The Wounded Lover

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CharlieSlaughter
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11 Years

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Hi.
Well I think your problem is not actually related to Chiron.
If what you want is a healthy and functional relationship, then your problem is not in that aspect.
Your natal Venus squaring Chiron is not telling you an "inner" problem, It's not about you. It's not also a problem between you and your partner.
*That square is telling "external issues" that might happen. But I'm going to talk about that later.

Most important placements in your chart (related to love) are:
1. Mars and Venus (this last one partialy)are in a intercepted sign (enclosed in 7th house).
A planet in a intercepted sign can't express by itself freely, and when we see this aspect in a natal/composite chart. We should use the midpoint method.
*So, when Mars and/or Venus are in a intercepted sign, It's recommended to take a look at the midpoint between these 2 planets. And in your case... oh surprise!

= Midpoint for your Venus and Mars is in the 23th degree of Virgo.
The same degree in which your Sun is.

What does it mean?
*Means that you have a clear idea of what kind of qualities you expect your partner to have.
*You expect a lot of self-affirmation from your partner.
*The more confident your partner is, the more releaved those (enclosed) Venus and Mars will feel.
Ruler of 7th also confirms this.
Q. Where's your ruler of 7th House? - A. In 7th House!

23?? of Virgo is totally critical/decisive in your life.
There's another "hint that is hidden". According to Chaldean numerology, number 23 actually doesn't exist.

*Number 5 is related to maximum self-affirmation and confidence. Love of freedom. Loves to travel.
*23?? Virgo Sun(What you are) is same as number 5. => 2+3=5
*Midpoint for your Venus and Mars(What you Love) is in 23?? Virgo = 5
*16/09/1987 = 2012 = 5


You chose TMV as your user name.
T + M + V = 4 + 4 + 6 = 14 = 5
Coincidence?
This confirms the ancient quote: "We choose our fate".

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2. Venus CONJ South Node.
South Node is the bridge to our past incarnations. Also known as the 'Tail of the Dragon'.
With Venus CONJ South Node, you are (Conscious or unconsciously) TOO lazy and optimistic about love. You have the feeling that sooner or later love will come to you, without any effort from your part.
You had a happy/lazy life, posibly a happy marriage because you attrac
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CharlieSlaughter
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2. Venus CONJ South Node - 7th House + Saturn in the 10th House, but no hard aspects between them
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You had a happy/lazy life, posibly a happy marriage because you attracted your loved ones easily with a little or no effort at all.
You were so focused on your goals in life. So, you didn't pay much attention to your marriage, because love came too easy to you. [Saturn(Karma) in the 10th House + Venus CONJ South Node].
If you want a happy love life, you need to be more active and less Lazy. North Node 2?? Aries opposite Venus.

3. Your Midpoint for AC/Venus is in the 14th degree of Saggitarius. Yes, we got number 5 again.
Saturn CONJUNCTS that Midpoint, saturn is the most Karmic Object in a Natal Chart and It's in your 10th House. Do you get it? Every hidden aspect in your chart is telling you the same.

What does AC/Venus midpoint mean? You have to search it by yourself.
What if Saturn touches that point? I cannot tell you that, but you will find out.

Your life and your love-life won't be complete until you apply the meaning of number 5 in yourself.
Certainly, a happy marriage has been promised to you, but you won't reach that point in your life by waiting with your arms crossed.
You may say "Nobody does!". No, you know that some kind of people get as many marriages/relationships as they want.
And you were that kind of person, so long ago.
Number 5 means many things. Health, beauty, confidence, YOUTH, physical activity, romance, etc.

You can clean your karma very easily, if you start now.
Now that your ASC has progressed in Aries.
Now, because you are young and Jupiter is just about to enter in Leo.










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TMV
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Posted by FrostAndBite
I have Chiron in the 7th conjunct moon.

My current relationship is healthy.



That's so good for you that you found someone like that. I'm happy for you. 😄

Posted by CharlieSlaughter

You chose TMV as your user name.
T + M + V = 4 + 4 + 6 = 14 = 5
Coincidence?
This confirms the ancient quote: "We choose our fate".



Fascinating. Good stuff there.

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry

I like to think of Chiron as an opportunity. Once that "wound" is acknowledged you can work on nursing it and then using it to help others.
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The using it to help others part I definitely get. It's just the whole wounded healer part of the mythos behind Chiron. Able to help others but never himself.