
SuperMissMan
@SuperMissMan
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Posted by Ktayl117I'm the furthest thing from being a doormat, it's actually a bad quality of mine because I get nasty. But I'm just forgiving, and willing to keep trying, I don't easily give up on things, especially people even if it breaks me down. That doesn't mean I take it kindly.
Don't be a doormat.

Posted by WestsidekodakI can agree with that. It's true, no one changes for others, they change for themselves. And obviously he think he can get away with being a lazy prick and not trying and I'm donePosted by SuperMissManYour back again? Didn't you want to break up with him? Hes not going to change for you. People dont change to please others, especially unappreciative people.
I've been dating this cancer for a year, and broke up with him. The reason I broke up with him is because he was so fucking unreliable. I couldn't depend on ANYTHING he said. He couldn't keep the smallest of promises. Although he was very very loyal and kind of obsessed with me il admit, and a very good sweet guy, he was an idiot. Not like stupid and non intel legend because he's very intelligent, but I reached a point where I straight up couldn't take him seriously for shit. "I him gonna do this and this" "I'm gonna change" "I'm gonna start on this project" he may as well tell me he's going to be fucking superman and fly, right then and right there. I mean he can't do ANYTHING. I can understand once in a while not being able to, or something being very unconventional at the time, it happens, I get it...but every single day? Every single time? There's a limit, and he reached it times 1000. Now, after I broke up with him, I still was just...wanted to give him the chance to prove to me he WILL change that, and it's been months, people. And he still does it like a fucking moron, and I have been moving on from him, but at this point, I honestly what to know what the fuckin deal is, what advice I can give him, how to handle this emotionally for myself because I'm enraged, I really am. I'm infuriated.
His chart is this:
Rising: Pisces
Sun: Cancer
Moon: Pisces
Mercury: Cancer
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Libra
I don't know the rest.
Maybe I just need to vent about it, I really don't know, but I'm beyond fed up, like good lord. He's a fucking child practically. I feel like I raised a fucking child. And talk about losing all respect for him.click to expand
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His chart is this:
Rising: Pisces
Sun: Cancer
Moon: Pisces
Mercury: Cancer
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Libra
I don't know the rest.
Maybe I just need to vent about it, I really don't know, but I'm beyond fed up, like good lord. He's a fucking child practically. I feel like I raised a fucking child. And talk about losing all respect for him.