Moon-Venus aspect people! Question!

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When you were a kid, did you gets lots of physical affection (hugs, head pats, etc) from people?

When you grew older, did you miss how much affection you used to get compared to affectionate gestures, if any, you revived as a teen/adult?

Does physical affection have a strong effect on you now?

Women: Did your mom make "passive-aggressive" jabs at your weight, appearance and the way you treated your father?

Men: Did your mom either go from happy hug person to an aloof mom as you grew up? Also do you have a thing where you ping pong between liking two different types of women?
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Posted by Nevermore
Can't remember if I got a lot of physical affection from others.

I actually do missed the love affectionate.. but that's life.

And as a women, yes.. especially though childhood to teenage (she still whines though).

I don't understand the question of "treated your father?" part.

Forgot to add:

Moon aries square venus in Cancer in 0'38 orb away.
Treated your father = How you showed affection toward your father. Getting comments like "Aren't you a bit old for that? etc"
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I have moon opposite Venus.

Physical affection... I continue that with my parents, grandmothers, baby cousins, aunts. With my parents I'm still the same way I always was.. Hugging, kissing, sitting on their laps, tickles, pulling their cheeks..etc. I cling to my dad. I'm physically affectionate.

But there was something in the affection we recieved as kids obviously.. it's not sad or anything lol. I'm a girl lol..my uncles or other adults or my adolescent cousins cannot be so physically close now ...its just natural 😄

My mommm....well she's a devil 😄 she keeps nagging about certain things(dress better...wear some better clothes as per today's trend, dont be so shy, be bold blah blah blah) and yes, how I always dance to my papa's tune :p says I'm partial to my dad.. That I love my dad more and we both team up against her.. 😄 .. I know she's just saying in light hearted teasing way though! 🙂 she teases a lot lol
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Posted by RumiL
I have moon opposite Venus.

Physical affection... I continue that with my parents, grandmothers, baby cousins, aunts. With my parents I'm still the same way I always was.. Hugging, kissing, sitting on their laps, tickles, pulling their cheeks..etc. I cling to my dad. I'm physically affectionate.

But there was something in the affection we recieved as kids obviously.. it's not sad or anything lol. I'm a girl lol..my uncles or other adults or my adolescent cousins cannot be so physically close now ...its just natural 😄

My mommm....well she's a devil 😄 she keeps nagging about certain things(dress better...wear some better clothes as per today's trend, dont be so shy, be bold blah blah blah) and yes, how I always dance to my papa's tune :p says I'm partial to my dad.. I love my dad more and we both team up against her.. 😄 .. I know she's just saying in light hearted teasing way though! 🙂
Aww. When it's just you and your mom, do you find an odd dynamic where one is more nurturing/guarded while the other is more socially out going? Does it ping-pong between the two of you depending on the situation at hand?
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Posted by SirHorns
When you were a kid, did you gets lots of physical affection (hugs, head pats, etc) from people? No.

When you grew older, did you miss how much affection you used to get compared to affectionate gestures, if any, you revived as a teen/adult? See above.

Does physical affection have a strong effect on you now? Yes.

Women: Did your mom make "passive-aggressive" jabs at your weight, appearance and the way you treated your father?Yes to the weight and appearance(and I was nooot overweight). No to the latter.

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Posted by RumiL
I have moon opposite Venus.

Physical affection... I continue that with my parents, grandmothers, baby cousins, aunts. With my parents I'm still the same way I always was.. Hugging, kissing, sitting on their laps, tickles, pulling their cheeks..etc. I cling to my dad. I'm physically affectionate.

But there was something in the affection we recieved as kids obviously.. it's not sad or anything lol. I'm a girl lol..my uncles or other adults or my adolescent cousins cannot be so physically close now ...its just natural 😄

My mommm....well she's a devil 😄 she keeps nagging about certain things(dress better...wear some better clothes as per today's trend, dont be so shy, be bold blah blah blah) and yes, how I always dance to my papa's tune :p says I'm partial to my dad.. I love my dad more and we both team up against her.. 😄 .. I know she's just saying in light hearted teasing way though! 🙂
Aww. When it's just you and your mom, do you find an odd dynamic where one is more nurturing/guarded while the other is more socially out going? Does it ping-pong between the two of you depending on the situation at hand?
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Yess!! What about the aspect points to that dynamic?? I'm more the silent support, aiding her by staying in the background...it's hard to explain. Although we're so opposite, we are helping and supporting each other in social situations. She's a little innocent(ahemm).. Sometimes I'm like a mother to her lol. The calmer one.

And...yeah, suppose when she's away, and I have to entertain guests or something by myself I'm quite..out there, I surprise myself lol. But she's never the calmer one lol.
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Posted by SirHorns
When you were a kid, did you gets lots of physical affection (hugs, head pats, etc) from people?

When you grew older, did you miss how much affection you used to get compared to affectionate gestures, if any, you revived as a teen/adult?

Does physical affection have a strong effect on you now?

Women: Did your mom make "passive-aggressive" jabs at your weight, appearance and the way you treated your father?

Men: Did your mom either go from happy hug person to an aloof mom as you grew up? Also do you have a thing where you ping pong between liking two different types of women?

*sips tea, pulls up a seat* Hmph.