Springmood
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Advice on cancer man
you just have to persistently tell him. He seems like he's not taking the hint. That's really all you can do. Ignore him also :/
Tell him over and over again until he understands, and metaphorically louder each time.
if you are not interested, just ignore him
if you are interested, dont worry, 5-10 years of age difference doesnt matter (even more doesnt matter)
if you are interested, dont worry, 5-10 years of age difference doesnt matter (even more doesnt matter)
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I believe in your wisdom and intuition, so I thought it could be a good idea to talk to you.
Background story.
I've been attending dancing classes for three months now. We are mostly girls in the group and there are only two boys.
A month ago one of these boys (who turned out to be a cancer) approached me on my way home after the class and we chatted for a while. He asked for my name and was interested to know how old I was. He was always reserved and I never saw him talking to other people in the group. As I now know him better, he is an introvert and not an easy-going person.
I told him to guess my age and his guess was 22. I am 31 so I laughed at his guess and said I am a bit older. He looked very confused and as he later told me he never thought I was older than him (he is 24).
Some people tell me I look younger than my age. Also when I am on dancing classes I feel very cheerful and happy, so this may added up to his perception.
he didn't come up to me the next lesson so I smiled to myself thinking of how he confused me for his coeval. And I forgot about it.
But it turned out that he was thinking over at this time (as he now knew I was quite older than him) and soon he started pursuing me actively - seeing me off after dancing even if I was around people, and doing little cancer things.
Long story short, in a month time what started as innocent friendship and chatting turned into intense and obsessive behavior from his side.
Once I realized it's going serious I talked to him saying we can be friends and let him know I don't want to develop it any further.
He says it's late as he has strong feelings and wants a relationship. Now he is sending poems, self-made videos, his songs through the day and always waits for our communication. I can see that he started manipulating me to check my reaction and attitude to him.
I can't deny there is a strong attraction there and I feel a very strong vibe around him, our communication is dynamic. I can also feel him very well. He is a true cancerian, sensitive, romantic, intensive, lovable, moody, sometimes manipulative
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Should I just stop any communication with him (but we still have to meet in classes)?
Or try to make it a friendship, which I doubt will be successful.
Ps. My main concerns are the age difference and different priorities in life.
Taurus lady.