what does it mean when a pisces moon goes silent?

This topic was created in the Moon Signs forum by Laidbackcap on Sunday, October 11, 2015 and has 12 replies.

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@Laidbackcap
10 Years

Im a scorpio moon and I really tore into my friend pisces moon friend lately. We use to text everyday and now I text him and he doesnt respond for hours? Is he going through some stuff and is that why he doesnt respond?

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@Laidbackcap
10 Years

hes been an asshole to me for so long. Always saying that im too nice and that the girl im interested in is not good for me for whatever reason. Kinda just tired of his crap and called him out. I guess that broke the camels back?

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@Skitty
10 Years500+ Posts

It sounds like he is just salty about it.

Clearly you posting here speaks volumes about how you genuinely do care about the friendship.

He'll pick up on that and eventually come around. Just give him time.

They always do :p

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@Montgomery
13 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Laidbackcap
hes been an asshole to me for so long. Always saying that im too nice and that the girl im interested in is not good for me for whatever reason. Kinda just tired of his crap and called him out. I guess that broke the camels back?

Okay... back up.

This is an annoyance?

If I tell someone that their interest "... is not good for" them,

I have good reason.

You're not taking him seriously-- as a Cap-Scorp, you should

know thats not acceptable.

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@Laidbackcap
10 Years

hes pretty much a loser. Cant get a real girl so hes always going to hookers or strip clubs. Hes always putting down the people I like because hes too shy to make a move. I can be shy too but at least i go for it. Hes always saying why hes a better match for that girl than I am. Always putting me down than lifting me up. I need to surround myself with better people.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by YellowSubmarine
Posted by Laidbackcap
hes pretty much a loser. Cant get a real girl so hes always going to hookers or strip clubs. Hes always putting down the people I like because hes too shy to make a move. I can be shy too but at least i go for it. Hes always saying why hes a better match for that girl than I am. Always putting me down than lifting me up. I need to surround myself with better people.

I really don't understand why people put up with this behaviour.

I've never had a friend, boyfriend, family member, anyone, speak to me this way - if they did, it would be our last conversation.

P.S. "always putting me down then lifting me up" - this is a control tactic. If it's intentional, what he's doing is breaking you down and building you back up, all on his own - think about it.

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The OP is the one in here who is bashing someone he calls...a friend.

That to me is worse than whatever fictional or real vices this pisces moon friend of his has.

Complaining about friends/ throwing friends under the bus = You are a loser and probably half the shit that comes out of your mouth isn't real.

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@Montgomery
13 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by YellowSubmarine
Posted by Laidbackcap
hes pretty much a loser. Cant get a real girl so hes always going to hookers or strip clubs. Hes always putting down the people I like because hes too shy to make a move. I can be shy too but at least i go for it. Hes always saying why hes a better match for that girl than I am. Always putting me down than lifting me up. I need to surround myself with better people.

I really don't understand why people put up with this behaviour.

I've never had a friend, boyfriend, family member, anyone, speak to me this way - if they did, it would be our last conversation.

P.S. "always putting me down then lifting me up" - this is a control tactic. If it's intentional, what he's doing is breaking you down and building you back up, all on his own - think about it.

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Yeah... that's true.

But I think he meant "... rather than lifting me up" in this case.

I could be wrong 😛

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@scorpionmoon
10 Years

I'm a Cap/Scorp moon and my two best friends are Pisces moons as well.
I've found Pisces moons can be either incredibly soft hearted or incredibly hard hearted, it depends on the person.
-Soft hearted Pisces moons are usually very kind, empathetic, maybe a little guarded, obviously quite sensitive, caring in an almost motherly way.
-Hard hearted Pisces moons can be very self-oriented in terms of emotions. I.E.; they're so overwhelmed by their own emotions that it's difficult for them to consider how you may be feeling. They're also the type to insult other people to make them feel better. (You wouldn't think so, but I've encountered it a lot w/ various Pisces moons.) It sounds like your friend is using their radar of your insecurities to be manipulative, and GOD do I know how that feels.

Really the only thing to do is back off. Let them sulk. If they continue to be obviously manipulative with you I'd really suggest cutting them out of your life for the better, however hard that may be.