Is there a way to change the signs you attract?

Is there a way to change the signs you attract?

If you could be more detailed , I might be able to keep. 🙂

Maybe but it's not good to change yourself for others... What sign are you trying to attract?

Does your Rising sign conflict/differ with your sun?

You could perhaps try to project more of your sun sign qualities, rather that rising.

It takes some effort, I know

Posted by FieryAries9108
Maybe but it's not good to change yourself for others... What sign are you trying to attract?

+1

The forces above gave you what you have. There is a lesson supposedly for this.

But I concur, you can't change yourself for others.

Sometimes I ask myself that same question. LOL

Correct to last post: *help. Anyways, that's any interesting thought. You are lucky enough if you meet 7 people in your life. Wow.

People attract those who either have traits they lack OR have in common.

Which is why they say that who you are attract says a lot more about YOU than them.

So you'd have to change or tone down certain traits about YOURSELF in order to change the audience you attract

If you start acting like a Scorpio, even though you're really an Aquarian, you might start attracting signs like Pisces who are more attracted to people who act like Scorpios do.

If you come off like an Aquarian, you'll probably start attracting signs like Libra, Gemini or other signs Aquarians usually only attract

If you start acting like an Aries, even though you're an Cancer, you'll probably attract the signs you would persay you were actually an Aries

Keyword though is that something in YOU would have to change 1st, before your audience you attract changes

Posted by FieryAries9108
Maybe but it's not good to change yourself for others... What sign are you trying to attract?

I said nothing bout changing myself......I said is there a way to change whom I attract as in signs...astrologically speaking...do you have an answer for that?

Posted by Layna
What kind of signs do you attract?

I personally feel that if you keep attracting one type of people (here, signs), then it means you still have to learn something from them... then you move forward.

I keep attracting water and earth and quite frankly Im sick of it. the common themes are Caps, bulls and Pisces.

Posted by Layna
What kind of signs do you attract?

I personally feel that if you keep attracting one type of people (here, signs), then it means you still have to learn something from them... then you move forward.

what ive learned is that I need to stay away from these mofos cuz im not sure they taught me anything meaningful besides what I dont want. But I dont attract others signs. No fire signs what so ever, no virgos, no aquas, no scorps, no libras...i need some diversity

literally just a ton of the same three signs

Ive noticed that once my sun sign progressed into Taurus i started to attract more bulls...but before its was pisces mixed with caps....nows it an abundance of those two earth signs.

Posted by DanitheV
If you could be more detailed , I might be able to keep. 🙂

see my repsonses below 🙂

Posted by SugarAries

I personally feel that if you keep attracting one type of people (here, signs), then it means you still have to learn something from them... then you move forward.

Yep!

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this is vague tho

Posted by Layna
I'd love to get me a Goat man. Trade? 😛

... Y'know, now I just hope for certain Moon/Venus placements. I've given up on trying to hope for other Sun signs.

my very first bf was a cap he left a horrible taste in my mouth. My granddad was one too and well from what ive heard of him he was a horrible man. I have just re connected with another Cap i also dated in hs and he was def a sweety back then until he yelled on me one day when I was going through something with his sis. I havent spoken to him in years and we just got reconnected. I have a huge attraction to earth signs I really do but damn they are hard as hell to deal with and so are these damn Pisces. I have yet to meet a stable character from either sign. But I wont right them off but I wish id get one who has a compatible moon or venus sign or placement.

Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
What do you mean by stable character?

lol

cmon son

a stable person

I understand how you feel, All I have been attracting are Virgo's which I'm confused about and Scorpio's (who i love).

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Posted by bkbella86
a stable person

I mean emotionally? Financially? Farmlife? 😛

Anyway, you probably don't attract Virgos because of your initial attitude, maybe. I don't know you like that, I'm just going off what I see here. You come off as kind of a meanie. However, you actually seem like a cool cat once someone gets to know you. It's just not your initial projection.

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cmon son you have said this before...what makes me mean and and virgos extremely nice? and from what ive read you all are cold assholes..i know my step bro is but I still love him despite that.

Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Even better, if there is a way to change who you find attractive let me know. K thanks.

thats a good one too cuz as much as they get on my nerves the bulls and caps and fishes are so samn sexy to me.

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Posted by bkbella86
a stable person

I mean emotionally? Financially? Farmlife? 😛

Anyway, you probably don't attract Virgos because of your initial attitude, maybe. I don't know you like that, I'm just going off what I see here. You come off as kind of a meanie. However, you actually seem like a cool cat once someone gets to know you. It's just not your initial projection.

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but to answer the thw question yes stable emotionally, not insecure, financially secure too

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Posted by bkbella86
a stable person

I mean emotionally? Financially? Farmlife? 😛

Anyway, you probably don't attract Virgos because of your initial attitude, maybe. I don't know you like that, I'm just going off what I see here. You come off as kind of a meanie. However, you actually seem like a cool cat once someone gets to know you. It's just not your initial projection.

cmon son you have said this before...what makes me mean and and virgos extremely nice? and from what ive read you all are cold assholes..i know my step bro is but I still love him despite that.

Well first of all I'm not going off what I read from others, that's your first mistake. I went off "your" individual vibes and posts. And I know I'm not extremely nice and I have a hell of a fuck you side, but when you have the "heyyyy I'm a bitch" face for no reason, I mean wtf you want somebody to think? That you're a nice person looking for love? Is that gonna make somebody wanna throw rose pedals at your feet— More like you need some dick in your life. *Shruggs*

Nonetheless, if that's your MO then cool, be you. You'll just have to wait until someone wants to deal with it or sees past it. I saw past it, unfortunately, other Virgos probably won't.

Cmon shawty. 🙂

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Fuck you face? When? Have you seen me? Other than pics? Im really trying to figure out when I was mean to you? I don't remember at all. And my post are mean? Please elaborate?

I'm not necessarily looking for virgos either i just said I'm looking to attract different signs...your turning this into let me tell you what's wrong with you lesson. You have the right to your opinion tho but of your gonna call me out then call me out cause you are just speculating at this point since you and i barely interact and I don't Rememeber being rude when I did.

And when you start something off with "we'll first of all" but then try to Say I'm mean its a contradiction. Don't you think you should follow the same advice your giving me?

Posted by size zero superhero
To answer the original question--no, absolutely not.
One cannot help whom they attract, since we are unable to sense what exactly pulls them our way nor can we immediately tell whether/not said individual's personality is consistent with their sun sign's textbook description.

However, it is entirely within your power to choose whom you accept or deny access into your life, which makes all the difference. Just because someone is drawn to you certainly doesn't guarantee they're worth the effort/trouble. Good judgment is key here. And naturally approaching others on your terms is an option, rather than waiting for people to come to you.

I hear ya...but wouldn't or shouldn't I be attracting fire and air based on my sun sign?

Posted by size zero superhero
To answer the original question--no, absolutely not.
One cannot help whom they attract, since we are unable to sense what exactly pulls them our way nor can we immediately tell whether/not said individual's personality is consistent with their sun sign's textbook description.

However, it is entirely within your power to choose whom you accept or deny access into your life, which makes all the difference. Just because someone is drawn to you certainly doesn't guarantee they're worth the effort/trouble. Good judgment is key here. And naturally approaching others on your terms is an option, rather than waiting for people to come to you.

Very wise for someone in your early 20s, supersize. Most of us don't wisen up till late 20s-30s, 40s,50s,60s and beyond. Some wisen up at 12, and some never.

You really can't help who is attracted to you, just don't allow them in your life if you don't like them. The problem here, is that the other person who is attracted to the person who doesn't like/want that other person is /has the ability to "manipulate" and it is, in a strong way, against their will. But then, they didnt have a strong will to begin with. I dont know if i made any sense at all. I'm not very eloquent with words so it'll have to do.

but mostly these people who are easily manipulated were/are young and naive. They can't help it because they go into the world with eyes like a child. It's kind of sad if you think about it. But if the child is able to be strong, they will survive. And some don't sadly.

Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
I agree that its something in our charts. My Pullen shows me as air and earth dominant and that's mostly the type of men that I draw to me, plus an occasional Pisces. Scorpios, Cancers, Aries, and Aquarius(despite being air), avoid me like the plague haha, which is fine. I didn't put my pic up on dxpnet and the results were the same, so it's obviously my personality. Which is good I guess, because it means I'm not attracting people on the superficial level.

Good one, PVF, smart.

Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Obviously you are not picking up what I'm putting down and yes for the record, I have seen your face. Hey, I can't speak for other signs because I'm a Virgo. Hell, I can't even speak for all of them either. Nonetheless, I'm giving you reasons of why you possibly won't attract any. And yes that means telling you whats wrong with you. Which of course is my opinion like you mentioned. And call you out— I'm not speculating shit between me and you because we've had this conversation already about me and you. I was using our little misunderstanding as an example, only. An honestly, you are really making me feel like a Virgo with me remembering shit that you don't.

I said your posts "come off" as being mean when people who havent spoken to you before reads them. Meaning it's the projection that other people see, instead of who you really are. Please, I'm not saying I have your whole life figured out. Calm your happy ass down. 🙂

I think your the one who needs to calm down here....you can't seem to let out initial reaction go and couldn't wait to get in here and tell me about myself. The question at hand is "is there a way to attract different signs" I didn't ask why I don't or what's wrong Wth me. Everyone else here got the message here but you. Not one lady here attempted to tell me about myself they didn't get personal. Did I hurt your feelings? Because I still don't think I was mean to you ever and you do....sensitive maybe?

Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
I agree that its something in our charts. My Pullen shows me as air and earth dominant and that's mostly the type of men that I draw to me, plus an occasional Pisces. Scorpios, Cancers, Aries, and Aquarius(despite being air), avoid me like the plague haha, which is fine. I didn't put my pic up on dxpnet and the results were the same, so it's obviously my personality. Which is good I guess, because it means I'm not attracting people on the superficial level.

I'm going to go in astro and do my pullen again...I always skim it but ill take a closer look. I may find some answers there

People, please understand that nobody can pick who they are attracted to. This is not a decision we can make and when it happens, part of our mind is not our own anymore. This is something everybody needs to come to terms with.

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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Obviously you are not picking up what I'm putting down and yes for the record, I have seen your face. Hey, I can't speak for other signs because I'm a Virgo. Hell, I can't even speak for all of them either. Nonetheless, I'm giving you reasons of why you possibly won't attract any. And yes that means telling you whats wrong with you. Which of course is my opinion like you mentioned. And call you out— I'm not speculating shit between me and you because we've had this conversation already about me and you. I was using our little misunderstanding as an example, only. An honestly, you are really making me feel like a Virgo with me remembering shit that you don't.

I said your posts "come off" as being mean when people who havent spoken to you before reads them. Meaning it's the projection that other people see, instead of who you really are. Please, I'm not saying I have your whole life figured out. Calm your happy ass down. 🙂

I think your the one who needs to calm down here....you can't seem to let out initial reaction go and couldn't wait to get in here and tell me about myself. The question at hand is "is there a way to attract different signs" I didn't ask why I don't or what's wrong Wth me. Everyone else here got the message here but you. Not one lady here attempted to tell me about myself they didn't get personal. Did I hurt your feelings? Because I still don't think I was mean to you ever and you do....sensitive maybe?

Yeah I can be sensitive. I'm also human. You're too. That's why you keep making this into a sensitive issue. You obviously can't take constructive criticism even when it doesn't mean much.
Maybe that example was a figmant of my imagination. *Shruggs*

Anyway, It doesn't really matter. Lets not mold this into something toxic. I have no underlying poison in your steak sauce. You cool with me. 😏

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still cant let go huh


anywho you dont know me well enough to give me unsolicited "constructive criticism".

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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Obviously you are not picking up what I'm putting down and yes for the record, I have seen your face. Hey, I can't speak for other signs because I'm a Virgo. Hell, I can't even speak for all of them either. Nonetheless, I'm giving you reasons of why you possibly won't attract any. And yes that means telling you whats wrong with you. Which of course is my opinion like you mentioned. And call you out— I'm not speculating shit between me and you because we've had this conversation already about me and you. I was using our little misunderstanding as an example, only. An honestly, you are really making me feel like a Virgo with me remembering shit that you don't.

I said your posts "come off" as being mean when people who havent spoken to you before reads them. Meaning it's the projection that other people see, instead of who you really are. Please, I'm not saying I have your whole life figured out. Calm your happy ass down. 🙂

I think your the one who needs to calm down here....you can't seem to let out initial reaction go and couldn't wait to get in here and tell me about myself. The question at hand is "is there a way to attract different signs" I didn't ask why I don't or what's wrong Wth me. Everyone else here got the message here but you. Not one lady here attempted to tell me about myself they didn't get personal. Did I hurt your feelings? Because I still don't think I was mean to you ever and you do....sensitive maybe?

Yeah I can be sensitive. I'm also human. You're too. That's why you keep making this into a sensitive issue. You obviously can't take constructive criticism even when it doesn't mean much.
Maybe that example was a figmant of my imagination. *Shruggs*

Anyway, It doesn't really matter. Lets not mold this into something toxic. I have no underlying poison in your steak sauce. You cool with me. 😏

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this thread aint about you btw...fall back

Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Can't let go of what— If none of that shit happened then there is nothing to let go of. Therefore I've already fell. 😄
Silly Aries...

try not to cry about it