@ThePiscesPrincess
13 Years
The Venus signs i really hate.
Understanding Venus Signs and Their Traits
Venus signs influence love styles and relationship preferences. Venus in Libra tends to be charming but can be overly agreeable. Venus in Aries may have bold tastes and act impulsively. Venus in Gemini often seeks variety and can be restless. Venus in Virgo tends to be picky with high standards. Recognizing these traits helps better understand relationship dynamics.
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Mercury-ruled signs & Aries in Venus. Run for the hills. im warning y'all.
Posted by geminicandIe
I have venus in cancer and I don't like it. I give more than I get.
You guys are sweet, just clingy af!
Posted by tiziani
Venus in Virgo - simple rule really, get it right or stop apologizing. Either one. Just pick one.
Yeah
Make a stance and run with it.
Posted by tiziani
Venus in Virgo - simple rule really, get it right or stop apologizing. Either one. Just pick one.Yeah
Make a stance and run with it.
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Quite humorous coming from a mutable ?
I don't hate any venus sign. Mine is in Sagittarius & it's very helpful when it comes to dealing with people who don't deserve my love. I just leave them without a forwarding address or any hard feelings on my part. What I hate about it though is, it has no loyalty...quite the opposite of my other planets.
Venus in Gemini - the self proclaimed "cheating" venus. Its so hard to please them, because in love, they be everywhere, and they always get bored and need constant stimulation and variety. ive seen guys with this with girls who are.. how can i say this politely... boring af. Lmfao everyone on astro forums says "omg watch out if you date someone with this venus sign" or they be hatin'.
Oh dear! Both the guy i am seeing and i have this placement. LOL!! What you say is not exactly wrong but a little too harsh. However i see the truth in it.
Posted by tiziani
Venus in Virgo - simple rule really, get it right or stop apologizing. Either one. Just pick one.Yeah
Make a stance and run with it.
Quite humorous coming from a mutable ?
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Wut? I am talking about the Venus in Virgo not moi 😛
I don't hate anyone venus sign. Sure i had few bad experiences with some people. But i realise our venus doesn't make who we truly are. There are other planets in our chart that can either enhance or weaken a venus sign power. Plus you gotta look at someone rising sign & 7th house sign. I just don't think astrology should be taken this serious tho
Also i have a venus in gemini. I have never cheated or had different females at one time. I think my water planets & 3 capricorn planets are a good reason. I do like to be creative with things i do. I also don't like for me or my partner to be bored. I made my mistakes, but i never cheated or used anyone. I act more like a Cancer anyway. However i was raised by good parents. So can't forget that
With venus in gemini, i like intelligent women who are fun & sweet. They have to kind like me. So i don't agree with the statement about venus in gemini on page.1. It's best to just accept & love who you are. Not everyone will love us anyway
Venus in Aries - The men with this placement have horrible taste in women, i seen guys with girls who look like men or dykes, or girls that need to have a burger or somethin', or they look used af. And since when do us women have to chase you, you childish-ass bitches? lmfao im defo not chasing them. Gtfo of here. The women... hell its either they chase men(or women), or theyre single for life(like my aunt). lmao
What Aries Venus people do you know? This description is so off it's not even funny. The men I've known with this Venus are chasers. They like feisty women but they do the chasing themselves. My sisters boyfriend is one and trust me my sis could've been a model if she wanted to. They always go for the pretty girls that are hard to get since they like a challenge.
I've got Aries Venus myself & I do like to initiate, so what? It works just fine for me😉 To me it's really lame to not text/call a guy when I want to "just because guys should initiate all the time".click to expand
Feel the exact same way!!!! I hate labels on who SHOULD being doing what/when. Ideally it's nice when it's more 50/50 but if I really like someone I'm not above doing more as long as they are receptive. I think u can tell the difference when they r just not interested vs hanging back a lil etc. Anyway I don't have Aries Venus (mines Sag) so maybe it's the Aries Rising!?!?
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
Also i have a venus in gemini. I have never cheated or had different females at one time. I think my water planets & 3 capricorn planets are a good reason. I do like to be creative with things i do. I also don't like for me or my partner to be bored. I made my mistakes, but i never cheated or used anyone. I act more like a Cancer anyway. However i was raised by good parents. So can't forget that
Yea youre the only person i know who wouldnt do such a thing. But yea everyone on astrological forums says to watch out for that venus... ive met so many guys with this who are players though, but it must be the aspects to it..
Venus in Aries - The men with this placement have horrible taste in women, i seen guys with girls who look like men or dykes, or girls that need to have a burger or somethin', or they look used af. And since when do us women have to chase you, you childish-ass bitches? lmfao im defo not chasing them. Gtfo of here. The women... hell its either they chase men(or women), or theyre single for life(like my aunt). lmao
What Aries Venus people do you know? This description is so off it's not even funny. The men I've known with this Venus are chasers. They like feisty women but they do the chasing themselves. My sisters boyfriend is one and trust me my sis could've been a model if she wanted to. They always go for the pretty girls that are hard to get since they like a challenge.
I've got Aries Venus myself & I do like to initiate, so what? It works just fine for me😉 To me it's really lame to not text/call a guy when I want to "just because guys should initiate all the time".click to expand
Terrible people IRL. Yea youre right about the feisty part, and yea its true they do tend to date models & arm candy (if theyre super hot themselves)
The one i dated though he was strange af, he didnt like feisty women(he liked them nice, lmfao way too nice, the guy was basically a doormat), or playing hard to get, but he did have a preference for thin women(-.-).
Yea the challenge thing is annoying at times. I have a fixed venus, and im way too resilient for that shit, ill get tired after awhile.
But this venus is the one i hate the least out of the 3. but i still hate it 😛
Venus in Gemini - the self proclaimed "cheating" venus. Its so hard to please them, because in love, they be everywhere, and they always get bored and need constant stimulation and variety. ive seen guys with this with girls who are.. how can i say this politely... boring af. Lmfao everyone on astro forums says "omg watch out if you date someone with this venus sign" or they be hatin'.
Oh dear! Both the guy i am seeing and i have this placement. LOL!! What you say is not exactly wrong but a little too harsh. However i see the truth in it.
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Ah well. I do have a foot-in-the-mouth syndrome.
ThePiscesPrincess Yeah i think Venus has more to do with aspects. I would say i'm friendly if i'm comfortable around you. But player, no way. I know i can't be with just any ol person tho. So it just depends on the individual. I know you mean well
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
"Yea the challenge thing is annoying at times. I have a fixed venus, and im way too resilient for that shit, ill get tired after awhile."Lol you're a Pisces with a Leo moon, plus your Venus and moon are opposite. I don't think you're that drama free sweetie. Maybe that guy you saw had a lot of feminine planets though. I dated a cap with Aqua Venus myself and he was so weird. Very aloof and detached when we were together and now 3 years after I broke up with him he's still stalking me.
I may have drama, but i dont start it at least. The drama follows me. 🙂 but my opposition has to do with having my family, hating on every person i date. Ive had to dump guys(i dump them, never the other way around), because my mom would say or do shit to scare them away, and say racist things about them.
I used to stalk guys when i was in 7-8 grade, but ive grown from it, and realized that i cant always be fixated on one dude..
lol half his few planets in water & earth
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
ThePiscesPrincess Yeah i think Venus has more to do with aspects. I would say i'm friendly if i'm comfortable around you. But player, no way. I know i can't be with just any ol person tho. So it just depends on the individual. I know you mean well
Lol i used to like this guy with a Gem venus...
Before i did his chart, i had this huge crush on him. Every girl at my old school, esp his ex's, they would come up & tell me to stay away from this guy, because he changes gf's like he changes pants, or he cheats on them, and that he was gonna use me and break my heart..
@ThePiscesPrincess lol wow, not that can't be good. When i first read about my venus sign, i got scared. Like i know this ain't me. However last year, i use to met geminis back to back. Like krazy. I will say my issue is falling in love fast. But typical Cancers do as well. Only if we trust someone. Sorry you had bad experiences with my venus sign. idk what to say about that. I'm glad i got water & earth in my chart tho. I guess there's nothing you can do about it
Posted by WaterCup
I don't hate any venus sign. Mine is in Sagittarius & it's very helpful when it comes to dealing with people who don't deserve my love. I just leave them without a forwarding address or any hard feelings on my part. What I hate about it though is, it has no loyalty...quite the opposite of my other planets.Glad to hear a Sag Venus admit this. That's been my biggest issue with Sag Venus, they just never seem loyal enough. And loyalty is big for me.
In general, I have not found mutable Venus signs to be quite committed enough for me.
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Uh-oh, I hope you didn't think I meant cheating lol. The way I experience mine is that it doesn't do "for better or worse". It's for better or fantastic. When I'm faced with "worse", I want to exit stage left. I can't deal with relationship lows while I could be having a high time elsewhere. That's what I meant by no loyalty. Allergic to people who kill my vibe, all I want is to have fun..no stress.
Let me just add that my Sagittarius venus is in the 9th house & it conjuncts Jupiter, so it might differ just a bit from others with the same venus. I don't want to be accused of bad mouthing every Sagittarius venus out there. I'm speaking of my own placements here, so if yours has staying power then good for you because I wasn't talking about you anyway 🙂
Posted by ThePiscesPrincess
Venus in Gemini - the self proclaimed "cheating" venus. Its so hard to please them, because in love, they be everywhere, and they always get bored and need constant stimulation and variety. ive seen guys with this with girls who are.. how can i say this politely... boring af. Lmfao everyone on astro forums says "omg watch out if you date someone with this venus sign" or they be hatin'.
I had to look up what I was and I'm Venus in Gemini. I rarely get bored. I worry that I bore the crap out of the one I'm with because I really can't stand drama.
Posted by WaterCup
Let me just add that my Sagittarius venus is in the 9th house & it conjuncts Jupiter, so it might differ just a bit from others with the same venus. I don't want to be accused of bad mouthing every Sagittarius venus out there. I'm speaking of my own placements here, so if yours has staying power then good for you because I wasn't talking about you anyway 🙂Mine's in the 4th. MOTHER ME.
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Whaaaa? I've got things to do! Hahaha.
Posted by WaterCup
I don't hate any venus sign. Mine is in Sagittarius & it's very helpful when it comes to dealing with people who don't deserve my love. I just leave them without a forwarding address or any hard feelings on my part. What I hate about it though is, it has no loyalty...quite the opposite of my other planets.Glad to hear a Sag Venus admit this. That's been my biggest issue with Sag Venus, they just never seem loyal enough. And loyalty is big for me.
In general, I have not found mutable Venus signs to be quite committed enough for me.
Uh-oh, I hope you didn't think I meant cheating lol. The way I experience mine is that it doesn't do "for better or worse". It's for better or fantastic. When I'm faced with "worse", I want to exit stage left. I can't deal with relationship lows while I could be having a high time elsewhere. That's what I meant by no loyalty. Allergic to people who kill my vibe, all I want is to have fun..no stress.
Nah I didn't think you meant cheating. 🙂 Just changeable or always keeps eye on the horizon. The way you describe your Sag Venus, it seems more like a "fair weather" type of Venus.
Where as Aqua Venus, like most fixed Venus, wants to rough it through the hard times rather than just let go. We're more of the "can you stand the rain" type, than a fair weather type. Does that make sense?
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I thought Aqua venus would be a "whatever" kind of venus. I never imagined it to be a surfer that rides the waves. Eww. J/K. That's interesting.
@kissmygrits I'm just like you lol. I rarely get bored myself. I worry as well about boring someone i'm with. So i do my best to make sure that doesn't happen. i'm kind of a no drama type of Cancer
Posted by WaterCup
Let me just add that my Sagittarius venus is in the 9th house & it conjuncts Jupiter, so it might differ just a bit from others with the same venus. I don't want to be accused of bad mouthing every Sagittarius venus out there. I'm speaking of my own placements here, so if yours has staying power then good for you because I wasn't talking about you anyway 🙂Mine's in the 4th. MOTHER ME.
Whaaaa? I've got things to do! Hahaha.
LOL Classic 9th and 4th conflict wrapped up in a nutshell
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Does your venus feel cancer like because of the house placement?
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
I dated a cap with Aqua Venus myself and he was so weird. Very aloof and detached when we were together and now 3 years after I broke up with him he's still stalking me.Yeah I've stated it a few times...Aqua Venus has a hard time letting go sometimes, and a hard time moving on. We about that forever love. LOL. Or that may be my Venus square Pluto aspect.
Lol I think he also has this aspect.
But I think it's different among the signs. I think Aqua Venus is actually one of the better Venus signs for Pisces. My sister has it and she's committed but not clingy. Her social life will never really be affected because of a relationship. Very level headed but maybe it's also her Taurus rising/moon. Very different from me lol😛 She always lectures me how I shouldn't put myself out there and shouldn't put all my eggs in one basket right away *shrugs*
She means well but I like the thrill of the chase. It makes me feel alive and passionate😛 But then again Elizabeth Taylor, Liza Minnelli, Eva longoria and Rihanna are mermaids with Aries Venus.. Apparently it's a rather tragic combination lol
Oh well😛Yes I'm rather like your sister. Taurus rising, Pisces sun, Virgo moon, Aqua Venus. I'm very cautious because once I fall for someone, it's gonna be hard to move on for a while...I get tunnel vision. Which is why fixed dominant or fixed sun men are usually better for me, cause neither of us wants to let go without a fight. My best relationship was with a Taurus. 🙂 Also I think it's important for sure to maintain your personal life and friendships while dating someone. Should the relationship end, you don't want to find yourself manless and friendless. Lol.
I also tried to advise an Aries Venus friend to slow down in vain. Haha. I know just to be supportive now cause "slow" is not y'all speed.
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True, we are ride or die types, us fixed venus'. lmao
Posted by tiziani
Aqua Venus is hawt.😏 😄
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Posted by WaterCup
I don't hate any venus sign. Mine is in Sagittarius & it's very helpful when it comes to dealing with people who don't deserve my love. I just leave them without a forwarding address or any hard feelings on my part. What I hate about it though is, it has no loyalty...quite the opposite of my other planets.Glad to hear a Sag Venus admit this. That's been my biggest issue with Sag Venus, they just never seem loyal enough. And loyalty is big for me.
In general, I have not found mutable Venus signs to be quite committed enough for me.
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Perhaps there was more at play (e.g combination of the other placements). I truly doubt anyone could ever label me as disloyal (Venus in Sag). Sadly, I am loyal to a fault. I am also quite principled, so that may be part of it because I have been loyal to people even when they no longer deserved it from another pov.
Posted by WaterCup
I don't hate any venus sign. Mine is in Sagittarius & it's very helpful when it comes to dealing with people who don't deserve my love. I just leave them without a forwarding address or any hard feelings on my part. What I hate about it though is, it has no loyalty...quite the opposite of my other planets.Glad to hear a Sag Venus admit this. That's been my biggest issue with Sag Venus, they just never seem loyal enough. And loyalty is big for me.
In general, I have not found mutable Venus signs to be quite committed enough for me.
Uh-oh, I hope you didn't think I meant cheating lol. The way I experience mine is that it doesn't do "for better or worse". It's for better or fantastic. When I'm faced with "worse", I want to exit stage left. I can't deal with relationship lows while I could be having a high time elsewhere. That's what I meant by no loyalty. Allergic to people who kill my vibe, all I want is to have fun..no stress.
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Ah, see and I'm the opposite to some degree. I am definitely the "for better or worse" ride or die chick. I do not respond well to anyone that want to restrict me freedom though. Even the hint of an ultimatum or attempt to infringe on my ability to choose, will lead me to pull away and throw cold water on whatever "say" you think you have.
Where as Aqua Venus, like most fixed Venus, wants to rough it through the hard times rather than just let go. We're more of the "can you stand the rain" type, than a fair weather type. Does that make sense?
This is what I meant by other things in play, because this is more like me, but my Venus is in Sag. Just don't issue an ultimatum in the relationship and we're good 😉
Posted by WaterCup
I don't hate any venus sign. Mine is in Sagittarius & it's very helpful when it comes to dealing with people who don't deserve my love. I just leave them without a forwarding address or any hard feelings on my part. What I hate about it though is, it has no loyalty...quite the opposite of my other planets.Glad to hear a Sag Venus admit this. That's been my biggest issue with Sag Venus, they just never seem loyal enough. And loyalty is big for me.
In general, I have not found mutable Venus signs to be quite committed enough for me.
Uh-oh, I hope you didn't think I meant cheating lol. The way I experience mine is that it doesn't do "for better or worse". It's for better or fantastic. When I'm faced with "worse", I want to exit stage left. I can't deal with relationship lows while I could be having a high time elsewhere. That's what I meant by no loyalty. Allergic to people who kill my vibe, all I want is to have fun..no stress.
Ah, see and I'm the opposite to some degree. I am definitely the "for better or worse" ride or die chick. I do not respond well to anyone that want to restrict me freedom though. Even the hint of an ultimatum or attempt to infringe on my ability to choose, will lead me to pull away and throw cold water on whatever "say" you think you have.
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To clarify my previous post.^^^^This will not lead me to leave or even think about leaving a situation, simple correct your assumption/belief that you have some say about what I chose to do/not do.
Where as Aqua Venus, like most fixed Venus, wants to rough it through the hard times rather than just let go. We're more of the "can you stand the rain" type, than a fair weather type. Does that make sense?
This is what I meant by other things in play, because this is more like me, but my Venus is in Sag. Just don't issue an ultimatum in the relationship and we're good 😉
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I don't like ultimatums either lol. And control. Where is your venus & what is it in contact with? I find it hard to do the ride or die thing. It feels like I'm wasting precious time. All my relationships have a pattern of several breakups, on again-off again. When the going gets tough, I split. But I have memory issues though, I always forget why I broke it off in the 1st place & find myself trying with the same person for the 9th, 10th & 11th time until I tire. Only thing I don't forget is cheating & gigantic lies. But all my other stupid reasons for a breakup are quickly forgotten.
This is THE thread to talk again about how much I love Venus in Aqua 😄
Posted by WaterCup
I don't hate any venus sign. Mine is in Sagittarius & it's very helpful when it comes to dealing with people who don't deserve my love. I just leave them without a forwarding address or any hard feelings on my part. What I hate about it though is, it has no loyalty...quite the opposite of my other planets.Glad to hear a Sag Venus admit this. That's been my biggest issue with Sag Venus, they just never seem loyal enough. And loyalty is big for me.
In general, I have not found mutable Venus signs to be quite committed enough for me.
Perhaps there was more at play (e.g combination of the other placements). I truly doubt anyone could ever label me as disloyal (Venus in Sag). Sadly, I am loyal to a fault. I am also quite principled, so that may be part of it because I have been loyal to people even when they no longer deserved it from another pov.
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Bingo! Your and Tiz's point earlier speak to the quandary that Venus in Sag often face. I'm a Sag sun, Venus in Sag and this is something I often deal with but is misunderstood. The balance between self respect/love and having that for others. My loyalty has been questioned in the past. For me, its simple. I'm not perfect but I am principled and humbled. A principle/ideal is nothing unless its practical AND practiced. Let's be real, we're talking about what is either bad habits or behavior that keeps you from growing. Things are subjective, but there are fundamental things we all should be doing as people. With that said, people tend to think that love and loyalty are about accepting all of them. That's true. Love is unconditional but a relationship(friends or otherwise) is not. If you respect yourself, you're not going to allow someone to mistreat you and love doesn't require that you do...neither does loyalty. But it speaks to the fact that some seek validation through others and that especially goes for bad behavior. I'm not going to enable that because I wouldn't be following my principle of not mistreating/disrespecting others. Also, Seraph once said that what others visit upon people will soon be visited upon you. But I'm also not anyone's father. Most people
Where as Aqua Venus, like most fixed Venus, wants to rough it through the hard times rather than just let go. We're more of the "can you stand the rain" type, than a fair weather type. Does that make sense?
This is what I meant by other things in play, because this is more like me, but my Venus is in Sag. Just don't issue an ultimatum in the relationship and we're good 😉
I don't like ultimatums either lol. And control. Where is your venus & what is it in contact with? I find it hard to do the ride or die thing. It feels like I'm wasting precious time. All my relationships have a pattern of several breakups, on again-off again. When the going gets tough, I split. But I have memory issues though, I always forget why I broke it off in the 1st place & find myself trying with the same person for the 9th, 10th & 11th time until I tire. Only thing I don't forget is cheating & gigantic lies. But all my other stupid reasons for a breakup are quickly forgotten.
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Sag. I don't understand the second part of the question though. Do you mean the house it's placed in?
Where as Aqua Venus, like most fixed Venus, wants to rough it through the hard times rather than just let go. We're more of the "can you stand the rain" type, than a fair weather type. Does that make sense?
This is what I meant by other things in play, because this is more like me, but my Venus is in Sag. Just don't issue an ultimatum in the relationship and we're good 😉
I don't like ultimatums either lol. And control. Where is your venus & what is it in contact with? I find it hard to do the ride or die thing. It feels like I'm wasting precious time. All my relationships have a pattern of several breakups, on again-off again. When the going gets tough, I split. But I have memory issues though, I always forget why I broke it off in the 1st place & find myself trying with the same person for the 9th, 10th & 11th time until I tire. Only thing I don't forget is cheating & gigantic lies. But all my other stupid reasons for a breakup are quickly forgotten.
Sag. I don't understand the second part of the question though. Do you mean the house it's placed in?
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Sorry, I meant which house & aspects.
Posted by PVandJelleh
So reading the different perspectives on Sag Venus is interesting. No I don't think loyalty should entail putting up with unnecessary crap from others. One should have certain things that they just don't put up with...deal breakers.
Let me clarify, when I say loyal to a fault, this does not mean I put up with BS or mistreatment and stick by your side. No, I'm out. I meant I will demonstrate my loyalty by respecting the fact that we had a relationship and even if you mean nothing to me now, you meant something to me at one point. Respect is given for that reason. For example, trust is extremely important to me. If you tell me something--I will not say anything, no matter what. I have had an ex lover betrayal my trust by disclosing personal information about me to mutual friends in an effort to humiliate me because I left him. When he was trash talking me, I didn't utter a word about the dark secrets he shard with me that would have humiliated him. Some would say that was stupid, he betrayed me first so all bets are off. I don't see it that way. If I say trust is important to me I live by that. I also won't stoop to someone else's level. I own my own sh*t and my decisions, so I am not going to justify or excuse my actions by blaming someone else.
I suppose I was more thinking along the lines of commitment. When things stop being easy breezy, and shit gets real, some just prefer to abandon ship and look for the next easy option, rather than take the time to work out the kinks in the relationship with someone that they've already invested time and emotion in. No matter who you date, there will always be something about them that you don't like, because there is no perfect mate.
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I agree wholeheartedly. I need to know a person is as invested in this as I am. If they are, I will work through anything with them. I don't run when thing get a little (or very) rough.
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Most people make a conscious decision to do the things they do. So, in that regard in not going to continually address your actions. That's a waste of time and energy. I'll distance myself. Doesn't mean I love or care for you any less and the door is always open. It our relationship will not continue until you change and I'll stick to it. But I also allow you to address my behavior and discuss it. When I'm wrong, I immediately change and you have my word. While life should be fun, there is a great deal of seriousness(if that's a word lol) to it.
Uh-oh, I hope you didn't think I meant cheating lol. The way I experience mine is that it doesn't do "for better or worse". It's for better or fantastic. When I'm faced with "worse", I want to exit stage left. I can't deal with relationship lows while I could be having a high time elsewhere. That's what I meant by no loyalty. Allergic to people who kill my vibe, all I want is to have fun..no stress.
Ah, see and I'm the opposite to some degree. I am definitely the "for better or worse" ride or die chick. I do not respond well to anyone that want to restrict me freedom though. Even the hint of an ultimatum or attempt to infringe on my ability to choose, will lead me to pull away and throw cold water on whatever "say" you think you have.
To clarify my previous post.^^^^This will not lead me to leave or even think about leaving a situation, simple correct your assumption/belief that you have some say about what I chose to do/not do.
I don't like it when people try to control me or my thoughts either. Aqua Venus is also quite rebellious. I'll do the opposite just to spite them. 😄 The principle thing makes sense. It depends on the values of the Sag Venus person, I get it. I suppose the same could he said for any Venus though.
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+1. I am the same way, but I blame my Rising for that 😄
Posted by PVandJelleh
So reading the different perspectives on Sag Venus is interesting. No I don't think loyalty should entail putting up with unnecessary crap from others. One should have certain things that they just don't put up with...deal breakers.I suppose I was more thinking along the lines of commitment. When things stop being easy breezy, and shit gets real, some just prefer to abandon ship and look for the next easy option, rather than take the time to work out the kinks in the relationship with someone that they've already invested time and emotion in. No matter who you date, there will always be something about them that you don't like, because there is no perfect mate. I guess it just depends on how big of a deal breaker it is.
LOL, that's exactly why I'm single...real relationships are hard. Reason why I have a penpal "boyfriend". No drama. I'll just stop writing when I get tired of it. Have you ever found yourself indifferent to love? I feel like that lately. Nothing moves me. I just don't care. I hope it doesnt last though because that would scare me.
Do I need to explain again why Venus in Aqua folks are awesome?
Most misuderstood and underrated placement ever.
I've dealt with two aqua Venus men back to back. It's heartbreaking as a libra Venus because I'm always wanting to be close to my partner... But obviously will respect your need for space too. But Aqua Venus is just so detached and so aloof. I've gotten angry at both of them and would try to address it and talk it out but they won't respond until the next day. I get that maybe that's how they process things.. But in the mean time I'm just fuming and wondering and suffering! It's funny though that I've never been more smitten with any other Venus sign. Maybe I'm a glutton for pain = libra Venus
Posted by Damnata
...Venus in Aqua folks are awesome.Most misuderstood and underrated placement ever.
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Posted by bloodflood
I've dealt with two aqua Venus men back to back. It's heartbreaking as a libra Venus because I'm always wanting to be close to my partner... But obviously will respect your need for space too. But Aqua Venus is just so detached and so aloof. I've gotten angry at both of them and would try to address it and talk it out but they won't respond until the next day. I get that maybe that's how they process things.. But in the mean time I'm just fuming and wondering and suffering! It's funny though that I've never been more smitten with any other Venus sign. Maybe I'm a glutton for pain = libra VenusVenus is not happy in Aquarius at all
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What do you mean? Like.. You guys WANT to show emotions and not act so detached to your partners but can't?
Posted by WaterCup
I don't hate any venus sign. Mine is in Sagittarius & it's very helpful when it comes to dealing with people who don't deserve my love. I just leave them without a forwarding address or any hard feelings on my part. What I hate about it though is, it has no loyalty...quite the opposite of my other planets.Glad to hear a Sag Venus admit this. That's been my biggest issue with Sag Venus, they just never seem loyal enough. And loyalty is big for me.
In general, I have not found mutable Venus signs to be quite committed enough for me.
Uh-oh, I hope you didn't think I meant cheating lol. The way I experience mine is that it doesn't do "for better or worse". It's for better or fantastic. When I'm faced with "worse", I want to exit stage left. I can't deal with relationship lows while I could be having a high time elsewhere. That's what I meant by no loyalty. Allergic to people who kill my vibe, all I want is to have fun..no stress.
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I relate to this, I'm loyal but I get itchy feet if someone is dreary and brings me down. I'll want to bolt out of the situation (possibly leaving a cutout of my silhouette in the wall) if I can't alleviate the problem with laughter or an easy going spirit.
Posted by PVandJelleh
So reading the different perspectives on Sag Venus is interesting. No I don't think loyalty should entail putting up with unnecessary crap from others. One should have certain things that they just don't put up with...deal breakers.I suppose I was more thinking along the lines of commitment. When things stop being easy breezy, and shit gets real, some just prefer to abandon ship and look for the next easy option, rather than take the time to work out the kinks in the relationship with someone that they've already invested time and emotion in. No matter who you date, there will always be something about them that you don't like, because there is no perfect mate. I guess it just depends on how big of a deal breaker it is.
I hate easy (Aries Mars wants to fight for it's object of affection), I only run to greener pastures then try and lure my love to me...so the mood of whatever is happening can wane and we can have fun...TOGETHER.
My Venus is also in the 7th house, so that makes my love life paramount and my partner very important to me.
Posted by bloodflood
I've dealt with two aqua Venus men back to back. It's heartbreaking as a libra Venus because I'm always wanting to be close to my partner... But obviously will respect your need for space too. But Aqua Venus is just so detached and so aloof. I've gotten angry at both of them and would try to address it and talk it out but they won't respond until the next day. I get that maybe that's how they process things.. But in the mean time I'm just fuming and wondering and suffering! It's funny though that I've never been more smitten with any other Venus sign. Maybe I'm a glutton for pain = libra VenusVenus is not happy in Aquarius at all
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Ah well. cest la vie, qu'est ce je peux vous dire?
Tbh i cant stand guys who have venus in Aqua, girls are way better with Aqua venus than guys, but i love Aqua moon.. must be because my Leo moon is in the 11th, so i can tolerate aqua moon better. But the guys with Aqua venus are way too weird .., i met a cap with aqua venus, and he wanted to be "fwbs". lmao for me, its either relationship or not, i have way too much of a busy-ass life for a fwb or a fling(Saturn in 7H).
For the girl that mentioned her aqua venus ex stalking her. He maybe has Venus sq. Pluto or some pluto aspects to his personal planets.
Posted by Damnata
Do I need to explain again why Venus in Aqua folks are awesome?Most misuderstood and underrated placement ever.
😄 *hugs*.
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Y'know Venus in libra are way too goody two-shoes(esp in aspect jupiter, it amplifies/exaggerates the traits) , but theyre an OK venus...
Im just stating in my experiences with these placements. Hate mercury & Mars ruled venus'(scorpio is an exception, in fact i love scorp venus)
Venus in Aries - The men with this placement have horrible taste in women, i seen guys with girls who look like men or dykes, or girls that need to have a burger or somethin', or they look used af. And since when do us women have to chase you, you childish-ass bitches? lmfao im defo not chasing them. Gtfo of here. The women... hell its either they chase men(or women), or theyre single for life(like my aunt). lmao
Venus in Gemini - the self proclaimed "cheating" venus. Its so hard to please them, because in love, they be everywhere, and they always get bored and need constant stimulation and variety. ive seen guys with this with girls who are.. how can i say this politely... boring af. Lmfao everyone on astro forums says "omg watch out if you date someone with this venus sign" or they be hatin'.
Venus in Virgo - Picky af. So hard to date/even be around. The men are more likely have REALLY high/impossible standards, or date hookers, or pick on their gfs everytime, or use other girls to have "things" or be fwb's(someone used me for nudes with this placement. i really hate this guy, i told my friends to beat him up and send him abuse after playing with my heart, saying he liked me , when he used me for nudes. i got back at him sun sq. pluto style . i can be very vindictive & mean as much as im nice.) lmao now he thinks im evil & crazy. But yeah this placement in a man is the worst. terrible bfs.