Your Venus Placement

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Hey were is ur Venus sign and do u like ur placement wats ur pro and cons of it and how does it affect ur relationships

i have venus in libra i love sharing im very smart i believe in peace and harmony and justice and i always try to look for tha good in people. wat i dont like about it i can be very superficial wen people piss me off. sometimes i go out of ma way for people to much back in tha day people use to walk all over me till i man up now i don't take shit from no one i can appear like i have no feelings wen i'm debating with someone cuz i can about justice plus i can be very air headed and detached lol.

so tell me about ur placements.
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Hey were is ur Venus sign and do u like ur placement wats ur pro and cons of it and how does it affect ur relationships

i have venus in libra i love sharing im very smart i believe in peace and harmony and justice and i always try to look for tha good in people. wat i dont like about it i can be very superficial wen people piss me off. sometimes i go out of ma way for people to much back in tha day people use to walk all over me till i man up now i don't take shit from no one i can appear like i have no feelings wen i'm debating with someone cuz i can about justice plus i can be very air headed and detached lol.

so tell me about ur placements.



i meant i care about justice stupid typo lol
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Mine is in Gemini in the 7th house.

The 7th house makes it more loving and commited, more giving. But in general Venus in Gem keeps thigns interesting. I won't let things get too boring or routine and I love that it makes me quite independent in a relationship. If there's a problem or I'm unsure of a feeling or something I can analyse it in my head and come up with a solution without ever having to worry the other person about what was just a little mood change in my personality.

On the down side Gemini in Venus is supposed to be fickle and unstable, but I think my cancer and the 7th house tones it down. I know the difference between a genuine attraction and a relationship having potential, and a vague interest that won't go anywhere. I can very much have drama and other attractions in my head but I sort of live it ou in there and let it go very quickly without it ever making a physical appearence. However if someone was more impulsive it'd be a problem and they might act on their many interests. I imagine it does make the mind very active ad easily bored as well but again it depends on how well you know yourself and whether you can provide the stimulus for yourself or need someone else to do it. If I'm bored I'll find something to occupy me until my relaxed cancer energy comes back.


I've always felt my Venus in Gem wasn't what people say it is. I should be attracted to other Venus gems or mars gems or any fire/air mars and venus signs but I never am. I love earth/water in those planets though. Air an Fire in your venus/mars just bores me - friends at best but not what I want or feel attracted to. Maybe it's because gemini is very mental. My mind is gemini but that's me alone, not me in a relationship. In a relationship I'm water with how I feel (because that's emotions) and fire with how I express it (because that's actions). My air signs are how I look at it logically and think about it but that's not something that needs expressing.
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If your Venus is in Aries, you thrive on initiating new relationships, and don't shy from making bold propositions. There's an innocence to your invitations that softens the reserve of more guarded types. Your lust for life is contagious, but not everyone can live at your pace. You guard your independence, and would never do or say anything for the sake of the relationship. Others respect you because you stay true to yourself no matter what.

Venus in Aries people flirt by being up-front, direct, and even daring. They try to win you over by expressing how enterprising and independent they are. Their style of expressing love can be maddeningly "me"-centered, but the right person for them will find this approach charming. People get turned on by Venus in Aries' aura of innocent charm, even when they are being childish and impatient.

Venus in Aries men and women behave in a childlike, fun-loving manner in love. They are turned on by energy and activity. Turn-offs include a relationship that is considered stuffy or too "mature", vagueness, and beating around the bush. In love, Venus in Aries people are hopelessly addicted to the conquest. In order for a relationship to remain fresh and new for them, they require plenty of stimulation.

Pleasing Venus in Aries involves fueling their need for action. Be direct, open, and honest with them—they won't much like game-playing or evasiveness, unless it is in the complete spirit of fun. Feed their need for spontaneity, and appreciate their playfulness. Understand their desire for the relationship to remain young and fresh. Aries likes to take the lead in love (even if their Sun Sign is gentle Pisces lol) — let them, at least most of the time. Indulge them their many whims, and understand that they thrive on competition, even when they're competing with you!

Pros - it totally rocks
Cons - it doesn't always rock

Probably also explains why I get bored in relationships so easily, and thrive on stimulation and newness. But I don't like games, and don't like people who play games or are dishonest, so I never cheat. I just.. swim away, like a true Pisces.
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Grrr.. missed some:

In Love and Romance: As a Venus in Aries person, you have fiery passions that easily inflame around attractive potential lovers. You'll pursue a love interest ardently, and in extreme cases, this zeal leads you into fly-by-night marriages. Your impulsiveness gets you in trouble, because you lose interest just as quickly. You don't like anything too settled, preferring some tension in the relationship. For you, combat gets the blood pumping, including mental sparring. You'll flee from a passive partner, or a bond that has lost its luster. Bottom line is that you need challenge, and constant stimulation.

Friendship style : You like to be the alpha of any clique, and pulls it off by being generous, exciting and just so darn self-assured. You're the one that pushes the experimental envelope, and comes back to share tales of your exploits. You're blunt, which means you won't lie and tell friends they look good all the time. You admire strong, independent types, and seem to get nauseous around self-pity, insecurity, etc. If a friend is nursing an emotional wound, you'll instinctively serve up some tough love. Your honesty makes you trustworthy, since people always know where you stand.

Creative Expression: Venus in Aries make great actors since they naturally engage in a spontaneous, direct way. You emerge as leaders in pursuits that require collaboration, like theatre, filmmaking or music. One conduit of your creativity is through fashion and your social life in general. The presentation of Self becomes an art form in your hands.

The Big Attraction: You earn admiration because of your independence, self-confidence and vitality. You are a lusty person, and that itself is sexually attractive. You have an alive physicality and activity level that gets attention. What makes you irresistible is that you're not talking about doing whatever it is, you're doing it.

Winning your Heart: This is a tricky one because any pre-planning will have to be tossed out the window during the wild ride with a Venus in Aries. You want people to be real, and not play games. You want people to be direct and don't say things they don't mean. You like to lead, but crave dynamism in a partner. Your ideal partner is igniting their own passions and staying interested in their own life. You don't want to analyze the relationship, or be expected to read minds.

God, this is me o.O