dark Scorpio moon ...

Scorpio moon testing the shit out of me , I don't know how much I can withstand, I'm Scorpio sun and I'm the one who tests lol can stand my own medicine.

So how bad can it get ?
How do I survive it?

If he doesn't get the reaction he wants the first time he comes at me full throttle with an even more force to see me crumble lol

I'm crumbling but keeping it inside so he's doing it more

Ffs

I cant do Scorpio moon. Dealt with 3. One Aquarius w a Scorpio moon...we are still good friends, but he also had a Cancer Mars...Idk it was just a lot.
A Taurus with a Scorpio moon- nightmare. Plus he was a POS.
A Virgo with a Scorpio moon- demon straight from the depths of hell.

OH yeah try a Gemini with a Scorpio moon, Cancer Mars and Venus! You will be constantly confused LOL, but I love him *shrugs*!

I'm a Virgo with a Scorpio Moon. If he's trying to get a reaction, why not just give him a reaction? Obviously, try not to fly off the handle. But if you're in a relationship, shouldn't you be open and honest about how he's affecting you?

Just a thought.

Posted by Tinxy
Scorpio moon testing the shit out of me , I don't know how much I can withstand, I'm Scorpio sun and I'm the one who tests lol can stand my own medicine.

So how bad can it get ?
How do I survive it?

If he doesn't get the reaction he wants the first time he comes at me full throttle with an even more force to see me crumble lol

I'm crumbling but keeping it inside so he's doing it more

Ffs

What's he doing? I recently was dumped and shut completely off by a libra with a scorpio moon. C'mon spill some details..

Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse
I'm a Virgo with a Scorpio Moon. If he's trying to get a reaction, why not just give him a reaction? Obviously, try not to fly off the handle. But if you're in a relationship, shouldn't you be open and honest about how he's affecting you?

Just a thought.

BS -I was open and honest about things. Didn't matter and the very things I was weak about appear to have been used against me. You don't play games with the one you supposedly love, or, was that manipulation too?

Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse
I'm a Virgo with a Scorpio Moon. If he's trying to get a reaction, why not just give him a reaction? Obviously, try not to fly off the handle. But if you're in a relationship, shouldn't you be open and honest about how he's affecting you?

Just a thought.

^^

Pretty much this

How bout you try some transparency.

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Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse
I'm a Virgo with a Scorpio Moon. If he's trying to get a reaction, why not just give him a reaction? Obviously, try not to fly off the handle. But if you're in a relationship, shouldn't you be open and honest about how he's affecting you?

Just a thought.

BS -I was open and honest about things. Didn't matter and the very things I was weak about appear to have been used against me. You don't play games with the one you supposedly love, or, was that manipulation too?

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It's obvious. She rejected you.

Just because you opened yourself up, doesn't mean she would accept you.

Why do you think Scorpio moons interrogate every partner they are with. We are looking to know you, all of you. To see whether or not your safe.

Clearly you either said something or did something in your past she wasn't comfortable with.

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Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse
I'm a Virgo with a Scorpio Moon. If he's trying to get a reaction, why not just give him a reaction? Obviously, try not to fly off the handle. But if you're in a relationship, shouldn't you be open and honest about how he's affecting you?

Just a thought.

BS -I was open and honest about things. Didn't matter and the very things I was weak about appear to have been used against me. You don't play games with the one you supposedly love, or, was that manipulation too?

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What? You're attributing behaviour to me that I didn't perpetrate. I asked OP a question. I don't think I deserved your response.

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Posted by Rambunctious76
^^ most of my asteroids are in Aries.

Asteroids...juno..chiron..?

IDK about asteroids..

I have NN in Scorpio too!

And Scorpio is my most dominant sign followed by Pisces and then Capricorn.

You're lucky you have Taurus to balance it out...that's why you aren't as "dark" as other Scorpio moons haha. Maybe it's our beautiful Aries sun 😛

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Rams face right now :p

If only people knew how tortured we are. We want peace of mind. If you can't give a straight answer we won't trust you. Most people we have figured out. Except in relationships our vulnerability impairs us and makes us insecure and dysfunctional

Posted by Rambunctious76
Op, I remember a previous thread of yours where you said you were terrified of the outcome after you said some things to him?

My question is -

Why in the holy hell are you so scared of him?

Because he said to me that if I pushed his buttons hard enough that it was possible he'd lash out physically.
But he hadn't ever done so but his words have been violent in the past but only after I started it lol

He told me with a smile on his face that he had sex with some girl a few weeks ago and when I didn't react I just laughed he went mad lol
Then because I didn't react he said he was seeing her haha that made me angry at that point and I said I didn't trust him anymore and never to talk to me again... After I said that he took it back and said he was joking

He's fucking my mind up

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Op, I remember a previous thread of yours where you said you were terrified of the outcome after you said some things to him?

My question is -

Why in the holy hell are you so scared of him?

Because he said to me that if I pushed his buttons hard enough that it was possible he'd lash out physically.
But he hadn't ever done so but his words have been violent in the past but only after I started it lol

He told me with a smile on his face that he had sex with some girl a few weeks ago and when I didn't react I just laughed he went mad lol
Then because I didn't react he said he was seeing her haha that made me angry at that point and I said I didn't trust him anymore and never to talk to me again... After I said that he took it back and said he was joking

He's fucking my mind up

If you were pissed with him, just show it. Don't laugh it off as though it's nothing to you. He will appreciate it in the long run and stop trying to test you.

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Idk I always thought I was the mental one but his madness is seeping out all over the place , he left last night to go on a business trip and didn't even say bye lol

That's messed up and so is the bit with him joking about cheating. I wouldn't put up with that.

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Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse
I'm a Virgo with a Scorpio Moon. If he's trying to get a reaction, why not just give him a reaction? Obviously, try not to fly off the handle. But if you're in a relationship, shouldn't you be open and honest about how he's affecting you?

Just a thought.

BS -I was open and honest about things. Didn't matter and the very things I was weak about appear to have been used against me. You don't play games with the one you supposedly love, or, was that manipulation too?

What? You're attributing behaviour to me that I didn't perpetrate. I asked OP a question. I don't think I deserved your response.

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No! Can anyone not see the point I was trying to make? It wasn't an attack on you.

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Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse

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Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse
I'm a Virgo with a Scorpio Moon. If he's trying to get a reaction, why not just give him a reaction? Obviously, try not to fly off the handle. But if you're in a relationship, shouldn't you be open and honest about how he's affecting you?

Just a thought.

BS -I was open and honest about things. Didn't matter and the very things I was weak about appear to have been used against me. You don't play games with the one you supposedly love, or, was that manipulation too?

What? You're attributing behaviour to me that I didn't perpetrate. I asked OP a question. I don't think I deserved your response.

No! Can anyone not see the point I was trying to make? It wasn't an attack on you.

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I'm not a manipulative person, at least IMO. I recognize I test people a little, it's pretty reasonable. When someone looks distracted when they should be listening to me, I'll make up something funny. If they look at me weird, they were listening and I'm wrong. If they nod or don't react at all, I'll keep elaborating for my own entertainment. "I've decided to launch a movement called Free Range Leprechauns. We'll paint the world Green. Will you support me?" "I'm having a Humpback Whales baby. I'll be going back to sea soon, will you see me off?" I play/test a little, but I'm confident it's all within healthy margins. I have lots of faults but this isn't something I've ever made someone angry over. I've only made people laugh when I do this sort of thing.

Posted by Rambunctious76

LOL I do the same thing...usually to lighten a heavy situation. Unfortunately sometimes it gets misread ..by none other than Scorpio suns. Other signs (especially other fire signs) see right through it and will respond in a like manner, creating a running joke between friends.

Most important part is that we're entertained. The peasants are here for our amusement. Sorry, did I just say that out loud?

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Op, I remember a previous thread of yours where you said you were terrified of the outcome after you said some things to him?

My question is -

Why in the holy hell are you so scared of him?

Because he said to me that if I pushed his buttons hard enough that it was possible he'd lash out physically.
But he hadn't ever done so but his words have been violent in the past but only after I started it lol

He told me with a smile on his face that he had sex with some girl a few weeks ago and when I didn't react I just laughed he went mad lol
Then because I didn't react he said he was seeing her haha that made me angry at that point and I said I didn't trust him anymore and never to talk to me again... After I said that he took it back and said he was joking

He's fucking my mind up

If you were pissed with him, just show it. Don't laugh it off as though it's nothing to you. He will appreciate it in the long run and stop trying to test you.

Idk I always thought I was the mental one but his madness is seeping out all over the place , he left last night to go on a business trip and didn't even say bye lol

I actually don't understand why you're reading so much into his actions.

I'm also wondering if he's mirroring you, in terms of not being upfront about how you feel.

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Someone else said he might be mirroring me. So maybe this could be it. I've known him a very long time and I know for a fact he is very self preserving, he acts like things don't get to him but the proof is in his actions after an argument or falling out.

I think maybe I need to cut loose, we've been tied into this shot for too long, I have the patience and perseverance for any bloody challenge especially if I love someone but how much can a human soul take. He wants everything but gives nothing.

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Posted by Tinxy
Scorpio moon testing the shit out of me , I don't know how much I can withstand, I'm Scorpio sun and I'm the one who tests lol can stand my own medicine.

So how bad can it get ?
How do I survive it?

If he doesn't get the reaction he wants the first time he comes at me full throttle with an even more force to see me crumble lol

I'm crumbling but keeping it inside so he's doing it more

Ffs

Yeah we seem to focus on the reaction, or I do at least. And when we don't get the one we want.. well you know.. I have no idea why this is, but I know that it is an issue. I'm sorry that you are having such a rough time. I know I am guilty of this 😢

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Fcuk him I've cut this cunt loose

I've never been happier

It feels so fucking good to say I swear I DONT CARE

Yay nearly 10 years of bullshit I had enough let some one else deal with his lazy selfish ass I have me a libra now lol

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Posted by Tinxy

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Posted by Tinxy
Scorpio moon testing the shit out of me , I don't know how much I can withstand, I'm Scorpio sun and I'm the one who tests lol can stand my own medicine.

So how bad can it get ?
How do I survive it?

If he doesn't get the reaction he wants the first time he comes at me full throttle with an even more force to see me crumble lol

I'm crumbling but keeping it inside so he's doing it more

Ffs

Yeah we seem to focus on the reaction, or I do at least. And when we don't get the one we want.. well you know.. I have no idea why this is, but I know that it is an issue. I'm sorry that you are having such a rough time. I know I am guilty of this 😢

Fcuk him I've cut this cunt loose

I've never been happier

It feels so fucking good to say I swear I DONT CARE

Yay nearly 10 years of bullshit I had enough let some one else deal with his lazy selfish ass I have me a libra now lol

Good for you never be with someone who wants to batter your emotions.

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Thank you 🙂