Sometimes there are signs, sometimes I am just...confused, and like I say, I like this feeling
Starters: I understand that there is nothing, absolutely nothing (unless I speak to him, which I would never do, because never in a million years will I show what I feel) I can do at this point but to wait for months from now for him to find someone or ask me out. I can wait??_I think.
BUT, as I explained to my aqua bestie, I have yet to think about this till she brought it up and then I went, hmm...
I ended up going out with his sis (I'm close friends with her, which makes this little tiffle harder, but she doesn't seem to care for some odd reason, going as far as to always be mentioning something between him and I) and him and two of his friends to play pool and drink some beers.
As soon as I get into their nice little car they make him sit next to me, and one of his best friends starts asking me if I would ever go out with him, if he was my type, if I was interested, and poor guy is sitting there, not speaking, just shy as hell, which is completely normal for him, he's an awkward kid, adorable indeed.
I pinched his cheek and laughed off the REST OF THE NIGHT were I was called his date (and introduced to EVERYONE as his date, not by him mind you, just by his friend) and even his gf. I wanted to shove a fork in my eye, to draw the attention to more alarming matters.
I felt like I was in high school again, but I just laughed it off and enjoyed the rest of my night, even though I was pretty happy that some things were being revealed in a way...
I played around with him like I usually do, so did he, he starts off shy and then gets comfortable, he finally got back to fb commenting me (as stupid as that is).
But to be honest, when this was happening (the Saturday shenanigans) I was a bit scared, I wouldn't want to know of such things just yet, its too soon to move anywhere and its kinda like a book being read out to me that I just want to take time to read at my own pace.
You would think this would be going somewhere, no? No.
Outside of fb and the times I hang with his sis and he is there (even though she claims if I go somewhere, he will go) there is no other contact. By neither parties.
just ask him to hang out if he's that shy. i knew a libra that was really shy and barely spoke to me outside of FB, and the only way things finally got rolling was when i initiated things. maybe he's one of those guys, maybe you gotta push the lil' birdie off the cliff to get things flying. i mean if his sister is telling you he likes you a lot and so are his friends i say just go for it
Forget it, today I asked his sister why his friends did that and she told me that they were just kidding, that they do it to everyone. And if he liked me I think she would have told me, ehhh, highschool me.
Well, this is were I give up and shrug and say eh, onto another fixture 🙂
that's not cool of them, it's like setting someone up for failure. i'm glad it's not that big of a deal for you. i do feel bad for any other girl that might end up liking him and dealing with his friends own brand of humor.
anyway, more fishes and plus getting chased is far more fun
Well I'm not totally mad out of stone and bugs, sadly, but there are honeslty looks and gestures that remain up in the air and will confuse me till I stop thinking about it lol.
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Sometimes there are signs, sometimes I am just...confused, and like I say, I like this feeling
Starters: I understand that there is nothing, absolutely nothing (unless I speak to him, which I would never do, because never in a million years will I show what I feel) I can do at this point but to wait for months from now for him to find someone or ask me out. I can wait??_I think.
BUT, as I explained to my aqua bestie, I have yet to think about this till she brought it up and then I went, hmm...
I ended up going out with his sis (I'm close friends with her, which makes this little tiffle harder, but she doesn't seem to care for some odd reason, going as far as to always be mentioning something between him and I) and him and two of his friends to play pool and drink some beers.
As soon as I get into their nice little car they make him sit next to me, and one of his best friends starts asking me if I would ever go out with him, if he was my type, if I was interested, and poor guy is sitting there, not speaking, just shy as hell, which is completely normal for him, he's an awkward kid, adorable indeed.
I pinched his cheek and laughed off the REST OF THE NIGHT were I was called his date (and introduced to EVERYONE as his date, not by him mind you, just by his friend) and even his gf. I wanted to shove a fork in my eye, to draw the attention to more alarming matters.
I felt like I was in high school again, but I just laughed it off and enjoyed the rest of my night, even though I was pretty happy that some things were being revealed in a way...
I played around with him like I usually do, so did he, he starts off shy and then gets comfortable, he finally got back to fb commenting me (as stupid as that is).
But to be honest, when this was happening (the Saturday shenanigans) I was a bit scared, I wouldn't want to know of such things just yet, its too soon to move anywhere and its kinda like a book being read out to me that I just want to take time to read at my own pace.
You would think this would be going somewhere, no? No.
Outside of fb and the times I hang with his sis and he is there (even though she claims if I go somewhere, he will go) there is no other contact. By neither parties.
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