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Here's the scenario:
A few weeks ago a 35-year-old woman moves into my boyfriend's apartment complex. Single mother - with 3 illegitimate children. (One is 14 and the other two are very young, maybe 4-5.)She's VERY bubbly and outgoing. But seems a little clingy and crazy.
She sees my boyfriend loading the jetskis one day, so she hits on him and asks him to take her out on them. At this moment she sees me getting in the truck and realizes I'm with him and pretends like she's suddenly kidding. I am not offended anyway - I don't feel threatened. But she still backtracks and painfully attempts to joke with me. Making the situation more uncomfortable than it needed to be. I now avoid her.
Then she moves on to my boyfriend's roommate - her is more her age anyway (38.) He amuses her because he will fuck anything with a heartbeat.
Last night I'm staying over there since I have family in town using my room -- at 10pm there's a knock on the door. It's her. (Seriously.) She's giggling and "bored." She says her kids are sleeping - she's going insane "trapped in the house." I'm annoyed because I was planning on going to bed soon considering I was to be up at 5am this morning. But not my apartment so I can't say anything.
She clearly doesn't know what an inside voice. I'm positive she's a gemini. (Sorry.) She's saying the most trashy obnoxious things - like how her kids are an inconvience to her because she can't go hang out at bars and meet people.
After spending about 15 minutes there...the roommate and her end up screwing.


I'm not trying to be judgemental. But REALLY? Is this how 35 year old women act?
Easy has a whole new meaning.
Call me sheltered...but I'm kind of disgusted.



*sigh*

Ew call me back Briana, I've been calling and texting you so we can talk shit about this bitch

"like how her kids are an inconvience to her because she can't go hang out at bars and meet people."

Gross. But I know girls who have kids and dump them on whoever will take them so they can go to bars. They do it every weekend. It's sad. What's even more sad is how they'll act like mothers of the year whenever they get a chance to. One of these girls will be out at a bar with pics of her kids showing them to anyone who will look. She proclaims loudly how much she loves her kids.... beer in hand, drunk, barely remembering where she dropped them off this weekend. Some people shouldn't be allowed to breed.

I'd just avoid her B. Woman like that tend to be drama queens too. They'll stir up anything for attention and usually start shit with other females so they can show the males how jealous you are of them because they are so "attractive". Trust me. Stay far away.

^Yeah. I think he made a really big mistake sleeping with her.
*cues pyscho music*

I know a sagi girl like that at work...

You know the most repulsive part to me is the fact that he's talking about her now.
He refers to her as "the skank" and jokes with my boyfriend about it being his turn next, etc.
Isn't he just as nasty— Why is that she's the "skank?"

Posted by brianafay
You know the most repulsive part to me is the fact that he's talking about her now.
He refers to her as "the skank" and jokes with my boyfriend about it being his turn next, etc.
Isn't he just as nasty— Why is that she's the "skank?"

He IS a skank & with any luck his pee pee will turn green & fall off. You even said he'd fuck anything with a pulse. It's the double standard that because he's a man he's SUPPOSE to do things like that but because she's a woman she is not. When in actuality it's nasty for anyone to do that. Hopefully he wore a rubber because she's obviouly fertile.

As for her & women like her, More than disgusted by them I feel sorry for them because they clearly have issues. She doesn't know how to love or be loved, not in the correct way & she thinks that her value lies in between her legs. Women like that think that the only way anyone would like them or love them or want to spend anytime with them is if they put out. They have incredibly low self esteem. Her age has no baring on that as someone else already said, she didn't turn 30 & become like this, she's always been like this & without professional help will always be which is sad for the children who will look to her to see how to conduct their own adult relationships. I see young women in their 20's like this all the time.

^I know what they mean...and with another guy I might have given that more though. But I'm not worried about her. The 5 years I've been with my boyfriend he's never given me any reasons not to trust him. That was seriously the least of my concerns.
My true concern is that she's going to turn into the pyscho my intuition already tells me she is. (Like some fatal attraction bullshit.)

I felt bad for her actually. I feel he exploited and took advantage of her. Seriously. She has an excuse. What's his?
I was disgusted with him from the beginning...especially the way he and my boyfriend now joke about her. He chose to sleep with her...but why if she is "so nasty?"
& When I asked my boyfriend this, his reply was: "He's a guy. He has a dick."
!!!!

*holds temples*
What is wrong with men?

I am totally staying out of it?? That's their business.
I was just venting. Lol.
Mainly my point was: a man slept with a woman he literally spent 15 minutes with...and she's the "skank" while he's just doing what men do?
Plus I can't believe a woman in her mid-30's is still behaving this way even after having several children whom she now is left to support on her own. I'm just saying. I thought she would have learned?


I guess the illegitimate children thing struck a nerve with you? You keep mentioning it?
It really wasn't meant to offend anyone...so sorry if it did.
They don't have fathers...that's all. She tells anyone and everyone who will listen her business...which is the only reason I even know this. I'm almost positive she even joked about them being illegitimate.

*shrugs*

*bump*
Ok. I had to resurrect this from the dead to update.

After I wrote this originally, the roommate started staying at this chick's (I'll refer to her as K) house EVERY day...
My boyfriend made fun of him, obviously, because he was seemingly trying to get serious with a woman who slept with him the first time they "hung out." & he would never defend her/himself and say "look, I really like her actually, and we're dating." Instead, he kept bad-mouthing her saying things like "She's a slut. I already made it very clear that there is nothing between us, she's just a good fuck, she knows we're not dating..." blah blah blah.

So this really pissed me off, but I still don't say anything because I don't want him getting shitty with me - because that'd be the biggest mistake of his life and I don't want the drama for my BF anyway. But it does really bother me, because from the beginning I always felt bad for her. I know she's lonely and vulnerable and I think he's taking advantage of her. He's a dog. I hate him.

This goes on for like 4 weeks. And then one day he switches jobs - now he's working days instead of nights. So, he starts going to the pool everynight with other females in the apt. complex...
My boyfriend immediately makes a comment to him about not wanting anything to do with the drama that will insue when K finds out.
Still he insists that him and K are not dating and it doesn't matter if she finds out, it's not her business...blahblahblah.
My boyfriend makes a good point: rather or not you told her there was nothing between you or not, is irrelevant considering you've been staying at her house EVERYDAY, eating her food, sleeping in her bed, playing with her kids, using her car, etc.

Anyways, one night she calls him and tells him she's taking the kids to the pool and sees if he wants to come. He says he doesn't want to. But when she gets to the pool, he's there with the new chick! Apparently, her kids were saying hi to him and he was ignoring them and being rude. So of course she makes a scene. & he comes back to the apt. talking about how she's so pyscho...
We tell him we don't feel bad for him, and he's a fucking idiot...what did you think was going to happen? He really doesn't get it.

Wow, he's almost 40. Do we really have to school him on appropriate booty-call behavior? Assinine.

Now he's moved on to the new girl, you know in the building across from ours?! He stays there everyday, eating her food, and using her car. Lol. He is seriously starting to look like a parasite. & now I realllllyyyyyy feel bad for the old girl.

So, the old girl started coming by my boyfriend's apt. because she wanted him to know her side of the story. It's totally sick. Apparently she's going through a divorce from her abusive ex-husband who's now making death threats against her (we've even seen him parked outside the apt. complex before.)
The roommate was really nice to her and said nice things to her and made her feel safe. She feels really stupid now, but she doesn't want us to think badly of her, she has no friends here.

Hallmark ending: I've totally befriended her, and make my boyfriend watch out for her. She made me pancakes the other day.

I want to warn the new girl. But she won't listen anyway. :/

Oh and turns out she's actually a cancer, not a gemini. I was close.
But she's not that bad.