would you leave him?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by confusedgurly on Sunday, August 7, 2016 and has 23 replies.

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@confusedgurly
10 Years

Hi anyone out there.My crab man has stopped texting as frequently as in thé begining.We see each other much less and last time we had sec was 3 months ago.claims its summer and his daughter takes up his time.please give me your honest opinions

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@rabidtalker
15 Years5,000+ Posts

How far do you live from each other, are you both really busy at work? is there a logistical reason to this?

3 months is a long time and it is not a good sign, texting is also a bad sign. but if you are still seeing each other it is good, how often do you see each other?

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@confusedgurly
10 Years

We see each other once a week at the gym.hé is always busy with family or something.btw i have a gut feeling he is texting other girls when he is around me.hé tries to play coy but i have been blessed with a sixth sense....Lol...anyways i have never asked him about it before.

I do believe he is sleeping with other girls cuz which red blooded male is going to abstain for 3 months.pleasseeee. 😢

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@confusedgurly
10 Years

I think i should just leave while u stt have my pride.I am a sagittarius girl and have moon in scorpio.but i cant stand someone bs me

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Oh then there is giving so many chances. I heard man don't bend so why would you do that just for company.

This sucks believe me I know by experience that woman and now more woman letting go of standards and expectations for a guy for some bondage.

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@confusedgurly
10 Years

Initially he gave me the title gf.since last week he called me his play friend...wth is that about.My gut tells me to run and dont look back...

Btw how should i go about it? Do i text him a farewell message? Je just disappear into thin air? :-) believe me the hurt i am feeling now i just want out.

Its just i am always more unhappy than happy.know what i mean? With all the doubtsw daily plauging ur thoughts

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@rabidtalker
15 Years5,000+ Posts

If you only see each other at the gym and he's always busy then that is really not seeing each other. I dont think you need a sixth sense for this. I would find another guy

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@confusedgurly
10 Years

Oh i must add,in the begining he told me i wasnt his usual " type" . After some time bande getting to understand his " type" he prefers big booty girls .I am fit but more on the slender side.hé said he loves my body but idk after seeing the girls he was attracted to.

Oh he is very handsome and great body.but the girls that attracts him isnt Mona Lisa... No disrespect to anyone.

Do u think he may have self esteem issues?

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@Shellyd238
10 Years

He sounds like he stringing you along. That behavior doe not deserve an explanation from you, you should just cut him off cold. He'll of course come around wondering what happened, and act like the victim, making you the one with the problem. But that's just what they do, don't be fooled.

You could try to explain you viewpoint if you want, but he wont care, it'll all about him after all.

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@CalmCrab22
10 YearsCancer

A) always go with your gut

B) summer is over & his kid has to go back to school soon. Sounds kinda late to leave now if you ask me. What's wrong with another month & see if things get better after she goes to school

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@mattsmum
10 Years

The guy doesn't see you for the long term. It's all about what you want. The guy has already laid out his intentions.