cancer boys

i have question about cancer guys in love. well i have been with this guy for 2 years, but we don't have a title right now, and honestly i don't understand why, iam really confused. he does't like me to hang out with guys, but yet iam not his g/f. can someone give me some understanding here! thanks

Dear Confused,
Just because he's a cancer guy it doesn't mean he's all sensitive and lovey dovey kind of guy. A guy is a guy and if he's young and immature than most likely he wants his cake and eat it too. So if I were you speaking as a cancer woman play hard to get, don't pay attention to him, don't call him, make him want you and only you!

Trust me i speak from experience, hope I helped!

Ciao

the thing is, is that i never call him, he is one calling me and wanting to know what iam doing and so on.

This guy sounds more like a jealous Scorpio!

Hey if you don't have a title why do you let him tell you anything about you you see and why. Tell him that you're not seeking his approval of you companions be they male or female. Let him know that when you want his advice on who to talk to you'll ask him. If you have'nt ask him for advice on who to associate with, since he's not entitled to it don't take his advice. Tell him have his own children if he feel the need to boss someone around.

I have exactly the same problem with my cancer boy he comes and goes as he pleases without explanation and as me being a scorpio i tend to just block it out. I never phone him, I let him do all the running, but he never lets me get close enough for me to trust him and believe that he is not just going to turn his back on me once again! This has been going on for about a year and half now and he is always the one breaking it off saying that he can't give me the attention I need. I wouldn't mind but it's not as if i even ask for any!! But once again he has proved me right and i'm in the same position as i have been every couple of months. I'm fed up and don't never know where i stand and it's beggining to hurt me so much.

Oh Boy, Here we go!
I am a Libra female in love with a Cancer male....I swore I would never do this
again but here I am......
When I was 16 to 19 I was involved with a Cancer Male....I think I was with
him mostly 'cause he was a savior from a very chaotic life I was leading.....in
the end...my life got straightened out and his went down the tubes....it is
possible that he only loved me when I was needy and then when I got my
footing he was very jealous about anything I did on my own...too bad but that
is what happened....

Now I am 40 and I met a Cancer Male that I really like/love....he was riding
along with me from early November until just last week.......he has some
stress in his life concerning an ex-wife (4 years divorced) and stress concerning
his 6 and ten year old sons.....

Just last week he was saying....we could live together and wouldn't that be
grand.......this week he is in retreat mode.....practically bringin our relationship
to a complete standstill.....It shocks me....I am a "steady as she goes" kind of
gal and this abrupt change in attitude sends me for a loop.....he says that he is
very slow to love and that if I am looking for someone to fall madly in love
with me after 5 mos I need to know that he needs a lot more time than
that......I didn't realize that I was coming across as someone who falls madly
in love.....so fast.....could it be that he is projecting his OWN feelings on
me?....when in fact HE is the one who feels he may be falling in love...and to
fight it off he makes a statement about me moving too fast?.....Any comments
from our Cancer Male friends.....B

I am cancer male - and I tend to move slow when it comes to love, but when it happens - I fall hard and deep. Sometimes, I too, retreat into my shell if I am hurt or just need time alone. My advice is give him some time - he will surface once again - and let you know he truly feels.