Undependable Caner man

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SuperMissMan
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I've been dating this cancer for a year, and broke up with him. The reason I broke up with him is because he was so fucking unreliable. I couldn't depend on ANYTHING he said. He couldn't keep the smallest of promises. Although he was very very loyal and kind of obsessed with me il admit, and a very good sweet guy, he was an idiot. Not like stupid and non intel legend because he's very intelligent, but I reached a point where I straight up couldn't take him seriously for shit. "I him gonna do this and this" "I'm gonna change" "I'm gonna start on this project" he may as well tell me he's going to be fucking superman and fly, right then and right there. I mean he can't do ANYTHING. I can understand once in a while not being able to, or something being very unconventional at the time, it happens, I get it...but every single day? Every single time? There's a limit, and he reached it times 1000. Now, after I broke up with him, I still was just...wanted to give him the chance to prove to me he WILL change that, and it's been months, people. And he still does it like a fucking moron, and I have been moving on from him, but at this point, I honestly what to know what the fuckin deal is, what advice I can give him, how to handle this emotionally for myself because I'm enraged, I really am. I'm infuriated.

His chart is this:
Rising: Pisces
Sun: Cancer
Moon: Pisces
Mercury: Cancer
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Libra

I don't know the rest.

Maybe I just need to vent about it, I really don't know, but I'm beyond fed up, like good lord. He's a fucking child practically. I feel like I raised a fucking child. And talk about losing all respect for him.
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Must be. It's infuriating for me because I took all the fucking Baggage. I always make sure he's okay, I help him with all his problems whether work or relationships, I make sure he gets his shit done, and I get my shit done as soon as I can. So I don't understand how tiny simple little tasks, favours, promises, ANYTHING can't be kept. Ever. It won't happen. It never ever ever happens and I'm done. I'm fucking so fucking done, I'm furious, i don't even know what to do with myself. I literally explained this to him last night because I was hurt and upset and pissed af, and he agreed with me, and so I told him to do something, to write a response to me, in actual paper form, to really make sure he grasps what I'm saying in his own head. He did half of it, then went to sleep, when he didn't have work or anything for today, but I was like fine, that's cool I don't mind, he needs sleep. Well he still hasn't finished it and it's been almost 24 hours. Now I'm done. It's a slap I. The face to me
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Posted by Westsidekodak
Posted by SuperMissMan
I've been dating this cancer for a year, and broke up with him. The reason I broke up with him is because he was so fucking unreliable. I couldn't depend on ANYTHING he said. He couldn't keep the smallest of promises. Although he was very very loyal and kind of obsessed with me il admit, and a very good sweet guy, he was an idiot. Not like stupid and non intel legend because he's very intelligent, but I reached a point where I straight up couldn't take him seriously for shit. "I him gonna do this and this" "I'm gonna change" "I'm gonna start on this project" he may as well tell me he's going to be fucking superman and fly, right then and right there. I mean he can't do ANYTHING. I can understand once in a while not being able to, or something being very unconventional at the time, it happens, I get it...but every single day? Every single time? There's a limit, and he reached it times 1000. Now, after I broke up with him, I still was just...wanted to give him the chance to prove to me he WILL change that, and it's been months, people. And he still does it like a fucking moron, and I have been moving on from him, but at this point, I honestly what to know what the fuckin deal is, what advice I can give him, how to handle this emotionally for myself because I'm enraged, I really am. I'm infuriated.

His chart is this:
Rising: Pisces
Sun: Cancer
Moon: Pisces
Mercury: Cancer
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Libra

I don't know the rest.

Maybe I just need to vent about it, I really don't know, but I'm beyond fed up, like good lord. He's a fucking child practically. I feel like I raised a fucking child. And talk about losing all respect for him.
Your back again? Didn't you want to break up with him? Hes not going to change for you. People dont change to please others, especially unappreciative people.
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I can agree with that. It's true, no one changes for others, they change for themselves. And obviously he think he can get away with being a lazy prick and not trying and I'm done