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Better to date your sextile sign or same element?
Should You Date Someone with the Same Element or Sextile Sign in Astrology
Dating someone with the same element often leads to greater understanding and harmony, while a sextile sign can bring complementary strengths and growth. The best choice depends on individual compatibility and personal preferences. Both options can work well if the overall charts and connection are strong. Consider your unique astrological profiles for the best match.
Posted by MrWendall
Squares ftw!click to expandMaybe for fixed signs. But for my mutable. Nuh uh.
😢 How about Cardinal?
Posted by MrWendall
Squares ftw!Maybe for fixed signs. But for my mutable. Nuh uh.
😢 How about Cardinal?
I don't know. Would you date a Libra or Aries?
click to expandWell..... Generally speaking I would rather date the Aries. Libra women tend to irk me, including my mom. Aries (I'm not sure if you count April 20th as a Aries or Taurus) but they tend to be picky with who they date. I'm usually unlucky if I get chosen, but I just date them because I'm bored. It's nice to have "some" excitement out of a relationship.
Posted by MrWendall
Squares ftw!Maybe for fixed signs. But for my mutable. Nuh uh.
😢 How about Cardinal?
I don't know. Would you date a Libra or Aries?
click to expandSpeaking of sextiles, how about a Taurus?
Posted by MrWendall
Squares ftw!Maybe for fixed signs. But for my mutable. Nuh uh.
😢 How about Cardinal?
click to expandHuh. blockquote not working correctly.
Posted by MrWendall
Squares ftw!Maybe for fixed signs. But for my mutable. Nuh uh.
😢 How about Cardinal?
I don't know. Would you date a Libra or Aries?
Well..... Generally speaking I would rather date the Aries. Libra women tend to irk me, including my mom. Aries (I'm not sure if you count April 20th as a Aries or Taurus) but they tend to be picky with who they date. I'm usually unlucky if I get chosen, but I just date them because I'm bored. It's nice to have "some" excitement out of a relationship.
I'm not sure either. It's right on the cusp but I believe it leans toward Taurus.
I tried the relationship thing before with a Sag, and it just doesn't work. Maybe if I were looking for just a fling a Sag would be good. But as far as Gemini, I find them to be strangely sensitive for air signs, and I end up apologizing a lot. So no I wouldn't date a Gemini man. Though I'd rather date a Gemini than a Cancer, like say if he was on the cusp.
click to expandUrgh. Can't date Gemini women, I could date Aquarius women. But not Gemini. The last Gemini I knew became overly attached to me. Had to call it off because of that. I feel squares would do good if they were dating the opposite element. Like Aries with Libra, or Capricorn with Cancer. And that's for Cardinal only.
Posted by MrWendall
Squares ftw!Maybe for fixed signs. But for my mutable. Nuh uh.
😢 How about Cardinal?
I don't know. Would you date a Libra or Aries?
Well..... Generally speaking I would rather date the Aries. Libra women tend to irk me, including my mom. Aries (I'm not sure if you count April 20th as a Aries or Taurus) but they tend to be picky with who they date. I'm usually unlucky if I get chosen, but I just date them because I'm bored. It's nice to have "some" excitement out of a relationship.
I'm not sure either. It's right on the cusp but I believe it leans toward Taurus.
I tried the relationship thing before with a Sag, and it just doesn't work. Maybe if I were looking for just a fling a Sag would be good. But as far as Gemini, I find them to be strangely sensitive for air signs, and I end up apologizing a lot. So no I wouldn't date a Gemini man. Though I'd rather date a Gemini than a Cancer, like say if he was on the cusp.
click to expandUrgh. Can't date Gemini women, I could date Aquarius women. But not Gemini. The last Gemini I knew became overly attached to me. Had to call it off because of that. I feel squares would do good if they were dating the opposite element. Like Aries with Libra, or Capricorn with Cancer. And that's for Cardinal only.
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
^^ Yeah block quote seems to be failing. Oppositions can work. Taurus/Scorpio seems to be a strong one. My sis is a Cap married to a Cancer. They seem happy, though to me the relationship looks unhealthy.For me... Yeah it's still a no. LOL. In terms of friendship though Virgo men are the best. Logical and laid back. I love chilling with them.
Unhealthy in what way? And I can feel ya on Virgos. I don't really like the women since they can be pretty fake and stuck up. Virgo men are alright, my best friend for 14 years is a Virgo. Though his relationships never last, nor does he seem to mention them. And I have a Virgo brother and Sister. I like my sister better than my brother.
My trines must be hiding under rocks when I'm on the prowl.
My sextiles have horns. So does one of my neighbours.
I'm sticking with the other neighbour.
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
^^ Yeah block quote seems to be failing. Oppositions can work. Taurus/Scorpio seems to be a strong one. My sis is a Cap married to a Cancer. They seem happy, though to me the relationship looks unhealthy.For me... Yeah it's still a no. LOL. In terms of friendship though Virgo men are the best. Logical and laid back. I love chilling with them.
Unhealthy in what way? And I can feel ya on Virgos. I don't really like the women since they can be pretty fake and stuck up. Virgo men are alright, my best friend for 14 years is a Virgo. Though his relationships never last, nor does he seem to mention them. And I have a Virgo brother and Sister. I like my sister better than my brother.
She is extremely controlling, bossy, and inflexible. He can't even breath without her permission. He is submissive and hen pecked though so it works for them. As far as I'm concerned the man is a saint because even I find it hard sometimes to love my sister. 😛
My sisters twin is also bossy and controlling, but she is atleast flexible.
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My brother is just very lazy and acts like everybody owes him something when we don't. And now look at the poor fool, a 36 year old man living with his mom.... again.
Posted by Undine
My trines must be hiding under rocks when I'm on the prowl.My sextiles have horns. So does one of my neighbours.
I'm sticking with the other neighbour.
Which neighbor would that happen to be?
It's a riddle!
Posted by Undine
It's a riddle!
Yeah I knew it was a riddle. But are you going to going to tell me the answer or are you going to keep me guessing? Cuz I already figured out the neighbors part, I just wanna know which one.
Posted by Undine
It's a riddle!Yeah I knew it was a riddle. But are you going to going to tell me the answer or are you going to keep me guessing? Cuz I already figured out the neighbors part, I just wanna know which one.
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OK. Which of my neighbours has horns?
I'm dating the other one.
And before him, I dated his horned neighbour, who complained that I talked in riddles!
Square... just can't help myself!
Or Sextile...
No more water required 😉
Posted by Undine
It's a riddle!Yeah I knew it was a riddle. But are you going to going to tell me the answer or are you going to keep me guessing? Cuz I already figured out the neighbors part, I just wanna know which one.
OK. Which of my neighbours has horns?
I'm dating the other one.
And before him, I dated his horned neighbour, who complained that I talked in riddles!
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Ohhhhh I get it now.
At least you didn't complain 🙂! x
Posted by Undine
At least you didn't complain 🙂! x
I tend to go with it. I like riddles, even though it seems riddles don't like me.
I PREFER QUINCUNX. @_@ LOL. DID I ANSWER YOUR QUESTION?! @_@
Posted by Undine
It's a riddle!Yeah I knew it was a riddle. But are you going to going to tell me the answer or are you going to keep me guessing? Cuz I already figured out the neighbors part, I just wanna know which one.
OK. Which of my neighbours has horns?
I'm dating the other one.
And before him, I dated his horned neighbour, who complained that I talked in riddles!
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Capricorn?
My sextiles: Cancer and Scorpio.
My trines: Taurus and Capricorn.
I go with Trines. I like Pisces but they are not my sextiles, right? I'm a Virgo.
I respond better to fire and air as lovers. The same element as friends only.
Posted by firebunny
I PREFER QUINCUNX. @_@ LOL. DID I ANSWER YOUR QUESTION?! @_@
LOL! Nuff said!
I always thought that the quincunx is probably even more difficult than a square to deal with. You really have to work your ass off just to find a solution to connect two planets with totally different modalities. And I still think so.
Posted by firebunny
I PREFER QUINCUNX. @_@ LOL. DID I ANSWER YOUR QUESTION?! @_@LOL! Nuff said!
I always thought that the quincunx is probably even more difficult than a square to deal with. You really have to work your ass off just to find a solution to connect two planets with totally different modalities. And I still think so.
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And I can't even figure out why my two best friends in college are both quincunx to me. LOL.
Posted by firebunny
My sextiles: Cancer and Scorpio.My trines: Taurus and Capricorn.
I go with Trines. I like Pisces but they are not my sextiles, right? I'm a Virgo.
Yeah. The way how I see the same element might be more of friends. Except maybe for Taurus. I dated a Sagittarius and it was too chaotic and unbearable. trines can work for a earth sign if it was a fire sign. Air, wouldn't last long.
Posted by firebunny
My sextiles: Cancer and Scorpio.My trines: Taurus and Capricorn.
I go with Trines. I like Pisces but they are not my sextiles, right? I'm a Virgo.
Yeah. The way how I see the same element might be more of friends. Except maybe for Taurus. I dated a Sagittarius and it was too chaotic and unbearable. trines can work for a earth sign if it was a fire sign. Air, wouldn't last long.
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You're suppressing yourself too much, sniper! Earth women tend to be very beautiful! LOL
Posted by firebunny
My sextiles: Cancer and Scorpio.My trines: Taurus and Capricorn.
I go with Trines. I like Pisces but they are not my sextiles, right? I'm a Virgo.
Yeah. The way how I see the same element might be more of friends. Except maybe for Taurus. I dated a Sagittarius and it was too chaotic and unbearable. trines can work for a earth sign if it was a fire sign. Air, wouldn't last long.
You're suppressing yourself too much, sniper! Earth women tend to be very beautiful! LOL
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So I see. Capricorn women would definitely be number 1 in my book, or Taurus would. lol. I could see Taurus as a lover, just not Virgo women. Nothing against them, just not my cup of tea.
Posted by firebunny
My sextiles: Cancer and Scorpio.My trines: Taurus and Capricorn.
I go with Trines. I like Pisces but they are not my sextiles, right? I'm a Virgo.
I believe Pisces are your opposites.
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