I feel silly. Please help astrology lovers!

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heliumfiasco
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Hi, I feel so silly to have to ask love questions to strangers, but I need your help before I go insane!
I recently met a really funny guy who I get along with very well. WE have lots of mutual friends and he initially pursued me to hang out and then things have gotten weird. For I would say literally 3 months we have texted daily. Alot of this has been heavy/dark flirtation and joking. We have hung out 4 times. He asked me to be his date fora wedding. Tells me how great I am. etc. The last time we hung out was for two days we never had sex but we were naked in bed for hours talking and making out. After I left his house he wrote to me that I was "pretty" and then something that I cant really tell the origins of "you and i are going to have sex one day, and were going to have a chemical reaction so strong it wipes out an endangered species" I thought it was hilarious, we both have very dark senses of humour. Well my question is this. It seems like yes we text all the time back and forth and he will always respond, but if I dont text him he will go days without saying anything. It almost like he will get mad that I havent and pout/punish me. That is my gut reaction to this. If we are texting and talking he is commenting on every FB post I have responding to me via text and carrying a conversation too. My fear is that we both have expressed our lack of being good at relationships...and I may just be someone he wants to sleep with...but I sense a attraction beyond that as well. Is it typical behavior for a man with the chart below to punish people? He did this to me once before and it was because I got tipsy and left a bar we were at with friends without saying goodbye,I had planned to stay at his house...i knew for sure he was mad and he didnt speak to me for 3 days...I think he was testing me to see when I would text him...I never did and 3 days later he was like "how was your weekend?" his chart is Sun
Libra 9?? 21' in house 10
Moon Scorpio 29?? 30' in house 12
Mercury Scorpio 3?? 6' in house 11
Venus Scorpio 22?? 48' in house 12
Mars Leo 19?? 1' in house 9


Sun Libra 11?? 12' in house 12
Moon Gemini 11?? 9' in house 8
Mercury Libra 19?? 56' in house 12
Venus Virgo 15?? 9' in house 11
Mars Virgo 15?? 27' in house 11

Mine is-
Sun Libra 11?? 12' in house 12
Moon Gemini 11?? 9' in house 8
Mercury Libra 19?? 56' in
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heliumfiasco
@heliumfiasco
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Sometimes I feel like he is very interested in me and other times I feel punished. I never necessarily feel like he doesnt like me. Is it typical for a man with that chart to demand attention he doesnt seem to give freely. he will always text me and seems to enjoy it...even saying "of course i like the attention from a pretty girl like you". And if im not the one to always initiat that attention I feel like he gets butt hurt and gives me the silent treatment. Is it good that I do this...maybe he needs to want.
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Bigbear17
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Sounds like you to had a great start I'm a Libra as well and Ive had situations such as this I'm sure when you didn't go home with him after the bar he was and im positive hes gotten sensitive. Another thing is from my experience we prefer to be called out on our issues especially someone we adore, come on this dude is willing to lay naked with you and not have sex i've done that before but i was ready to tear it up, but after that night she was really on my mind nights like that makes libras think they should slow down. thats what we do we fall in love fast and love to us comes with pleasing our partner romantically. You take that from him then most likely next mistake is just going to turn him off. As far as the texting adventure you two have, just text him because we are good at games just for a little while as you experienced but why make this any sour than it is. Hope this helps, if not enlighten me.
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CapricornSun
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I'm sorry but I must laugh. Or shall I ask, can I laugh? I'm not laughing at you, I just laugh at stupid guys and their brainless attempts to get in the sack with some chick. I'm not a libra fan at all, known too many who are arse-holes. Needn't I say no more! Question arises- do you like this feedback he is giving you? If you do, then don't worry about anything. If it's annoying you and you feel like he might be a guy with no back bone, then tell him where the block key is. Choices are simple.

Wow, I kinda feel like a shrewd answering some of these, and I'm not trying to be mean, not to the posters, but some of these guys, well they just need a slap and then some. IMO. 🙂
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CapricornSun
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I'm sorry but I must laugh. Or shall I ask, can I laugh? I'm not laughing at you, I just laugh at stupid guys and their brainless attempts to get in the sack with some chick. I'm not a libra fan at all, known too many who are arse-holes. Needn't I say no more! Question arises- do you like this feedback he is giving you? If you do, then don't worry about anything. If it's annoying you and you feel like he might be a guy with no back bone, then tell him where the block key is. Choices are simple.

Wow, I kinda feel like a shrewd answering some of these, and I'm not trying to be mean, not to the posters, but some of these guys, well they just need a slap and then some. IMO. 🙂



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