Seems these kinda questions are doing the rounds, let me add one...

At what point do you stop "dating" or seeing other guys and how do you go about getting to your decision?

Do you ask the other person whether or not its exclusive?

Immediately if you are interested in one guy you don't give any other's face?

Do you keep your options open, not ask about exclusivity until he mentions it, and continue seeing others also?

Posted by Rommy
If I'm worried about being exclusive then I don't form anything unless we've already had that talk.

That means I won't sleep with them or start anything intimate unless I know they're not seeing anyone else. That doesn't mean we have to commit titles and start ordering monogrammed towels but it does mean that we focus on getting to know one another better and giving it a decent effort without trying to fuck side hoes at the same time.

Monogrammed towels LOL!!!!

At what point do you stop "dating" or seeing other guys and how do you go about getting to your decision?

I only stop dating/seeing/talking to other people when it's crystal clear that we are both only seeing each other. I never assume even if things seem great that they aren't dating other people.



Do you ask the other person whether or not its exclusive?

Yes, I do tend to jump into that conversation sooner than most and it's not just an organic go with the flow thing. If things are going well after several dates I'm usually the one to just ask if they want this to continue being casual. So far when that's come up the response is always that they are either not seeing anyone else or don't want to. At that point if I've been seeing others than I send a polite message letting them know that I won't be seeing/talking to them anymore.



Immediately if you are interested in one guy you don't give any other's face?

No. even if I like them a lot, unless it's exclusive I keep my options open so I don't get too close and get hurt or offended that they are doing the same.

Do you keep your options open, not ask about exclusivity until he mentions it, and continue seeing others also?

Yes. Until it's clear then I leave my options open until I decide I want to date just them, then I bring it up. I've tried waiting before thinking maybe I should let them bring up that conversation...but once I really like someone I like the reassurance that it's safe for me to let my guard down and really focus on them, and I can't do that if I'm worried I have competition lol.