cancer men..please help

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Unregistered on Friday, February 8, 2002 and has 7 replies.

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@Unregistered
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iam a taurus and my now ex-boy is a cancer.. we have been 2gether for 2 years, we have the best time together and he seems to forget the good times and thinks about the bad stuff. we broke up over something soooo dumb. he stills calls everyday and i just don't understand him, and he told me that if i ever date anyone he would go nuts, and now that iam single and if i hangout with guys he gets mad. please help, he is soo confusing, why does he do this to me, and i love him soo much and iam not going to hurt him. i want to get back with him. thanks

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@Unregistered
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It sounds like you two need to communicate better. As a cancer male myself, I sometimes have a hard time expressing my feelings on the spot. I have to "chew" on my feelings for a while and then my actions will be the result. If it something dumb that split you two apart, certainly, you can work this out. If you love each other, TALK about it. Sounds like he doesn't want you to move on, and sounds like you don't really want to. Right?

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its seems like he does't want me to move and i can tell he is not, but lately he does't really seem to care what i do, when it comes to us! maybe its just takes cancer boys to make there mind up. this has happen before and we did get back together after 3 months. its like one week he does't like me and the next he wants to see me.

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@Unregistered
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He seems confused. As a cancer myself, Love hits me like a freight train and there are no doubts about what I want. I, myself, cannot be on an emotional roller coaster. It's not healthy. Talk to him, and ask him WHAT he wants. Cancers are very sensitive people, but very strong when it comes to protecting their heart. Talk to him. Good Luck!

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Hi, don't get all caught up on a person who is caught up on himself. He wants to see what esle he can get while he's single. If he comes up dry he'll come back so he wants to make sure you're there. Question is do you want to always be there? If so then let him know this in and out thing has got to stop. Either he's in or he's out. The one thing none of us can get back is time. Find out how much time it's going to take for him to stay put.

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I am a cancer male - and it suprises me that he acts like this. Cancer's typically love the security, comfort and stability in a relationship. It must me a "man" thing. My x boyfriend (virgo) pulled the same stunt on me. I kicked his happy a** out of my life!
He won't better!