How to overcome this?

I have his issue with relationships. I can't help it, but I go after someone, and I get obsessed with them ,and then something might mapped and I move on to the next person, and all over again, and then to the next person. It's crazy. And a lot of the time I still kinda have feelings for each person. But like I get obsessed. And then if I don't like anyone, or if I do but I get hurt or something, I feel empty. I have a life, I do a lot of stuff, I'm a very busy person, but it still fell completely empty without love. Like, I have to show my love someone, I have to, or else I'm not happy, and I need to be loved, how do I overcome this?

Posted by SuperMissMan
I have his issue with relationships. I can't help it, but I go after someone, and I get obsessed with them ,and then something might mapped and I move on to the next person, and all over again, and then to the next person. It's crazy. And a lot of the time I still kinda have feelings for each person. But like I get obsessed. And then if I don't like anyone, or if I do but I get hurt or something, I feel empty. I have a life, I do a lot of stuff, I'm a very busy person, but it still fell completely empty without love. Like, I have to show my love someone, I have to, or else I'm not happy, and I need to be loved, how do I overcome this?

What is your venus and moon?
It sounds like you need to reassess yourself within. If you cannot love yourself, you cannot properly love anyone else.

Time and maturity.

The missing piece of your issue is loving yourself because when you love yourself and when you're in love with yourself you don't feel the desire to express love all the time, you don't obsess about love.

Being obsessed with a person is not love, it's obsession and too much of it is not healthy.

Dropping someone and moving into a new relationship is not healthy behavior because you aren't taking time to process the situation nor to process your behavior in relationship to the situation/break up.

Unless you're willing to change how you behave this pattern will follow you for the rest of your life.

Also look into cognitive therapy and love addiction and codependency, they have a lot of information online that could help you, more and more forums are popping up online.

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Posted by SuperMissMan
I have his issue with relationships. I can't help it, but I go after someone, and I get obsessed with them ,and then something might mapped and I move on to the next person, and all over again, and then to the next person. It's crazy. And a lot of the time I still kinda have feelings for each person. But like I get obsessed. And then if I don't like anyone, or if I do but I get hurt or something, I feel empty. I have a life, I do a lot of stuff, I'm a very busy person, but it still fell completely empty without love. Like, I have to show my love someone, I have to, or else I'm not happy, and I need to be loved, how do I overcome this?

What is your venus and moon?
It sounds like you need to reassess yourself within. If you cannot love yourself, you cannot properly love anyone else.

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Aqua moon and aries venus

Tikka33, I agree with you and do you know any forums off hand? I would love to visit.

Also imprinting, learned behavior and hurt from childhood or growing up in a dysfunctional family could do this to you also. You may be searching for love in all of the wrong places. Like everyone said, you need to love yourself first and feel comfortable being alone and learn how to make yourself happy/content. Also sometimes we try to fill the void left when someone close to us didn't love us with superficial love, just so we can feel complete or loved. This is an illusion and it's delusional. It also sounds like you don't know how to fix relationships when they go awry, seems like you jump to the next person when things go wrong because you want to keep deluding yourself into thinking your love life is all peaches and cream. And there is no true way that one person can have feelings for multiple people. This is another delusion. Maybe infatuation with something about them? Maybe you see something in them that brings those feelings of acceptance, value, worthiness, "love"? I used to struggle with this so I am right here with you. This behavior only leads to a string of people being hurt and confused and no real love found. Also I think it's good to really think about what love truly is. Love is not ownership or accepting someone because you see something in them that you admire etc.

It's not?

Get a pet. Unconditional love, something to obsess over, its something that will need you take care of.

Read everything you can on Aries Venus.

It describes that behavior exactly.