Hey Im cancer girl and I've always had a thing for cap males. I REALLY love their toughness and seriousness, as well as their their shyness (well sometimes). But it really hurts when they start acting cold and distant, it makes me wanna cry and laugh at the same time, so frustrating. Its like they are scared of emotions and the subsequent lack of control. This usualy push me to start playing hard to get (which I really hate), but this would be my only option to get them after me again :p
Basically, from what I've read, it sounds like the relationshop could work or fall flat on its face and it all seems to hinge on affection and attention. As a capricorn, I am not exactly the best at displaying affection; rather, I am not good at vocalizing my affection. What I feel for a person on the inside satisfies that need for myself but rarely for the other person. One thing I am interested in though is that I have read about cancers bringing out the emotional side of a capricorn. I think I just need to get into her periphery and begin from there. Test the waters so to speak.
As a cap, I could use more than a 50/50 shot. I just need to approach her and see how it goes. Hopefully I won't do the cliche cap move, which is make a move and disappear.
I have many Capricorns in my life (mom, mother-in-law, best friend, ex best friend, coworkers). It's strange because with some of them we totally click and get each other, but then there are some that I have a really hard time with. My mom and ex best friend for example, they are both the type of Capricorn who will do the same thing 8000 times and expect a different result; that kind of crap drives me CRAZY. Eventually so much resentment and annoyance is there that you can hardly stand to be around them anymore.
I'm a Cancer female and most of my previous best friends were Capricorn. I say PREVIOUS because none of them are still in my life. It usually starts off great with Caps,because they are so different from me, but after awhile the differences are too many. Cancers are very emotional and Capricorns are the complete opposite..no emotions at all. I always felt that Capricorns could never "get" me. My thoughts and actions were always based from an emotional place, whereas Caps were based from a logical place. We think with our heart, Caps think with their brain..two different ways of doing things. Caps usually get frustrated with me after awhile. I am unpredictable whereas Caps are TOO predictable. To me Caps=boring. I guess it can work if you believe in the opposites attract theory, but I would say it is rare.
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