Mutable Mars and Venus - do people take you seriously?

I have Mars in Gem. and Venus in Pisc.. Both Mutable signs. When I first meet new people, I get the feeling they don't take me seriously. Do any of you with mutable Mars AND Venus positions notice anything similar to that? That people who just meet you don't really take you seriously. I find this a drawback in life and in business. Just want to know if anyone else has experienced this.

My boyfriend has Mars in Gem and Venus in Pisces like you!

I have the impression that people DO take him seriously, including complete strangers who make an effort to give him what he asked for! He kind of demands attention and doesn't come across as a joker or weakling.

It could be his Cap rising or his many years as a skilled salesman for heavy industry though......

He even got your Aries moon 🙂

I come across as a joker more often than not....which kind of puts pressure on me to entertain......I'm fixed Venus and cardinal Mars.

I think it's the Rising what matters most when interacting with people who don't know us very well.

do people take you seriously? no. sometimes only on the long run.

I have Sag Venus I feel like people don't take me serious. Just because I am laid back, flirty, and come off as a best friend doesn't mean I don't want a committed relationship. I don't want to be smothered but I don't want quality time as well.

Posted by Undine
He even got your Aries moon 🙂

LoL. Maybe the Aries moon helps him to be taken seriously?

Posted by Koniuchaa
I have Mars in Sag and Venus in Virgo. Mine are also both in mutable houses. What do you mean by take you seriously? In what sense?

I feel like people take me seriously.

I ususally take Mars in Sag people seriously too. It's an attractive position to me. Perhaps because my Mars is in Gem.

I'm never taken seriously... I don't really take myself seriously though, but when I do , it annoys me that nobody else does. I've a mutable mars but fixed venus.

Posted by Jardsi
I'm never taken seriously... I don't really take myself seriously though, but when I do , it annoys me that nobody else does. I've a mutable mars but fixed venus.

LoL.

I think I'm not taken seriously because my Mars is in Gem and this makes me appear to others much friendlier and more carefree than I really am until they get to know me. I approach life in a very laidback manner. People may misinterpret this as lack of seriousness. But with an Aries Moon, I can become deadly competitve really fast. It confuses people and people don't like to be confused.

Posted by Season

Posted by Jardsi
I'm never taken seriously... I don't really take myself seriously though, but when I do , it annoys me that nobody else does. I've a mutable mars but fixed venus.

LoL.

I think I'm not taken seriously because my Mars is in Gem and this makes me appear to others much friendlier and more carefree than I really am until they get to know me. I approach life in a very laidback manner. People may misinterpret this as lack of seriousness. But with an Aries Moon, I can become deadly competitve really fast. It confuses people and people don't like to be confused.

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🙂

Maybe it's a Mars in Gemini thing then, my mars is also there! 😄

Posted by Jardsi

Posted by Season

Posted by Jardsi
I'm never taken seriously... I don't really take myself seriously though, but when I do , it annoys me that nobody else does. I've a mutable mars but fixed venus.

LoL.

I think I'm not taken seriously because my Mars is in Gem and this makes me appear to others much friendlier and more carefree than I really am until they get to know me. I approach life in a very laidback manner. People may misinterpret this as lack of seriousness. But with an Aries Moon, I can become deadly competitve really fast. It confuses people and people don't like to be confused.

🙂

Maybe it's a Mars in Gemini thing then, my mars is also there! 😄

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Yup, it's probably Mars in Gem and nothing to do with mutable Mars & Venus at all. It's hard to imagine a Mars & Venus in Virgo not being taken seriously isn't it?