Is she playing with me or is there something else?

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Starleague
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I've been talking to this person for a lot of years, but in the past months she has been lying to me about a lot of stuff. She even avoided some important things to me. However a few times, when i tried to leave she contacted me. But now things are getting worse.

I feel like she is lying to me about a lot of things of her life (where she is living, her situation with a job, university, etc). There are a lot of things that just confused me. P

Can someone please help me, tell me whats happening and what could happen?

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Thank you in advance and sorry f this question is stupid
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Jynja
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You have your Neptune conjunction her sun and mercury. she doesn't feel a par with you, so she feels compelled to embellish her life or cut herself down just to keep up.

Neptune contacts are difficult.

You could just listen and draw the truth out slowly, or put your foot down and refuse to barge until you've got the truth.

if you decide to get committed and live together though, the situation could change.
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Jynja
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Difficult relationship. She probably struggles with being organized, and you probably don't know it but you criticize her or at least she feels you do.

that could also be a cause of the dishonesty.


Also, Neptune could make you think she is lying when she is not. I had Neptune contacts with someone. Even the clearest issues seemed like a lie to him. Illusions, delusions and general fogginess is responsible for the confusion and distortion in the relationship.

Interestingly, its also responsible for the kindness and gentleness you show each other.