How do you feel about loyalty?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by LawrenceWTF on Saturday, February 13, 2016 and has 13 replies.

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@LawrenceWTF
10 Years

Are you willing to change partner if your needs aren't met or do you try to resolve the problems? What is your mercury,venus, and mars?

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@Crabra
10 Years1,000+ Posts

I am fiercely loyal, and ideas of another partner never enter the equation. All of my 'needs' were met before this person entered my life, so I do not need to seek elsewhere when what she 'brings' into my life becomes less and less available for whatever reason that is. If it get to the point that I have to ask myself what this person adds to my life other than negativity, then I start to seriously consider leaving her.

Mercury - Leo
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Taurus

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@TheLadyScorpio
13 Years10,000+ Posts

Why would I run at the first signs of trouble?

If my needs are not met, I would try my best to communicate them and we would work through it together. My problems or his problems, if we could not solve them on our own, it then becomes our problem.

In my commitment to another, it truly is for better or worse when it comes to loyalty.

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@CopperDove
11 Years5,000+ Posts

I'll try to resolve it if possible with the person, patiently, trying to understand their side of things too.

I'll end the relationship if I'm too unhappy and there's no workable solution with the person. By then it will be clear there's an incompatibility that likely won't change because I've done so much to work with myself, and them, on it to at least compromise.

Sag Mercury, Scorpio Venus, Libra Mars

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@elguapolibra
10 Years

I will communicate. I don't believe in throwing away relationships. Well if we have years invested, not just some two week affair. You can work through any problem. Usually there are signs that there are issues, so be proactive and look out for them.

Mercury-Scorpio
Venus-Scorpio
Mars-Aquarius

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by LawrenceWTF
Are you willing to change partner if your needs aren't met or do you try to resolve the problems? What is your mercury,venus, and mars?

I am loyal first and foremost to myself.

If my needs are not being met than I will absolutely look onward and upward. Staying in a endless cycle situation and expecting a miraculous change is the epitome of stupidity.

Pisces Mercury, Taurus Venus, Capricorn Mars.

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@Scenic
14 Years5,000+ Posts

I do try communicating but change is difficult and takes time. While all this is going down, I'm subconsciously detaching until it reaches the point where I no longer want to stick around. After this process starts, my feelings will never be the same as they were before. My happiness comes first. I generally don't stick around as long as some others since I honestly feel like it's a waste of time. I've tried the whole changing thing and they've tried the whole changing thing. It doesn't work long term. And, I'm talking about issues or habits that would break us long term, anyway. Not silly, trivial irritations or behaviors.

Pisces merc, Aries venus, Cancer mars