Cancer Girls & Married Men

Is it common to find cancer girls with married men?
My cancer friend candy was dating & having sex with a married man
for many years even after his wife got pregnant with their 2nd child
and then when he did get his divorced he left candy for one of her
girl friends and they got married and candy was left far behind like
she never meant anything to him and her friend betrayed her too!
is this a common thing or what? candy is just so sad no one can even
talk to her right now,and the pain this guy has caused her is way
beyond the realm of understanding! Does this occur often?
I believe cancer girls believe sob stories and feel alot of compassion
for many of the wrong people sometimes,do you as cancer females feel
that you tend to believe a good line of BS sometimes when someone
really seems real when they are not?
How can I help candy feel better?

Candy is not her real name by the way but I hope to help her.
she won't talk right now.what to do?

Welcome to SHELL lol

ok? thats what shell means? she is hiding I think?

yeah she dealing with the hurt...

ok thats what I figured but I hope she'll be alright! they really did a trip on her

Unfortunately one of my friends who is a Crab has been seeing a married man...I have never approved of this and have told her that. She says he is not interested in the guy and only enjoys the sex..but anyway I feel it is not right, because would she like it, if she were married , to have another woman be wlling to sleep with her husband? I dont think she should take part in that..
I believe it is out of low self esteem that women go with married men...and it goes both ways as the married guys do this instead of confronting their feelings and facing issues..cowards really.

Nothing good ever comes out of this, regardless of zodiac signs!

O-M-G i would NEVER date a married man!!!!!! F-That! Hell i wont even go for a guy that has been in a very long term relationship UNLESS they have been seperated at LEAST a year!

She is in this situation because she was involved with a married man, not because she is a Cancer. It is usually a humiliating experience regardless of her zodiac sign, so don't patronize her and other Cancers by making it a Cancer thing. That's foul. If you truly cared about her you would give her the space to heal and not post all her biz on the world wide web.

well said guest1

Some of the Cancers here are too nice. You just let folks come up in here and talk all kinds of recklessness. The poster cares so much about her friend she started a thread on the internet and called it Cancers and Married Men. One thing that you should know about Cancers is that we value our privacy. The poster can start from there 🙂

That does shed some new light to the subject Deb *ponders* hmmm........... was he? lol

:O

Posted by Geminithefox
Is it common to find cancer girls with married men?

Judging from the cancer females I know being married would not be acceptable

Posted by Geminithefox
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I believe cancer girls believe sob stories and feel alot of compassion
for many of the wrong people sometimes

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I don't know about all cancers but with my cancer females I see that they can be more soft hearted with people they love and might even look the other way when it comes to certain things but they definitely are not gullible the ones I know have sometimes picked up on things I didn't see in other people's fake sob stories and pointed it out to me.

Posted by wineaux
ugh! please stop slammin' the geminins. we're NOT all pieces of crap. i'm starting to get a complex 😢

Your the exception wine :-p *kiss,kiss,hugg,huggs*