sugaa
@sugaa
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Cancer guy
any advice? 🙂
For some reason it seems like he's playing mind games with you like he's interested but not really cause there is someone else.... I mean the whole story sounds kind of confusing.. But that is my take on it..
wait a litte bit on it, and yes he is playing with your head.
next time you see him, i would just tell him what he wants to hear, and then when he opens up (if he does), ask him for real what he wants with you. Now if you know for sure that he has someone else, I (in my opinion) let him go, because cancers take a while to forget, if he is in the process of breaking up, he might still have hopes up. Cancers are the kind that will mess with someone else when they feel desperate, and you dont wanna get hurt. So wait, and test waters.
period. it's you call on this, good luck!
next time you see him, i would just tell him what he wants to hear, and then when he opens up (if he does), ask him for real what he wants with you. Now if you know for sure that he has someone else, I (in my opinion) let him go, because cancers take a while to forget, if he is in the process of breaking up, he might still have hopes up. Cancers are the kind that will mess with someone else when they feel desperate, and you dont wanna get hurt. So wait, and test waters.
period. it's you call on this, good luck!
Im wondering why he wants to play head games with me.Is it b/c he thinks im weak....that he can manipulate me.?
It's possible we are known to be manipulative...
No, it's not because you're weak, but rather that he is. We cancers arent strong enough, or confident enough just to ask the right questions in a direct, clear fashion. Just think how the crabs move, by the sides...just like that we act. It's not a good think, perhaps, but that is the way we are made... So , head games, are actually our strange, annoying way of getting what we want out of people.
Give or take, just my opinion
Give or take, just my opinion
Sometimes i also wonder why hes so evasive with me,hell say "hes been gone all day",and ill ask "what he did all day" and he will say "with my mom.me.and brother"What— i didnt ask Who u went with but ,What you did.lol..i dont get it.He does have a gf,but he told my one friend that he's thinking of breaking up with her b/c she gets on his nerves.hmmmm...Im not going to play his little games..Does any one have any more comments??
Smack him around and tell him 'Bad crab! Don't you attempt to manipulate me!' la la la
Tauruschic,
Lol, I really should smack his ass around a couuple of times(oooo that sounds fun)lol,but anyways I confronted him about the gf issue this is how it went.
Me:Whats up with all the Lies__________.
Him:What lies?
Me" About how you and youre gf are broken up.
Him:We are
Me:___________ told me she saw you @________ with you and youre GF.(she told me this on Friday)he told me they broke up last friday or Saturday.
Him:Yea
Me: So then yall are still 2getther.
Him:........didnt write back.!
Me:Well im about to get off,if you want to continue this then you can call me right now ok,Take care.bye
He didnt call.
Then yesterday he didnt even bring it up, we started talking about love.
What do yall think his motives are— If hes trying to be with hes doing it in weird ways.
Thank you so much for yalls comments.
Lol, I really should smack his ass around a couuple of times(oooo that sounds fun)lol,but anyways I confronted him about the gf issue this is how it went.
Me:Whats up with all the Lies__________.
Him:What lies?
Me" About how you and youre gf are broken up.
Him:We are
Me:___________ told me she saw you @________ with you and youre GF.(she told me this on Friday)he told me they broke up last friday or Saturday.
Him:Yea
Me: So then yall are still 2getther.
Him:........didnt write back.!
Me:Well im about to get off,if you want to continue this then you can call me right now ok,Take care.bye
He didnt call.
Then yesterday he didnt even bring it up, we started talking about love.
What do yall think his motives are— If hes trying to be with hes doing it in weird ways.
Thank you so much for yalls comments.
Tauruschic,
Lol, I really should smack his ass around a couuple of times(oooo that sounds fun)lol,but anyways I confronted him about the gf issue this is how it went.
Me:Whats up with all the Lies__________.
Him:What lies?
Me" About how you and youre gf are broken up.
Him:We are
Me:___________ told me she saw you @________ with you and youre GF.(she told me this on Friday)he told me they broke up last friday or Saturday.
Him:Yea
Me: So then yall are still 2getther.
Him:........didnt write back.!
Me:Well im about to get off,if you want to continue this then you can call me right now ok,Take care.bye
He didnt call.
Then yesterday he didnt even bring it up, we started talking about love.
What do yall think his motives are— If hes trying to be with me, hes doing it in weird ways.
Thank you so much for yalls comments.
Lol, I really should smack his ass around a couuple of times(oooo that sounds fun)lol,but anyways I confronted him about the gf issue this is how it went.
Me:Whats up with all the Lies__________.
Him:What lies?
Me" About how you and youre gf are broken up.
Him:We are
Me:___________ told me she saw you @________ with you and youre GF.(she told me this on Friday)he told me they broke up last friday or Saturday.
Him:Yea
Me: So then yall are still 2getther.
Him:........didnt write back.!
Me:Well im about to get off,if you want to continue this then you can call me right now ok,Take care.bye
He didnt call.
Then yesterday he didnt even bring it up, we started talking about love.
What do yall think his motives are— If hes trying to be with me, hes doing it in weird ways.
Thank you so much for yalls comments.
TC you can always make me laugh even when I'm down, tks lol I love that "smacking him around" saying. Well, how I wish I can go and smack my cancer and tell him to put his acts together. haha then I should feel much better after I did, haha dont we love being physically haha
CB....so you are 44 and mature. My cancer man is 32 and I think he has yet to reach that level yet, just by the way he acts. Sometimes I wish I can just scream at his face and tell him to just spill his guts out of whatever is in his mind. I'm so tired of the guessing games.
And, yes to honeygirl, I think cancer are reallly good with manipulating ppl's minds. Thought he denied it but is he really aware the fact that he's doing it? He made it sounded like it's all unintention....
Well, sugaa welcome to the cancer world lol
CB....so you are 44 and mature. My cancer man is 32 and I think he has yet to reach that level yet, just by the way he acts. Sometimes I wish I can just scream at his face and tell him to just spill his guts out of whatever is in his mind. I'm so tired of the guessing games.
And, yes to honeygirl, I think cancer are reallly good with manipulating ppl's minds. Thought he denied it but is he really aware the fact that he's doing it? He made it sounded like it's all unintention....
Well, sugaa welcome to the cancer world lol
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