS!!!!!!!!!
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Que the fabled white night. I can' t answer it. I have no words.
Dude, no one for you to white knight here. Unless you know sign language lol.
I am familiar with the bird. I don't think the flight conditions are correct.
This is you. This will be me.
epic!!!
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ROFLMAO! ....The LAST time I will use sign language... AHEM!!....Eva does the OKAY sign and FLIPS it "vertically" 😏 Making sure to she "tightens" THUMB and INDEX finger VERY, VERY, TIGHT!!! Tsk, tsk, tsk (Saggies!) 😄
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by P-Angelto answer your question: no, Virgo's aren't typically shallow like that.
However, Virgo mooners are !!
A Virgo moon does indeed seem like a main ingredient in the chart of someone who'd be critical enough to be offended by anything less than ideal. Had I kept around around superficiality long enough I too perhaps could just as easily be an incredibly shallow person.
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Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Actually, sign language is very easy to learn.The secret is to practice it, to put it to use, especially with people who use sign language on a daily basis.
My ex-husband is deaf. I VOWED NEVER to use treetrunking sign language again! 😡
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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Eva - do you mean deaf, literally or metaphorically?
To personally input my opinion, if I were in a relationship with a woman and noticed she's gaining weight then it's quite likely I'm gaining just as much. I wouldn't hesitate to comment about us being fat asses and that we should eat less or better food. I'd also become more health conscious when shopping for groceries.
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Gemma, they could be shallow but only if and when they hold little to no invest in the woman.They will not leave you if they love you.
My Virgent have seen me at some of my worst moments and some of my best. My changes in appearance did not cause him to have a change of hearts. In fact, he relished the moments when I let loose a little being the Stinger that I am I take perhaps a bit too much care to my appearance.
However, they may have a word or two, nag or fret a little because they are worried about your health.
They are loyal and they will stick around, your appearance will not affect their love for you.
this.
i would NOT be with a man long term if he only wanted me if i got FAT. i will spite the shit out of him to see if he LOVES me DEEPLY and get fat as fuck, and if he still loves me, then he will have me whatever way.
edit - i really hate men who are so shallow they only want a woman who is hot all the time.
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Gemma, they could be shallow but only if and when they hold little to no invest in the woman.They will not leave you if they love you.
My Virgent have seen me at some of my worst moments and some of my best. My changes in appearance did not cause him to have a change of hearts. In fact, he relished the moments when I let loose a little being the Stinger that I am I take perhaps a bit too much care to my appearance.
However, they may have a word or two, nag or fret a little because they are worried about your health.
They are loyal and they will stick around, your appearance will not affect their love for you.
this.
i would NOT be with a man long term if he only wanted me if i got FAT. i will spite the shit out of him to see if he LOVES me DEEPLY and get fat as fuck, and if he still loves me, then he will have me whatever way.
edit - i really hate men who are so shallow they only want a woman who is hot all the time.
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You better stay away from fire signs.
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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Gemma, they could be shallow but only if and when they hold little to no invest in the woman.They will not leave you if they love you.
My Virgent have seen me at some of my worst moments and some of my best. My changes in appearance did not cause him to have a change of hearts. In fact, he relished the moments when I let loose a little being the Stinger that I am I take perhaps a bit too much care to my appearance.
However, they may have a word or two, nag or fret a little because they are worried about your health.
They are loyal and they will stick around, your appearance will not affect their love for you.
this.
i would NOT be with a man long term if he only wanted me if i got FAT. i will spite the shit out of him to see if he LOVES me DEEPLY and get fat as fuck, and if he still loves me, then he will have me whatever way.
edit - i really hate men who are so shallow they only want a woman who is hot all the time.
You better stay away from fire signs.
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naw, my man is also fire dominant.
he loves HOT women, that's what he told me, HONESTLY, he said, basically to me, "why do you think i wanted you? it wasn't for your mind" Lol 😆
....
but he is water dominant too, so pffttt. 😛
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Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Gemma, they could be shallow but only if and when they hold little to no invest in the woman.They will not leave you if they love you.
My Virgent have seen me at some of my worst moments and some of my best. My changes in appearance did not cause him to have a change of hearts. In fact, he relished the moments when I let loose a little being the Stinger that I am I take perhaps a bit too much care to my appearance.
However, they may have a word or two, nag or fret a little because they are worried about your health.
They are loyal and they will stick around, your appearance will not affect their love for you.
this.
i would NOT be with a man long term if he only wanted me if i got FAT. i will spite the shit out of him to see if he LOVES me DEEPLY and get fat as fuck, and if he still loves me, then he will have me whatever way.
edit - i really hate men who are so shallow they only want a woman who is hot all the time.
You better stay away from fire signs.
naw, my man is also fire dominant.
he loves HOT women, that's what he told me, HONESTLY, he said, basically to me, "why do you think i wanted you? it wasn't for your mind" Lol 😆
....
but he is water dominant too, so pffttt. 😛
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You're not fat so why you say naw?
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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Gemma, they could be shallow but only if and when they hold little to no invest in the woman.They will not leave you if they love you.
My Virgent have seen me at some of my worst moments and some of my best. My changes in appearance did not cause him to have a change of hearts. In fact, he relished the moments when I let loose a little being the Stinger that I am I take perhaps a bit too much care to my appearance.
However, they may have a word or two, nag or fret a little because they are worried about your health.
They are loyal and they will stick around, your appearance will not affect their love for you.
this.
i would NOT be with a man long term if he only wanted me if i got FAT. i will spite the shit out of him to see if he LOVES me DEEPLY and get fat as fuck, and if he still loves me, then he will have me whatever way.
edit - i really hate men who are so shallow they only want a woman who is hot all the time.
You better stay away from fire signs.
naw, my man is also fire dominant.
he loves HOT women, that's what he told me, HONESTLY, he said, basically to me, "why do you think i wanted you? it wasn't for your mind" Lol 😆
....
but he is water dominant too, so pffttt. 😛
You're not fat so why you say naw?
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lol
my man has a way of INSULTING me....but in disguise he loves me lots. I love him lots.
it's sadistic.
edit - i'm a masochist. *smh*
still, I stand by what I said, I hate men who are only for a woman or hotness and looks.
because in the long run he will LEAVE you for another hottie if he doesn't love you if you turn fat and ugly.
and to me that's shallow.
I would not care if my man got a big beer gut and chubby wubby, and farts all the time.
if I love him lots, I don't care. but I did tell him no beards please. lol
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Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Gemma, they could be shallow but only if and when they hold little to no invest in the woman.They will not leave you if they love you.
My Virgent have seen me at some of my worst moments and some of my best. My changes in appearance did not cause him to have a change of hearts. In fact, he relished the moments when I let loose a little being the Stinger that I am I take perhaps a bit too much care to my appearance.
However, they may have a word or two, nag or fret a little because they are worried about your health.
They are loyal and they will stick around, your appearance will not affect their love for you.
this.
i would NOT be with a man long term if he only wanted me if i got FAT. i will spite the shit out of him to see if he LOVES me DEEPLY and get fat as fuck, and if he still loves me, then he will have me whatever way.
edit - i really hate men who are so shallow they only want a woman who is hot all the time.
You better stay away from fire signs.
naw, my man is also fire dominant.
he loves HOT women, that's what he told me, HONESTLY, he said, basically to me, "why do you think i wanted you? it wasn't for your mind" Lol 😆
....
but he is water dominant too, so pffttt. 😛
You're not fat so why you say naw?
lol
my man has a way of INSULTING me....but in disguise he loves me lots. I love him lots.
it's sadistic.
edit - i'm a masochist. *smh*
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Obviously. Lol.
I couldn't/wouldn't put up with that shit
lol!
I hope not!! you're a heterosexual man who wants a woman right?
(remembers your love of scorpio women) 😄
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Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Actually, sign language is very easy to learn.The secret is to practice it, to put it to use, especially with people who use sign language on a daily basis.
My ex-husband is deaf. I VOWED NEVER to use treetrunking sign language again! 😡
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Eva - do you mean deaf, literally or metaphorically?
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Literally, girl. He was diagnosed as being profusely deaf at the age of three (3). I should know, I was married to him for almost 10 years. 🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
my sister is with a virgo sun man. she has the same weight problems. She is TOO skinny.
My husband's cousin is also Scorpio sun/Leo moon, but with leo mars, and his wife is TOO Skinny.
like supermodel skinny....for years. but lately she's been filling it up a bit, just a bit.
I always wonder if it's an insecurity thing....so they won't lose the man, to PLEASE him because if they get fat, they will get their men looking elsewhere.
of course I don't say anything....but it's on my mind, where I think, is the notion of staying super thin,
a way to keep your man DESIRING you?
for example, my husband will say to me, I"m gaining weight. I am like, yeah? Ok. i'll work on those fat busters. lol
so I do for a bit.
which is strange, because it's OPPOSITE from my Aries sun/pisces mars/Taurus moon sister who is considered overweight.
but her Libra sun/Pisces moon/Cancer mars husband is also overweight so that is why they don't mind but it doesn't matter because they also go on diets together and work out together.
do they get upset because they are overweight? Nope. they work on it and it's hard on them,
it has a lot to do with the gland, or I heard, THYROID problems?
to be honest, in life, there are women who THROW UP secretly , throw up their food because they want to stay SKINNY.
or take drugs to stay skinny because they want their men to KEEP on desiring them.
this is why so many women make videos to tell women it's OK to be a little overweight.
that youre beautiful no matter what.
but you see, men have this ....Pedastal of what women they DESIRE, should be.
it's just human nature for some. so the women are trying so many ways to KEEP UP and doing this by taking drugs and throwing up, or being aneroxic or bulimic.
it is a serious problem. To be LOVED.
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Posted by lisabethur8
my sister is with a virgo sun man. she has the same weight problems. She is TOO skinny.My husband's cousin is also Scorpio sun/Leo moon, but with leo mars, and his wife is TOO Skinny.
like supermodel skinny....for years. but lately she's been filling it up a bit, just a bit.
I always wonder if it's an insecurity thing....so they won't lose the man, to PLEASE him because if they get fat, they will get their men looking elsewhere.
of course I don't say anything....but it's on my mind, where I think, is the notion of staying super thin,
a way to keep your man DESIRING you?
I know a Virgo woman married to an Aqua who keeps thin coz of that reason but it's not like he's telling her to do it.
And I know an Aqua woman with a Pisces man who basically controls her diet.
I'm not even sure if that relationship would continue coz being an Aqua, she doesn't like being controlled.
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that's true about fixed sign not wanting to be controlled. but it depends on the individual though.
for me, I don't want to have to THROW UP or take drugs to stay skinny. If I can't be loved for who I am, what's the point—
and the same goes for my husband. I will love him even if he gets fat. Love is supposed to be very deep, not some shallowness of trying to keep up appearances and keep up staying "Desirable" because you have this great fear of LOSING him.
if you have a fear of losing someone, then it's not really strong. You should NOT fear in a relationship. because you both are a unit of strength, and of deep love /connection.
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Posted by lisabethur8
my sister is with a virgo sun man. she has the same weight problems. She is TOO skinny.My husband's cousin is also Scorpio sun/Leo moon, but with leo mars, and his wife is TOO Skinny.
like supermodel skinny....for years. but lately she's been filling it up a bit, just a bit.
I always wonder if it's an insecurity thing....so they won't lose the man, to PLEASE him because if they get fat, they will get their men looking elsewhere.
of course I don't say anything....but it's on my mind, where I think, is the notion of staying super thin,
a way to keep your man DESIRING you?
I know a Virgo woman married to an Aqua who keeps thin coz of that reason but it's not like he's telling her to do it.
And I know an Aqua woman with a Pisces man who basically controls her diet.
I'm not even sure if that relationship would continue coz being an Aqua, she doesn't like being controlled.
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oh with that scenario btw,
I think she WANTS to do it for him. To PLEASE him. even though he says nothing.
perhaps she watches him, observes him, and sees that he likes skinnier women.
if you observe what your man likes, you want to please him.
I hope other women chime in because this is serious for women who have deep insecurities of getting and staying with a man.
Posted by GemmaZeAqua
So Ive been eating a lot lately. Not prego even though I look like Im a couple of months along. Its a food baby. My question is are Virgo guys known to be shallow? Is it likely that my bf will leave me if I get a little thick in ze waist?
If you drink lots of beer than you'll be able to carry that food baby to term.
Lmao
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Posted by lisabethur8
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Posted by lisabethur8
my sister is with a virgo sun man. she has the same weight problems. She is TOO skinny.My husband's cousin is also Scorpio sun/Leo moon, but with leo mars, and his wife is TOO Skinny.
like supermodel skinny....for years. but lately she's been filling it up a bit, just a bit.
I always wonder if it's an insecurity thing....so they won't lose the man, to PLEASE him because if they get fat, they will get their men looking elsewhere.
of course I don't say anything....but it's on my mind, where I think, is the notion of staying super thin,
a way to keep your man DESIRING you?
I know a Virgo woman married to an Aqua who keeps thin coz of that reason but it's not like he's telling her to do it.
And I know an Aqua woman with a Pisces man who basically controls her diet.
I'm not even sure if that relationship would continue coz being an Aqua, she doesn't like being controlled.
oh with that scenario btw,
I think she WANTS to do it for him. To PLEASE him. even though he says nothing.
perhaps she watches him, observes him, and sees that he likes skinnier women.
if you observe what your man likes, you want to please him.
I hope other women chime in because this is serious for women who have deep insecurities of getting and staying with a man.
I think my wife does it too even tho I keep telling her to eat more 😢
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you both have LIBRA....I think that is a TRAIT that you need to please eachother.
remember Libra sun/Cancer moon/Cap mars/Virgo venus, No Doubt's Gwen Stefani—
she has a story that was published about her and her ex husband and how she PLEASES him,
to wear make up in bed too, so that when she wakes up she is beautiful with him.
he has NO libra. no 7th house sun, ect.
and they didn't last. because she was PLEASING him too much. overkill.
and look, it didn't work.
look at Jada Smith Pinkett...I was wondering if she was Libra dominant...
YUP sure enough.
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Jada_Pinkett_Smith
and also no matter the sun sign, if you both are LIBRA dominant, you will be GOOD together, pleasing eachother....to the end.
Tom brady/ Giselle Budchen, are both LIBRA dominant. they look awesome together...
pleasing eachohter!!!!!
oohhh I remember Elle on this site, is a Scorpio /aries moon and she is with a Cap who is Libra and Aqua dominant. See?? she knows what's up!!!
edit - omgosh!!!
Justin and Jessica both libra dominant...the consistency...too much.
I'm a plus-sized lover and every time my partner baits a hot bikini worthy chick in front of me I have a total lack of interest and take great joy in seeing the disbelief on her face. (she's plus-sized btw) She keeps trying to test me like that. She keeps doing that even though she knows I have clinical problems keeping my hands off her.
THEN when I see a voluptuous plus-size woman on the streets and point her out to my gf she shows even more disbelief which cracks me up. We check out other girls together all the time. Before anyone judges me for being a shit guy.
She still doesn't believe there can be men that only love big women. She would show me victoria secret shows on youtube and I'll get so bored and switch the channel to boudoir videos.
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So Ive been eating a lot lately. Not prego even though I look like Im a couple of months along. Its a food baby. My question is are Virgo guys known to be shallow? Is it likely that my bf will leave me if I get a little thick in ze waist?