Venus vs Moon

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Understanding Venus and Moon Placements in Astrology

Venus governs love and romance, while the Moon influences emotions and feelings. When these planets are in conflicting signs, it can create tension between the desire for romance and emotional detachment. Recognizing this can help you balance your needs for connection and independence in relationships.

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Does anyone else has these 2 placementes crashing each other? My pisces venus needs so much epic romance, and my aqua moon makes me wonder what are feelings ;X

Halp

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Posted by Sagsagsags
LOL @facepalming you have it differently than I do. Cancer Moon Vs Aquarius Venus . Extremely sensitive, loving and emotional yet my love ruling planet decides to mentally process what love is until it's fully understood ?

haha, aqua venus is the worst! My bf has it and its the least romantic placement i've seen xD

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Posted by Feral_doe
I totally get you. I have a gem moon vs a pisces venus.

Gem moon thinks emotions are gross (in myself) and pisces venus finds emotions grand (in others).

"moons in love

gemini moon:always so lighthearted, they fear the deepness of their feeling for you... they'll do anything to make you laugh and smile, they'll kiss you and then ask if they did alright. they will tell you everything."

doesn't seem that bad 🙂

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Posted by starwars
cap moon/scorpio venus

i think my cap moon keep it real and ground my venus in scorpio. my venus in scorpio can be delusional...its hard to distinguish love from lust from obsession (add mars in cancer) but my cap moon get that figured out before i act on my feelings. when I like someone i dont act on it, i need to double check that i like them before i decide its time for shit to get real. which make me take things painfully slow. I think its a good combo for me to have but I'm a pain in the ass to deal with emotionally and pretty much test people patience lol.

I think you don't need a scorpio venus to be a pain in the ass to deal with! Theres something about capricorn moons.. All I've known are really like you described (besides one : 1st bf was libra sun/ cap moon / libra venus very easy to deal with and worried about only appearance and status), I just went to check the chart of the first man i fell in love with and he had cap moon+ scorpio venus like you. /traumatized

Your explanation actually clarified me a bit ! =D

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cap moon/scorpio venus

i think my cap moon keep it real and ground my venus in scorpio. my venus in scorpio can be delusional...its hard to distinguish love from lust from obsession (add mars in cancer) but my cap moon get that figured out before i act on my feelings. when I like someone i dont act on it, i need to double check that i like them before i decide its time for shit to get real. which make me take things painfully slow. I think its a good combo for me to have but I'm a pain in the ass to deal with emotionally and pretty much test people patience lol.

I think you don't need a scorpio venus to be a pain in the ass to deal with! Theres something about capricorn moons.. All I've known are really like you described (besides one : 1st bf was libra sun/ cap moon / libra venus very easy to deal with and worried about only appearance and status), I just went to check the chart of the first man i fell in love with and he had cap moon+ scorpio venus like you. /traumatized

Your explanation actually clarified me a bit ! =D

LMAO @ the stuble shade

what are your placements? was he a pain in the ass?

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haha, wasn't mean shade! I just get enthusiastic with capricorn moons to get to know them better and they be so cold ! I'm taurus sun/ aqua moon / pisces venus, but that was some years ago, now i'm in a relationshiop with a leo moon with aqua venus. god help me

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Pisces Venus and an Aries Moon. I'm always ardently in love, until he turns out not to be the romantic icon I've built him up to be. When I was young, I spent so much time broken hearted about this. Now, I give my love elsewhere, to pets, to arts, and it's not disappointing and I actually meet lots of great people this way. Less loneliness and self recrimination = a happier me which is more attractive to others too.

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Posted by Season
Pisces Venus and an Aries Moon. I'm always ardently in love, until he turns out not to be the romantic icon I've built him up to be. When I was young, I spent so much time broken hearted about this. Now, I give my love elsewhere, to pets, to arts, and it's not disappointing and I actually meet lots of great people this way. Less loneliness and self recrimination = a happier me which is more attractive to others too.

wow Season, this is the advice i should've listened years ago *.*

Thank you

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The thing about aqua moon is that if I do get overwhelmed and need the space for myself. Venus in TAURUS will be back to normal soon. It's like call and leave a message and I'll get back to soon as soon as I find my right mind.

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Yes.. well not really... Lol, My Moon is impulsive (Aries) and my Venus (Aqua) is like "Umm... Pause,,, We don't dive into relationships missy.. We're HEARTLESS.. let us remember that"

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Scorp moon/taurus venus... so my moon can get attached, all while my venus is screaming hold on a second, let's take our time. So being with me in the be beginning is like whiplash - I'm attached and everything is great and in a matter of minutes, whoa, why are smothering me, slow the hell down, I'm just getting to know you but secretly I'm totally attached to you and hate myself for it.... ?

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My Taurus moon needs stability, affection, companionship. I feel at my best when I'm with a good partner I can trust and support and when I love someone I will be there through thick and thin, stubborn as hell. But...venus in Gemini is also all about fun and I love communication, wittiness and light heartedness, variety and games.. my needs and my immediate desires can definitely conflict, but ultimately my moon wins out once I find someone I connect with...until then though I'm all over the place lol. Throw in a gem sun and a Scorpio mars...it's like a tug of war in my head and my heart until I settle down.

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Posted by TaurusinTexas
Scorp moon/taurus venus... so my moon can get attached, all while my venus is screaming hold on a second, let's take our time. So being with me in the be beginning is like whiplash - I'm attached and everything is great and in a matter of minutes, whoa, why are smothering me, slow the hell down, I'm just getting to know you but secretly I'm totally attached to you and hate myself for it.... ?

Haha i need to get me a scorp moon then xD

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Posted by Sagsagsags
LOL @facepalming you have it differently than I do. Cancer Moon Vs Aquarius Venus . Extremely sensitive, loving and emotional yet my love ruling planet decides to mentally process what love is until it's fully understood ?

haha, aqua venus is the worst! My bf has it and its the least romantic placement i've seen xD

😢 We're misunderstood.

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Care to elaborate? How can some1 understand a aquarius venus?

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Posted by bubbythewhale1
Libra Venus wants balance when it comes to love, I want my s.o. to be as happy as I am if not more.... virgo moon drives itself crazy trying to constantly think of ways to keep the other person comfortable

Seems like they complement each other? =)

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Posted by yupvirgo

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Does anyone else has these 2 placementes crashing each other? My pisces venus needs so much epic romance, and my aqua moon makes me wonder what are feelings ;X

Halp

Yeah I know the high romantic expectations. My wife is also a Taurus Sun and a Pisces Venus which is great for both of us coz I have Leo Venus.

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what about her moon?

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Does anyone else has these 2 placementes crashing each other? My pisces venus needs so much epic romance, and my aqua moon makes me wonder what are feelings ;X

Halp

Yeah I know the high romantic expectations. My wife is also a Taurus Sun and a Pisces Venus which is great for both of us coz I have Leo Venus.

what about her moon?

Leo moon

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woo nice combo, do u answer to her high expectations? =)

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Does anyone else has these 2 placementes crashing each other? My pisces venus needs so much epic romance, and my aqua moon makes me wonder what are feelings ;X

Halp

Yeah I know the high romantic expectations. My wife is also a Taurus Sun and a Pisces Venus which is great for both of us coz I have Leo Venus.

what about her moon?

Leo moon

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woo nice combo, do u answer to her high expectations? =)

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Posted by PV&Jellay

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Posted by Sagsagsags
LOL @facepalming you have it differently than I do. Cancer Moon Vs Aquarius Venus . Extremely sensitive, loving and emotional yet my love ruling planet decides to mentally process what love is until it's fully understood ?

haha, aqua venus is the worst! My bf has it and its the least romantic placement i've seen xD

😢 We're misunderstood.

Care to elaborate? How can some1 understand a aquarius venus?

I can speak for your bf, but my love style is acts of service. I show my love by what I do. Romantic for me may be cooking you dinner and giving a massage l. There may be no candles, no hand written notes, etc I hate that fufu shit personally lol.

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Makes sense. Thanks 😉 But this pisces venus needs so much fufu shit

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Posted by Sagsagsags
LOL @facepalming you have it differently than I do. Cancer Moon Vs Aquarius Venus . Extremely sensitive, loving and emotional yet my love ruling planet decides to mentally process what love is until it's fully understood ?

haha, aqua venus is the worst! My bf has it and its the least romantic placement i've seen xD

😢 We're misunderstood.

Care to elaborate? How can some1 understand a aquarius venus?

I can speak for your bf, but my love style is acts of service. I show my love by what I do. Romantic for me may be cooking you dinner and giving a massage l. There may be no candles, no hand written notes, etc I hate that fufu shit personally lol.

Makes sense. Thanks 😉 But this pisces venus needs so much fufu shit

LOL. Yeah I get it. You are going to have to let him know. I do what I can to make my partner happy, but considering we aren't into fufu, we don't think to do those type of things. If you want him to watch The Notebook with you and cuddle you while you cry, rent the movie and just have him watch it with you. Tell him about your romantic fantasies. If he still doesn't get the hint, then at least you tried.

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Gosh the notebook is so lame that i never had courage to watch. haha

But then my Aqua moons enters, i'm very cold and detached, i already told him that i would like those romantic stuff that gentleman do (to try to crack my coldness) and he says he is not the only one in the relationship...He will always mimic my behaviour i guess

then im feeling like this inside:

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Venus Cap / Moon Aquarius (unaspected)

-- You are both a private person and a people person. This dichotomy may be confusing for a partner, and even for you at times!

A sense of security and stability feeds your romantic spirit, and intellectual stimulation turns you on emotionally. You bring both playfulness and commonsense to a relationship. --

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I have a Pisces Venus too with an Aries Moon and I think I sabotage myself a lot. They may not square or oppose, but neither do they conjunct. For me it's not such a good combination. My Venus wants the love of the century, but my moon is so impatient and intolerant.

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Libra moon and Scorpio Venus.

I dunno, I think Libra moon tries to justify the actions and wants of my Venus. Scorpio Venus is like a free agent and my moon acts as the lawyer defending it's wild whims.