Please help me GET ARIES MAN BACK!!! :(

Can anyone please help me, Im an aquarius who drove an aries man around the bend over the last 8 months, he was so into me and i was into him but he wanted to take it so fast when i was badly hurt in last relationship so was more cautious. As an aquarian Im very friendly and he hated me making friends with other men, there was one man in particular i made friends with and that all it was, and i ended up having to go back to his house after a night out with him and his friend as i lost my phone and need to use net to get number to ring boss following morning, and i slept in his bed but nothing atal happened, i told my aries man this the next day and he turned so cold and i thought nothing of it and clearly i wudnt have told him if there had been anything going on and he finished with me saying he cant get it out of his head at all and he still wants to be friends and has feelings for me if he didnt he wouldnt be so annoyed bout it, he hasnt contacted me in over a week and i really need to see him for closure but id like to get it through to him that if he gave me a chance id prove to him that ive only eyes for him, we werent officially boyf and girlfriend but because i was moving to his area for summer we wud have been and now its all gone wrong, he finished it over the phone and i sent him a text the following morning telling him how much i cared and thought it was so unfair and wrong that im being punished for something i didnt do and if he just gave me a chance to prove it he wudnt look back and i told him id such respect and only eyes for him and he never replied even tho he said hed contact me this week to meet up. PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO IM GOING OUT OF MY MIND!! Do I contact him again or what?

well you don't seem to understand men, in particular aries men at all. trust me, i have more years experience of them than you've been on the planet having been with one for over 20 years.

you got in another man's bed and now you think you're being blamed for something you didn't do—

it's absolutely ridiculous that you are even wondering why the guy is pissed with you and even more ridiculous to expect you can follow the above advice and have him 'crawling back to you like a little baby'.

he won't let it slide and he won't forgive you. he's lost all respect for you and you won't be able to play games to get it back.

for fuck's sake....how would you feel if he told you what you told him? if he'd ended up in bed with a girl but 'nothing happened'. it doesn't matter if anything happened or not. YOU GOT IN SOMEONE ELSE'S BED!!!! i doubt you would forgive him and i doubt he will forgive you. if one of you slept on the couch like geminivixen...different ballgame but you got in a guy's BED!!!! omg, listen to yourself girl!!!

aries men are NEVER like little babies crawling back to someone who disrespected them and it doesn't matter what strategy you employ to try and make that happen. in gem's case, the aries overreacted and he knew it but in your case........

i doubt you've even offered any kind of apology to the guy?

Let me start by saying this. You can't GET an Aries back, be it man or woman. Because an Aries can't be made to do something. An Aries will come back to you if and when he or she decides so. And there is nothing you can do to force that.
For your own peace of mind, it might help if you wrote him an e-mail just to say, for the last time, that you did not have sex with the guy you slept with. Whether or not he believes you is his choice. But, based on what you wrote in your post, this Aries guy was already the jealous type even before you gave him a reason for being jealous, so the odds of him believing you didn't actually cheat are very slim. Like I said, the only reason why it might be worth giving it a try is if you think it might bring YOU some peace of mind.
Otherwise, don't try to get in touch with him. Us, Aries, can get paranoid at times and, what to you seems merely "trying to get hold of him", to him it might seem like you're acting clingy or even obsessed with him (yeah, I know, we're drama queens, it's a gift, what can I say? ). And TRY your best to stay cool about it. I know it feels like you're going out of your mind, but acting crazy is not going to help either of you.

I'm beginning to think aqua chicks are rather dense and need to be slapped with a clue by four.

"I acted like an absolute jack ass and don't get WHY he'd be mad at me! Why??"