what kind of woman this Virgo is attracted to?

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Posted by greylatern
Ok as a Virgo sun and mercury, and Libra Venus, there is a few general things I want to point out. First the obvious, he is surrounded by woman but is "with"none of them. There is a reason for that. He treats you differently because you are different, love. You being you is what attracts him so don't worry about others. Libras love companionship and giving attention. In Venus we love giving the loving kind. Flirt, seducing. Making others laugh, etc. Like a social dancer or entertainer. Honestly it's a lot of fun. The downside is if you go to far people catch feelings. There is a song called Jar of hearts. That hit home for me. That earth moon means he does take things seriously at some point. I have Taurus his is Capricorn. Though without the birth time he could have a bit of Sag or Aqua in his emotion mix.

Secondly, if you are interested go ahead and open up and flirt back. Just don't be rude to his friends be polite but focus mostly on him. He will get the hint. Also doing this will show confidence and intent. That will impress him for sure. If signals are not clear the Virgo self doubt may kick in and he will be stand offish. Just be genuine and you will be fine. Think of it as a game. I personally love the flirting game!

Would need to see your chart to see the energy interactions to really tell you though. Sounds like this guy is really expressing his Venus and with that mercury conjuct I bet his is a real sweet talker lol.


Hello,

if you would like to please take a look.

Yes, social dancer, entertainer. I am jealous, and have been jealous of him. But he has some weird aura around him. Something that makes me feel curious. But on the other hand i see he is very open with others. A lot of female friends that are jealous of him.

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Posted by greylatern
Ok as a Virgo sun and mercury, and Libra Venus, there is a few general things I want to point out. First the obvious, he is surrounded by woman but is "with"none of them. There is a reason for that. He treats you differently because you are different, love. You being you is what attracts him so don't worry about others. Libras love companionship and giving attention. In Venus we love giving the loving kind. Flirt, seducing. Making others laugh, etc. Like a social dancer or entertainer. Honestly it's a lot of fun. The downside is if you go to far people catch feelings. There is a song called Jar of hearts. That hit home for me. That earth moon means he does take things seriously at some point. I have Taurus his is Capricorn. Though without the birth time he could have a bit of Sag or Aqua in his emotion mix.

Secondly, if you are interested go ahead and open up and flirt back. Just don't be rude to his friends be polite but focus mostly on him. He will get the hint. Also doing this will show confidence and intent. That will impress him for sure. If signals are not clear the Virgo self doubt may kick in and he will be stand offish. Just be genuine and you will be fine. Think of it as a game. I personally love the flirting game!

Would need to see your chart to see the energy interactions to really tell you though. Sounds like this guy is really expressing his Venus and with that mercury conjuct I bet his is a real sweet talker lol.


Hello,

if you would like to please take a look.

Yes, social dancer, entertainer. I am jealous, and have been jealous of him. But he has some weird aura around him. Something that makes me feel curious. But on the other hand i see he is very open with others. A lot of female friends that are jealous of him.

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If he does have scorp rising...then that's the weird aura around him.
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Thank you. you can take a look at this synastry whenever you wish.

What does it feel like?

Weird, i feel sadness in his eyes that is covered with a quick 'outside happiness'. Its very intriguing.

What does it make you feel?

Challenged to get to know him. He makes me feel scared and afraid of him a bit. He is like the devil? But on the other hand i am challenged to get to know him better. And i must put myself out of my comfort zone...

Weird energy. I have not experienced it in the last 3-4 years. Really. Maybe because we both have Moon in Capricorn—

Does it remind you of anything?

Some of his actions remind me of myself. And i kind know intuitively what he feels and what he hides from the world— I dont know its WEIRD. And it makes me scared.But i am usually right.

Do you feel a pull?

I dont understand this phrase but does it mean - do you feel under pressure?

If it means it- i feel kind of a pressure to be the best like he would be my father testing me .

I dont know why and how. But i know in his eyes i must be the best.

And i make pressure on myself. Even his friends and other guy that i like dont make me feel like that.

But its intriguing but on the other hand STRESSFULL. Like he has the power over me and i am very stubborn.

What do you see in his eyes when you look into them?

I feel sadness and understanding of my needs. Its weird but he is very caring inside. Outside he has a big big heavy mask of a 'cocky' guy but inside he is very fragile. I know that because i am fragile as well.



I remember him choosing only party girls with 'thick skin' but he is interested (?) in me because im more subtle and i am more feminine...And i dont make drama?