Moon conjunct 8th house synastry. Help I´m so attracted to hiim

Hello yall! I´m new to this page and I am so excited to connect with you! There is a boy I feel really strongly for and I would like some insight with our placements in synastry. We both have leo suns, he is scorpio moon, I am cancer moon. His moon falls into my 8th house of scorpio, also conjuncting my pluto. We both have mars in libra. Oh and his moon also conjuncts my north node in scorpio (not sure about degrees. I feel so close and attracted to him although I don´t know him that well. I would REALLY appreciate your knowledge. THANK YOU!! 🙂

Hi Morgaine.

I have this aspect in common with my cancer.. his leo moon in my 8th and my virgo moon in his 4th. My natal and progressed moon are in my 8th. I think the houses are downplayed a lot, they lend massive energy to the tone of the relationship even more than the composite. The aspect plays out where his emotions DEPEND on our ability to deeply relate to each other and communicate our deepest emotions, our past, traumas, unusual events, strange insights etc. 8th house party material. Then I'm not sure if this is 8th house but the outer world becomes like a stage. I'll give an example. We where talking in the car about how he hit a deer last year in his car and he was really shocked and upset. Then I relayed a time I was in the car when my father hit a deer when I was younger and how impacted both of us in a terrible way. The expression of this gave him such deep emotions as I was reliving he went quiet, then pulled over. He had a strange rush of emotions crash over him from some deep place. We then pulled away and less then 15 seconds later we passed a deer who had been hit on the side of the road.

Another time we had the same exact dream sleeping beside each other, and it involved violence.

There is also a deep sexual fasciation we have for one another, sometimes he shakes around me.

There are many other things.

Your nn - moon conjunction, that is very strong emotional tie between you both. I think that will exacerbate any deeper emotions but there is something key for you both in regards to your emotional development.

If he is a scorpio moon, my bet is he will intuit the connection on some level.

With these aspects, I would wait to see if the relationship actually pans out before doing more research on your synastry, or you may exacerbate your emotions prematurely. Its quite easy to develop an unhealthy obsession which maybe how this 8th house aspect plays out for you.

I cant tell you how many times I would become obsessed with someone and find out everything about them and us astrologically to such a deep degree that I became blindly unaware of their emotions towards me.