Um, what? Saturn Bondage?

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However, this sign can be surprising in more ways than one; it behaves somewhat differently elsewhere in the chart. Venus, Mars, and (sometimes) the Moon in Capricorn are likelier to create a dominant partner than a submissive one. There are differences in how Capricorn influences men and women, too. Strong Capricorn influences are found in the charts of countless lesbians (dominant or not) as well as in the charts of heterosexual women who are direct, projective, and unwilling to compromise themselves simply because they’re women. In the study of gender variance in women, Saturn is key.

]But what about those Capricorns who don’t necessarily like ropes, chains, and strap-ons? Even the most vanilla-seeming Goat will have distinct sexual preferences, usually about who’s on top. Once you get them to open up — and they can be reticent at first — Capricorns are direct, vigorous lovers. Experimentation isn’t Capricorn’s forte; they’re more likely to exhibit stamina and persistence than imagination. This is not necessarily a bad thing; while other lovers may move too quickly to something more interesting (like sleep, or a tuna sandwich) Capricorn is still there, taking care of business.


link: https://jezerae.wordpress.com/2012/01/19/the-astrology-of-kink-the-complex-capricorn/
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I prefer being submissive. And I dislike being on top.

I agree with distinct sexual preferences and being direct. Also with the stamina and persistence.
Topping takes you out of the passion mentally or is it you get a better view from below?

Takes me out of the passion mentally. I lack rhythm lol

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Rhythm is important, just can't have things stop cold to repetition yourselves 10 times to get the right spots.

This is why I can't get down with more than one. One takes enough time to train to please you, two+ is a headache.
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My ex has venus in cap and doesn't like bdsm or doing some kinky side.. 😐
Was he totally dom or sub in the vanilla sex?
I was hoping that he'll be the dominant.. but I always feel that I'm playing dominant. 😐
What are your big 3 again? You have Taurus or Scorpio in your mix, right?
Sun Taurus in 8th house opp pluto Scorpio in 2dn house exact, yup.

Moon square Venus exact

Jupiter opp Saturn exact.
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Moon, rising and venus for you?
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My ex has venus in cap and doesn't like bdsm or doing some kinky side.. 😐
Was he totally dom or sub in the vanilla sex?
I was hoping that he'll be the dominant.. but I always feel that I'm playing dominant. 😐
What are your big 3 again? You have Taurus or Scorpio in your mix, right?
Sun Taurus in 8th house opp pluto Scorpio in 2dn house exact, yup.

Moon square Venus exact

Jupiter opp Saturn exact.
Moon, rising and venus for you?
Moon in Aries, Libra Rising & Venus Cancer.
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All square each other? A Cap man might drive you crazy in good and bad ways.
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I prefer being submissive. And I dislike being on top.

I agree with distinct sexual preferences and being direct. Also with the stamina and persistence.
Topping takes you out of the passion mentally or is it you get a better view from below?

Takes me out of the passion mentally. I lack rhythm lol


Rhythm is important, just can't have things stop cold to repetition yourselves 10 times to get the right spots.

This is why I can't get down with more than one. One takes enough time to train to please you, two+ is a headache.

I get it 🙂

The pisces rubbed it in my face all the time

"For someone who doesn't like riding..."

or I'd cum & stop haha. he'd be mad saying "I want to cum too"

It's just a position that seems harder to please both at the same time. Once you find the spots it's not so bad. Still my least favorite position.
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At least you know this and aren't trying to force yourself to like it for whatever reason(s).
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Cap is my Midheaven so I'm not completely submissive and will experiment, but bondage is not for me. Ever read "Gerald's Game"? Ouch.
i tried reading it 3 or 4 times. stephen king can spend chapters writing about a 5 minute conversation a character has with herself, his skill is amazing. i'll read the rest of it at some point.

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I really enjoyed that one. I hope you do too.
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Cap is my Midheaven so I'm not completely submissive and will experiment, but bondage is not for me. Ever read "Gerald's Game"? Ouch.
i tried reading it 3 or 4 times. stephen king can spend chapters writing about a 5 minute conversation a character has with herself, his skill is amazing. i'll read the rest of it at some point.


I really enjoyed that one. I hope you do too.
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thanks 🙂